Posted on 02/28/2005 8:24:39 AM PST by pissant
I wouldn't buy a used car from him. He swiped a lot of his work from some other guys in the field. He isn't nearly as good as you say.
Old Spice aftershave at that. The pretty stuff from the fancy dept. stores will only confuse the gals as to one's sexual orientation. ;^}
The way this reads, no doubt the latter. This loser is just interested in getting a lay.
Geez, If I wasn't a nice guy and hold the door open etc...my Grandmother would whack me upside the head...(Old school Irish Catholic grandmother)..LOL
There is no mystery to dating.
If you are looking for a woman with values like your own, then go where they are more likely to be and make friends there.
Be courteous, a gentleman, and see which respond to you.
Just having the nerve to start a conversation with a woman sets you apart from alot of men.
But in the final analysis, it all depends on what you want. If you want the kind of girl that spends more time on how she looks instead of how she thinks and what she believes then you have to meet her at her level, but I wouldnt waste my time with that type of woman.
If the woman shares my values, sees that in me, and finds me attractive enough then things might hit off. If not so be it.
God's Will be done in any case.
There's someone for everyone. I prefer guys who are nice, as opposed to being a hardass.
Essentially, this boils down to "women are stupid when it comes to relationships." And that's frequently true.
"Sounds like this guy is an obsessed idiot".
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I think he's just a good capitalist. Just like the trillions of dollars spent on feminine advice mags, there's a niche to be carved out for the guy who tries to turn Beta males into Alphas. Hell ALgore even hired a chick to help him over the hurdle.
Many are, but it's interesting how the stupid ones are often the most sought after. Says a lot about both sides, I think.
I was wondering when the woman bashing would really start.
Bingo. Same can be said for the dudes though.
It is.... I was all prepared to not like this article (I cringe from experience at the kind of articles about women that usually get posted around here) but he's got us figured out as well as anyone can.
Some of us Freepers explored this topic a while back - the choice is not between being a jerk and being nice. If you limit yourself to that paradigm, you won't ever find an approach that both works for you and doesn't compromise yourself.
Your view is immature - nobody is suggesting you be a jerk. It's just that clearly what is colloquially called 'being nice' produces underwhelming results. IF you look at it as an 'either/or' situation, you won't do well.
For a variety of reasons, women (rightfully) don't like what is commonly called a 'nice' guy because he has divorced himself from his sexual identity. When a male goes out of his way to be 'nice,' he compromises his sexual identity.
That undermines his sex appeal. A woman just won't get excited in a sexual way by a guy who isn't very sexually appealing. That's exactly how it should be - guys who are too nice are consistently rejected by most women because, when compared to their more unambiguously male counterparts, they are recognized as inferior.
There are good men out there who actually respect women. They're just a little more challenging to find.
Well, be sure to ping me when it does.
That isn't what he said. Read it again... and not just the headings.
I think they are using the wrong word (NICE), Clingy or Possesive is more like it. Most men don't like that either.
I know many women who have married nice men and they seem extremely happy.
Wouldn't help, some people think they got Gold in their Bloomers that a man should worship.
I meant YOU. You FReeper guys love to call women stupid and I'm sick of it frankly.
You should at least ping me if you're going to make such a snotty comment.
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