Posted on 07/02/2015 11:34:13 PM PDT by nickcarraway
DEAR MEXICAN: I'm a Canadian woman who has been travelling to Mexico (Guanajuato y Oaxaca, the cute places) lately. I travel alone and want to understand the "social" rules a little better. I was told by an expat American living in Mexico that Mexican men think all American women are sluts. (I assume that generalization extends to canadienses.) His theory is that Mexicans see television shows like Sex and the City and think it's reality. I'm acutely aware of this when interacting with Mexican men, and as a result am somewhat guarded, which I really don't want to be. I'd like to be able to meet Mexican men on the same terms as Canadians—sure there's a possibility of a little steam, but maybe we're just platicando, amigo-like. What are your thoughts? Do mexicanos think we're all sluts? If so, why? Do Mexican women/girls save sex for marriage? Does this mean I can never have casual sex with a Mexican man again, for fear of perpetuating a stereotype?
Una Canadiense Confundida
DEAR CONFUSED CANADIAN WOMAN: Noticias flash—Mexican men think ALL women are sluts. It's the Madonna-whore complex, comprende? That said, don't let pendejo heteronormative hangups get in the way of you enjoying chorizo—modern-day Mexican women don't, so why should you?
“Yes, too bad they weren’t like upstanding U.S. men like Bill Clinton.”
She sounds like the type who would have gladly Lewinskied BJ.
Hmm. What stereotype would that be?
I am reminded of
Churchill: “Madam, would you sleep with me for five million pounds?”
Socialite: “My goodness, Mr. Churchill… Well, I suppose… we would have to discuss terms, of course…”
Churchill: “Would you sleep with me for five pounds?”
Socialite: “Mr. Churchill, what kind of woman do you think I am?!”
Churchill: “Madam, we’ve already established that. Now we are haggling about the price.”
Let me see if I can rephrase what she’s asking...
“I’m a Canadian slut who would like to go to Mexico and get laid by horny Mexicans. Am I a Slut? Just asking.
Una Puta Canadiense”
Sorry if I offended. I certainly know a lot of faithful and caring hispanic husbands, I didn’t mean to put all Mexican men in the same boat. But the kitchen staff, at that hotel, they were all about getting laid regardless of whether they had a woman at home. But she’d be dead had she tried the same.
I know there are plenty of white losers like Clinton too.
I’m not offended. Just sayin’.
So “GUSTAVO” is really a feminist or queer abomination spreading lies about cultures and agreeing with a slut.
I think it means you were wearing blue jeans.....
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What about black women and Asian-American women from places like China, Korea, and Japan? Are they considered sluts by Mexican men, too?
How about Asian women from India and Pakistan? Are they considered sluts by Mexican men, many of whom look like they come from a very strong DNA Aztec Indian background themselves?
Note: I have a friend who lived in Mexico for awhile.
This surprised him: He was surprised how much prejudice Mexican Indians faced in Mexico.
he was also surprised how much Mexican women did to try to hide their Aztec Indian features, for example, by using special makeup to try to look more Spanish from Spain.
Note: Trump. I think that Trump went a little too far when he used the word "rapists" in talking about Mexican illegal immigrants, but there is no doubt, in my opinion, that Mexico, looks the other way when its criminals and deadly cartel members try to sneak across the Mexican-USA border to now become America's problem.
I think it’s because you are a woman... does not matter what you wear.
“Does this mean I can never have casual sex with a Mexican man again, for fear of perpetuating a stereotype?”
I rest my case.
When the Bronze Horde invaded my town (it is probably over 50% Hispanic now), there was a lot of friction in the local bars because the braceros would come in, get wasted, and bother any woman who wasn’t accompanied by a man (including female bartenders). I wouldn’t say they were “horny”; they were just rude and had accepted the fact that American women had 0 interest in them. Many of the Hispanic women themselves were working on their anchor babies, so they never showed up in any numbers.
Eventually the Americans paying them under the table ran out of money anyway, and the braceros moved on to greener pastures elsewhere (leaving their anchor baby bastards for us Americans to feed, clothe, shelter, and school).
That’s strange. I thought most Mexican men live in the United States.
America’s baby killing homophilic culture is no longer superior.
But it keeps exporting it to Latin America and the rest of hte world.
And Yes American women are sluttier,Canadian women are a smidgen behind and Mexican women are catching up fast. All young women outside the Muslim countries want to be “modern.”
Maybe they don’t like white women because they don’t breed like feral alley cats and are selective about what type of animal wants to breed with them.
"Why Do Mexican Men Think White Women Are Sluts?"
"Does this mean I can never have casual sex with a Mexican man again, for fear of perpetuating a stereotype?"
(Well ..... Duh!)
Mexican woman are taught not to look directly into a man’s eyes. Women who do are asking for sex. This caused many problems as companies like Publix insist that checkers look their customers in the eye and talk to them. When they do some Hispanic men think they’re being propositioned and wait for the women to get off work.
This woman should know that for many men of any nationality, there can never be any platonic platicando type of relationship, so long as the lady is not too fat or too old.
I agree....Mexico is a piece of cr**. We were there in the ‘70s. It was a pig sty then and still is.
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