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To: BGHater

What a list!

THe sad part is that these are the FEW that were caught.

Expect more males to HATE women or think lowly of them.

Look at their first encounter with them.

These “encounters” reduce females to sex objects.

While some may chuckle ... these kidsare forever changed in a negative, emotional way.


12 posted on 09/13/2009 9:46:55 AM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God).)
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To: nmh

I got to do my Spanish teacher it was awesome I turned out fine


16 posted on 09/13/2009 9:49:09 AM PDT by al baby (Hi Mom ;))
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To: nmh

My bet is that this is barely 1 percent of the total doing it. And you know....most folks don’t really care.


47 posted on 09/13/2009 10:11:31 AM PDT by pepsionice
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To: nmh
...Expect more males to HATE women or think lowly of them.

Look at their first encounter with them.

These “encounters” reduce females to sex objects.

While some may chuckle ... these kids are forever changed in a negative, emotional way.

I found it hard to believe that the boys were being hurt by having sex with an attractive older female teacher. Isn't that every boy's fantasy and aren't young males mentally wired to have sex without getting too emotionally involved anyway?

So I did some looking for info online and came up with this:

From Cosmo Girl (September, 2006)
Featuring Richard Gartner, Ph.D.

HOT FOR TEACHER?

...But experts say that guys who have sex with their teachers are victims - and they will psychologically affected by the sexual experience whether they know it or not. “It’s hard for boys to think of themselves as victims,” explains Richard Gartner, a New York City psychologist and author of Beyond Betrayal: Taking Charge of Your Life After Boyhood Abuse. “But when it’s a caregiver, there’s a real betrayal.” And according to Gartner, the damage often surfaces later in life.

That’s exactly what happened to Brandon (name has been changed), a 24-year-old from Colorado. After becoming involved with his 40-something teacher when he was just 14, he thought he was on top of the world. “She bought me clothes, cooked for me, and gave me sex whenever I wanted,” Brandon has said. “I thought I had it all.” Brandon enjoyed the attention - even though it meant he didn’t have time for other things that most boys his age did. “I wasn’t doing what guys my age are supposed to do - having fun with my friends, experimenting with girls my age,” he has said. It wasn’t until years later that Brandon saw how that sexual relationship had affected him. He flunked out of college freshman year and couldn’t hold down a job or keep a girlfriend for long. And now, six years later, he believes his teacher is to blame for his troubles. “She said she loved me, but how could she really have cared about me?” he has said. “I believed her and I even wanted to marry her. But now I see I was just a creepy fixation for her.”

Gartner says the research he’s done on young men who have been abused shows they often have romantic troubles later in life. “Kids who have had relationships with adults frequently become sexually compulsive later in life, seeking anonymous sex partners or spending too much time on the Internet searching for porn,” he says. “Because they’ve learned about relationships through exploitive ones, they often either become exploiters or they take the victim role again and find women who exploit them in some way...”

58 posted on 09/13/2009 10:30:32 AM PDT by Screaming_Gerbil (The light at the end of the tunnel might be a muzzle flash...)
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