I don't know, I'm sure it's intense. ;-)
Your post is just......priceless. Really.
Let me inform you that not all of the world consists of guys walking around looking for hot babes to flirt and hook up with. Surprising though it may seem to you, even here in the good ol' U. S. of A. until just a few decades ago, most men courted a woman when they were ready to marry. There was no trial and error. And it was for better or worse. :)
Simple: between the sheets.
Akmed talks to Sharif who he knows is getting tired of his third wife cause she's already popped two girl babbies and no boys and tells him "Man have I gotta deal for you. The thirteen year old daughter of my second wife is available. She's hot man. Really developed ( universal hand gesture here) if you know what I mean.?"
Sharif though, knowing the girl is horse faced, drives a hard bargain. "Do not even THINK that you will get my Kalishnakoff for her Akmed. Usma across town has already offered me both his only moderately flat chested daughters for the Kalishnakoff. I will give you my old Smith & Wesson with the crooked front sight."
"And a full clip" says Akmed.
"Deal."