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Trapped in Fear
Ricochet ^ | October 15, 2020 | Susan Quinn

Posted on 10/17/2020 9:23:04 AM PDT by CheshireTheCat

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To: CheshireTheCat
Paranoia strikes deep
Into your lives it will creep
Starts when you're always afraid
To step out of line, or they'll come and take you away

It's ironic that lines from a song by lefty Steve Stills now describes the situation created by leftists in America. Voice a conservative opinion, and you can be fired, physically assaulted, brought before a committee, denied admission to college, suspended, boycotted, or have your car or business set on fire.
21 posted on 10/17/2020 9:49:45 AM PDT by Steve_Seattle
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To: CheshireTheCat
I quickly suggested that we not go there in the conversation.

Also could have continued the conversation by giving her some stats like 99.9% of people under 50 surviving. 99.99% of people under 30 surviving. Plenty of hospital capacity the whole time, even in NY where they converted buildings into hospital and brought a ship in, both of which went pretty much unused. Teller her what percentage of those who died were in nursing homes and tell her the locations of those nursing homes, pretty much all in major cities run by dems. Tell her average death age of covid people is 78 years, same as average lifespan of Americans. Could have been followed up by a barrage of emails to her with links to reports of the truth. Videos of normal life today in Sweden. Article with chart showing low covid numbers where HCQ is in high use. Show WHO's list of essential medicines with HCQ right up at the top of the list. Worldwide HCQ usage stats pre-covid. Ask her why the MSM said it's dangerous???

22 posted on 10/17/2020 10:00:15 AM PDT by Pollard (You can’t be for “defunding the police” and against “vigilantism” at the same time.)
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To: Wiser now

I am a bit of a hermit by nature and do not know that many people and our family is small, so I am not in a position like Susan’s.

I am also not a patient person and am prone to sarcasm and harsh language, so I probably would not be very kind if I had a friend like the type Susan is talking about, but I don’t have the patience for Leftism, so I have no leftist friends, except one, and he from time to time admits he has been wrong about things.

However, my aunt has friends like Susan’s. My aunt meets the criteria for elderly, although she doesn’t seem very elderly, and has co-morbidities. But she is out living her life.

Some of her friends are still keeping themselves holed up. And these are people who are going to vote Trump.

Some days my aunt sounds like me when she talks about how ridiculous they are being and what she wants to say to them, but is too nice to say.

Other days, she sounds like Susan and is really sad that her friends, who are older than she, are seemingly living their final days in fear.

That is why I posted this piece.

BTW: I don’t expect you to know this, but maybe someone reading it will. Do you know of any website where people like your daughter who are in position to see facts on the ground are posting to report what they see (or are not seeing)?


23 posted on 10/17/2020 10:00:59 AM PDT by CheshireTheCat ("Forgetting pain is convenient.Remembering it agonizing.But recovering truth is worth the suffering")
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To: CheshireTheCat
I am sorry to be the mean old man, but here it is:

Whoever wrote this cry baby post is suffering from the same psychological problems that “her friend” has.

No well adjusted person cries themselves into depression over something that is truly a lost cause.

A well adjusted person will cut the hopeless case loose and move on..

24 posted on 10/17/2020 10:01:30 AM PDT by old curmudgeon (There is no situation so terrible, so disgraceful, that the federal government can not make worse)
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To: CheshireTheCat
when I asked if anyone had died. She flippantly answered that she didn’t think so. At that moment, I knew I had misstepped.

My guess is that, since the number of "cases" is much higher than the number of deaths, cases are more important to the "woke" than actual deaths.

Also, since her "friend" quickly got flippant and she backed off, well, this is how the Left wins: they can get "in our faces", but we must always act polite to them. To hell with that.

It's open war now and all through Trumps second term. The Left must be completely destroyed by 2024, if not sooner...

25 posted on 10/17/2020 10:02:28 AM PDT by jeffc (I'm a Patriot, and the media are our enemy)
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To: CheshireTheCat

This is pathetic. Just avoid Moonbats and hopefully they don’t breed.


26 posted on 10/17/2020 10:03:51 AM PDT by Cobra64 (Common sense isnÂ’t common anymore.)
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To: stanne

The best thing I know is to live a happy, faithful, fearless and cheerful life. If she is paying any attention she will notice how happy you hopefully are. Mention your joy at Thanksgiving. What great outfits you found at the mall. The wonderful new restaurant downtown. Live.

Somewhere inside she probably wants to be happy. You may, at some point, in an indirect way, get through.

Those who have chosen fear (and I do have sympathy for them. Family, doctors, the media and the government are mostly terrifying them) must see there is a better way to live.


27 posted on 10/17/2020 10:06:02 AM PDT by Persevero (I am afraid propriety has been set at naught. - Jane Austen)
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To: CheshireTheCat

You must say, often every day
I am not afraid
Fear will not cover me
Nix, the ribbon of night is only the end of a day
It is not the end of all
Life will go on
God insists – Be wary of evil
Those who suppress truth
Those who lust power
A fight against them must be won
28 posted on 10/17/2020 10:06:56 AM PDT by BigEdLB (BigedLB, Russian BOT, At your service)
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To: Steve_Seattle

You know, I think I will post a clip from this to my workplace’s Sharepoint.

They have been soliciting employees to post music they are chilling to while working from home.

Thanks for the idea.


29 posted on 10/17/2020 10:08:03 AM PDT by CheshireTheCat ("Forgetting pain is convenient.Remembering it agonizing.But recovering truth is worth the suffering")
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To: CheshireTheCat
"And there is nothing I can do to help—help her or anyone else."

Psych wards will be overloaded Nov. 4th!

30 posted on 10/17/2020 10:13:37 AM PDT by outofsalt (If history teaches us anything, it's that history rarely teaches anything.)
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To: Pollard

I wish my aunt could do something like this with her friends, but they don’t have email or the internet, so she can’t send them supporting documentation.

You are correct.

I have told my aunt, who does have a laptop and can use Word and the internet to a somewhat reasonable degree, to just start a Word doc of facts and sources to have at her fingertips and to periodically “study” them to refresh herself on them., so she can at least tell people about them on phone calls.


31 posted on 10/17/2020 10:13:44 AM PDT by CheshireTheCat ("Forgetting pain is convenient.Remembering it agonizing.But recovering truth is worth the suffering")
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To: CheshireTheCat

“I have known this woman for more than ten years. She is a Leftie.”

I’d have nothing to do with her. Anyone who works toward the destruction of our country, either knowingly or unknowingly, is no friend.


32 posted on 10/17/2020 10:17:59 AM PDT by kenmcg (tHE WHOLE)
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To: CheshireTheCat

People who only listen to MSM believe what they hear and see, just like we conservatives believe what we see or hear on conservative outlets. The difference is, those conservative outlets show us proof. (Not that there aren’t some “conservative” outlets that are nutso, but we can see the difference). So how do you fix someone who only listens to lies? My husband was converted to conservatism through prayer. He was a liberal all his life. We did not discuss politics, because it would result in an argument. So I prayed that God would change him. He always listened to NPR, but he began to get upset that they always sided with the Palestinians, no matter what. Then, on one of the comedy programs, one of his favorite characters made a racial slur against Indians. That tore it! (He’s American Indian).He began to listen to talk radio, and the truth was presented to him. He was “converted”. And now we can discuss politics with like minds, which is wonderful. Thank you LORD, for answering my prayers. So that’s my advice; pray.


33 posted on 10/17/2020 10:20:02 AM PDT by Flaming Conservative ((Pray without ceasing))
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To: CheshireTheCat
Sadly, I have had no success in reaching true believers. I spoke with an old friend I hadn't heard from for a long time about a week ago. He is scared to death by these a-holes, especially the execrable Fauci. He is convinced if he goes to a restaurant he will die. He and his wife haven't been out since March. These people are destroying lives and leaving the victims in an ocean of depression all to accumulate more power.

On the other hand, I have succeeded in maintaining sanity in my own family. One daughter trends liberal but works in the restaurant industry. She knows there is no epidemiological evidence the virus is spreading from restaurants, yet that industry continues to take the brunt of the Democrat Diktats. Also, no one in the family, including spouses and grandkids, has gotten sick. These people may succeed in making some Republicans yet.

34 posted on 10/17/2020 10:21:25 AM PDT by colorado tanker
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To: CheshireTheCat

I’ve always thought conservatives should become small publishers. A few thousand flyers don’t cost much. Make some up and spend a few days distributing them. Headlines and stats with a website that has links to the sources of the info. Do it monthly/quarterly or something. Mass mailing too perhaps. Target the suburbs full of Karens.


35 posted on 10/17/2020 10:25:04 AM PDT by Pollard (You can’t be for “defunding the police” and against “vigilantism” at the same time.)
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To: CheshireTheCat

Why help her? She is thriving within the reality she has constructed in her world. It is a form of sociological dementia. Let her enjoy it.


36 posted on 10/17/2020 10:25:39 AM PDT by Kirkwood (Follow your Inner Trump)
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To: CheshireTheCat

Don’t let their problems become yours. Let them fear global warming and covid. Live your life.


37 posted on 10/17/2020 10:27:18 AM PDT by JoeRed
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To: CheshireTheCat
The only indication of success I'm aware of is that when I've spoken with people about this I say something like:

"Just give me a minute to say something. My intent isn't to convince you to be unafraid of the virus; that you're worried or afraid of catching it is your business and it's your burden to carry. I'm only asking that you consider for just a moment what you already know: That fear and worry of anything over a long time can make you feel really bad; that fear and woryy alone can wear you down both mentally and physically. Just think what it was like just a few months ago when you weren't so worried all the time. Think about what it felt like and what it can be like to feel really good again ... not so worried or afraid ... just remember what that felt like and work on it. You don't have to be afraid unless you want to. You don't need to fear catching a "bug" that could make you feel bad for a few days but even if it does you'll get better, just as you've gone through many times. Just allow yourself to stop thinking about the damn virus for a few minutes, to let go of your fear and worry and start living again. Living in fear is no way to live a wonderful life in America. I really mean that."

Sounds hokey, I know ... but I've seen people's expression change even if only for a moment -- even people I've just met and started talking to. I figure I've at least given them something to think about ... an alternative to fear. And if they think I'm nuts ... well, I guess they can continue to burden themselves until they don't.

38 posted on 10/17/2020 10:27:53 AM PDT by glennaro (Know that a muzzle is a symbol of subservience, of self-degradation and, most tragically, of fear.)
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To: outofsalt

If all you have is politics then yes a defeat of your guy will send one to a psych ward. I wasn’t happy when 0 won but I absolutely refused to let him win by destroying my sanity. So all of us here at FR slogged through his 8 long years. FR was actually a beacon at that time of darkness. Regardless win or lose when you have a life that is more than worldly politics you have a rock foundation to weather the storms.


39 posted on 10/17/2020 10:34:31 AM PDT by xp38
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To: CheshireTheCat

People who live in fear while at the same time feeling brave enough to get enraged when you do not share their fear deserve nothing but ridicule.

Yesterday I saw two young men riding in a pickup together wearing masks. As they drove past me i made an obvious show of pointing at them, laughing, and shaking my head while maskless.


40 posted on 10/17/2020 10:42:31 AM PDT by wildcard_redneck ("Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither.")
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