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Mary Cheney's pregnancy affects us all
Townhall ^ | 12/07/2006 | Janice Shaw Crouse

Posted on 12/07/2006 7:16:54 AM PST by Responsibility2nd

Mary Cheney’s pregnancy poses problems not just for her child, but also for all Americans. Her action repudiates traditional values and sets an appalling example for young people at a time when father absence is the most pressing social problem facing the nation. With 37 percent of American children born to fatherless families, Mary Cheney is contributing to a trend that is detrimental to all Americans who will live with the ramifications of millions of children whose anger and frustration at not knowing their father will be felt in the public schools and communities of our nation.

Mary Cheney is among that burgeoning group of adult women over age 20 that are driving the trend of women who don’t want a man in the picture, but want to have a baby. These older women are pushing out-of-wedlock birth statistics higher and higher. At a time when teen births and teen abortions are declining dramatically, older women are having more un-wed births and more abortions, including repeat abortions (indicating that they are using abortion as birth control).

Well-educated, professional Mary Cheney is flying in the face of the accumulated wisdom of the top experts who agree that the very best family structure for a child’s well-being is a married mom and dad family. Her child will have all the material advantages it will need, but it will still encounter the emotional devastation common to children without fathers.

One Georgia high school principal reported, “We have too many young men and women from single-mother families that don’t have the role models at home to teach them how to deal with adversity and handle responsibility. They’ve seen their mom work 60 hours a week just to put food on the table; they end up fending for themselves.”

When fatherless children get to be teens, the girls tend to start looking for love in all the wrong places and the boys tend to find as their role model the bad-boy celebrities of MTV, NFL and NBA.

As they grow older, fatherless children tend to have trouble dealing with male authority figures. Too often children in single-mother households end up angry at their absent fathers and resentful of the mother who has had to be a father figure, too. Typically, the boys who have a love-hate relationship with their mother end up hating all women. Numerous of them look for vulnerable women where they can act out their anger and be in control.

Mary Cheney’s action sets an example that is detrimental for mothers with less financial resources who will start down an irrevocable path into poverty that tends to be generational –– children in households without a father tend to themselves have unwed births later in life. Experts from both the left and the right cite a disastrous litany of negative outcomes that are predictable when a child grows up in a fatherless family. Such children tend to get involved in drugs, alcohol abuse, and delinquency; they tend to drop out of school and have teen pregnancies. An assistant principal in a Junior High School said that many of the behavioral problems that teachers face in the classroom stem from households without a father’s influence.

Mary’s pregnancy is an “in-your-face” action countering the Bush Administration’s pro-family, pro-marriage and pro-life policies. She continues to repudiate the work to which her father has devoted his life. Mary has repeatedly said that “studies” show that children only need a loving home. Her statement is incomplete because the experts agree that for the well-being of children, they desperately need a married father and a mother.

All those people who talk about doing what is best “for our children” need to get back to the basics: children need a married mom and dad. Children can do without a lot of the trimmings of childhood, but nothing can replace a home where the mother and dad love each other enough to commit for a lifetime and are absolutely crazy about their kids –– enough to be willing to sacrifice their own needs to see that their children get the very best.


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KEYWORDS: busybodies; dykecheney; highclassbastards; homosexualagenda; makeuptherules; marycheney; moralabsolutes; turkeybaster; whosyourdaddy
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To: little jeremiah
So fathers are nothing,...

I didn't say that. But then, you know that. Might want to look up "straw man" sometime.

241 posted on 12/07/2006 10:55:27 AM PST by Wolfie
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To: Responsibility2nd

Have you ever considered the possibility that it isn't your call if it's the "wrong answer" or not?


242 posted on 12/07/2006 10:55:40 AM PST by zbigreddogz
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To: ChurtleDawg
nice how you mention Jefferson in this context, who fathered illegitimate children with at least one of his slaves

Please cite references.

243 posted on 12/07/2006 10:56:06 AM PST by little jeremiah
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To: ChurtleDawg
I think the 'poster' would be more accurately depicted as a lonely young woman raising her child poor and alone.

....and before you even begin to formulate the words, I do have compassion for these folks. Not the liberal, "what's my feel good project for the day".

Sickening.

244 posted on 12/07/2006 10:56:26 AM PST by He Rides A White Horse (unite)
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To: Wolfie
Might want to look up "straw man" sometime.

Looking for fire, scarecrow?

245 posted on 12/07/2006 10:57:22 AM PST by He Rides A White Horse (unite)
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To: little jeremiah

The punchline to your strip joint story is priceless, and you don't even get it.


246 posted on 12/07/2006 10:57:44 AM PST by drjimmy
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To: ChurtleDawg
I have read of the controversy about Sally Hemmings, if this is what you're referring to. I'm not sure the issue (no pun intended) is settled. I head there might have been one child, and that the relationship was a mutual one.

Even if this is true (which, afaik, is not certain, but I could be wrong) does not change anything.

So you're saying his writings mean nothing since he was guilty of miscegenation?
247 posted on 12/07/2006 10:58:35 AM PST by little jeremiah
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To: Responsibility2nd
Our prisons are full of fatherless children. My taxes pay for that.

Oh, gee, why don't we just make sure that every child has one then!

We should outlaw fertility clinics that aren't approved of by our new moral government, who will make sure that the parents are 'fit'.

Heck, why stop there? We should just outlaw sex unless they get a government approved license. After all, if they are a bad couple and have a rotten kid, it'll affect me, so I have the right to make sure I'm not affected by their rotten kid. So sex license it is!

248 posted on 12/07/2006 10:58:50 AM PST by zbigreddogz
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To: zbigreddogz; little jeremiah
But I'm sure you won't even bother to acknowledge that I've just been proven right.

One person saying something lamenting that the past did not suffer our present day moral confusion is hardly a rousing call for immediate Big Gov't political action.

249 posted on 12/07/2006 10:59:44 AM PST by SoothingDave (Are you on the list?)
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To: He Rides A White Horse
I'll take on anyone,
Ain't scared of a bloody nose.
250 posted on 12/07/2006 11:00:00 AM PST by drjimmy
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To: zbigreddogz
Have I given you a book yet?

Well, here ya go....


251 posted on 12/07/2006 11:00:50 AM PST by Responsibility2nd (Abortion is to family planning what bankruptcy is to financial planning)
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To: ChurtleDawg

"old, victorian morality laws"

Laws such as contributing to the delinquency of a minor, public indency and public sex, sodomy, etc.

All those things should be legal, then, according to you. You must like Gay Pride parades, then, since that's all those things and more rolled into one event.


252 posted on 12/07/2006 11:01:10 AM PST by little jeremiah
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To: Responsibility2nd
She continues to repudiate the work to which her father has devoted his life.

I don't think this is accurate. VP Cheney has dedicated his life to the notion of less government regulation in the personal lives of every day Americans and less taxes. I agree with VP Cheney's views of government. I don't think that Mary Cheney has made a wise decision, but it's none of my business. Her choices are between her and God.

253 posted on 12/07/2006 11:01:27 AM PST by petitfour
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To: drjimmy

Indeed. First thing I noticed. He basically proved himself wrong and somehow was completely oblivious to that fact.


254 posted on 12/07/2006 11:01:29 AM PST by zbigreddogz
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To: Responsibility2nd

This is not fair Responsibility2nd is just trying to get the reply count up on his counter...lol.
PLUS, I have not gotten the book!!!!! lol.


255 posted on 12/07/2006 11:02:59 AM PST by napscoordinator
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To: Antoninus
Sincere question: Who raised you during the day?

My mom, my dad, my grandmother, and the school system. We also had neighbors with kids where we would hang out. pretty much everyone in my neighborhood had two working parents.

In general, do you think that having both parents work is good for children?

I think it's pretty much a wash. Everything being equal, maybe not. But everything isn't equal. There are circumstances where having both parents work will be more beneficial to the child, and circumstances where it won't. I will say that I don't think that it is inherently detrimental to a child for both parents to work. Which is probably where we would agree to disagree.

You misread what I said. It was specific to the Cheney case

I was just going by your post. Are you saying that in general, you do believe that career parents aren't "true" parents but just in the Cheney case, you disagree?

And sorry, I do believe that mothers who put their career before their children (except in cases of true need), while they may be "true" parents, have their priorities severely screwed up.

I agree with this. But I also do not believe that the majority of career people put their career before their children. It's possible to have a career while still prioritizing your children. At least I believe this.
256 posted on 12/07/2006 11:03:00 AM PST by Stone Mountain
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To: Responsibility2nd

Yes, you have already made your meaningless jester in an attempt to substitute substance with a jpeg, essentially admitting to your own inability to form a coherent arguement.


257 posted on 12/07/2006 11:03:08 AM PST by zbigreddogz
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To: little jeremiah; ChurtleDawg
nice how you mention Jefferson in this context, who fathered illegitimate children with at least one of his slaves

If it is true, so what? It is irrelavent to the subject at hand.

churtldawg's transparent argument is that if a human being has a flaw, then the floodgates should be opened to every sort of vice.

258 posted on 12/07/2006 11:03:21 AM PST by He Rides A White Horse (unite)
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To: drjimmy
Ain't scared of a bloody nose.

Good....because you are going to get one before this thread ends.

259 posted on 12/07/2006 11:04:28 AM PST by He Rides A White Horse (unite)
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To: napscoordinator
PLUS, I have not gotten the book!!!!! lol.

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Here ya go.

260 posted on 12/07/2006 11:04:39 AM PST by Wormwood (Proud Goldwater Republican ( i.e. persona non grata)
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