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is facebook for women and effeminate men?

Posted on 10/21/2011 10:07:09 PM PDT by mamelukesabre

When I first got pushed into signing up for facebook 3 years ago, I thought it would be a waste of my time. after a month or two, I decided it was kinda fun. Then I started hearing bad things and started worrying about security and my use of it tapered off. Now, 3 years later, I don't look at my facebook much but when I do, I notice two things:

its almost purely women that put things on facebook and make comments on stuff.

its purely women that are sending me friend requests and I have no idea who they are.

Is facebook dying off, drying up, wasting away? Is it turning into a ladies book club or ladies cribbage club? If so, how long before the same thing happens to FR?


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KEYWORDS: dog; facebook; fb; women; yes
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I abhor these social networking sites.
It’s like one big contest to see who can have the most “friends”

One woman told me she had 248 “friends”

I told her you have 5 or 6 friends at the most and that you haven’t seen or talked to the other 240+ since High School or the job you had 12 years ago...


41 posted on 10/21/2011 11:47:02 PM PDT by Rodney Dangerfield (The true face of the left that the MSM won't show: www.zombietime.com)
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To: POWERSBOOTHEFAN
Then there are those who can’t spell,capitalize and punctuate worth a damn. Go back to school!

You must be referring to half the posts of this forum.

42 posted on 10/21/2011 11:47:51 PM PDT by IDontLikeToPayTaxes
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To: Darkwolf377
You’d do better just sitting in your living room with your dog, enjoying the silence and peace.

Now there's a radical concept. No TV, no radio, no internet, no newspaper, no chatty neighbors. Just silence and a softly snoring dog. I'm going to try it--substituting my cat.

I feel fortunate that I avoided the Facebook trap. One of the reasons I did was because I didn't want to have to ignore friend requests from people I either don't know--or do know and wish I didn't.

43 posted on 10/21/2011 11:48:09 PM PDT by giotto
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To: IDontLikeToPayTaxes

No,just about some of the people on Facebook.


44 posted on 10/22/2011 12:08:37 AM PDT by POWERSBOOTHEFAN (Straight and proud.)
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To: Darkwolf377

I look at Facebook often. My family is spread all over the country and there are new babies and other family news there every day. I have few “friends” and send out an original post less than once a week, but I feel I have gotten to know several family members better, and have reconnected with a couple of old friends from college and highschool.

I have un-friended some people whose private business I did not care to know any more. But mostly there has only been upside, as I have gotten to know the young adults in my family better, as well as some of the retirees.


45 posted on 10/22/2011 12:10:20 AM PDT by married21 (As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.)
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To: giotto

One is only afraid of silence if they either need constant stimulation, or they care that others will think they don’t have enough going on in their life if they can afford the time to just sit.

I love music and DVDs and books, but silence is a luxury, and it is very energizing. Just turn out the light, and sit and don’t try to force thoughts to go this way and that, just kind of let ‘em happen. You’ll be surprised what comes along.

A variation involves music. I am a music lover, but I am like everyone else in that music is in the background while something else is going on, talking, reading, writing. Just sitting and listening—again, it is a real treat.

But the silence is like a tonic for the mind and spirit.


46 posted on 10/22/2011 12:13:24 AM PDT by Darkwolf377 (Obama: The stupid person`s idea of a smart person.)
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To: married21

That’s good that you can use Facebook instead of letting it fill your time. This seems to happen with younger people in particular, in my experience.

As with all things, if you can control it instead of letting be just another thing cluttering your life, that’s great. For me, and my life and my relationships, it’s just useless.


47 posted on 10/22/2011 12:15:21 AM PDT by Darkwolf377 (Obama: The stupid person`s idea of a smart person.)
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To: mamelukesabre

I enjoy Facebook. Like any other place on the web, there are good things and bad things about the place. I guess much of the value is in how you choose your friends.


48 posted on 10/22/2011 12:34:11 AM PDT by WFTR (Liberty isn't for cowards)
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To: Greysard
Trumpet Winsock Holy crap! I remember that.
49 posted on 10/22/2011 12:44:33 AM PDT by 98ZJ USMC
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To: Darkwolf377

“Obama: The stupid person`s idea of a smart person”

Also: The stupid person’s idea of a good person.


50 posted on 10/22/2011 1:10:17 AM PDT by awaken2spirit (When one fornicates with ignorance, the result of that union is chaos.)
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To: golux

And the ones I missed having and many of them still look great!

Dropped it about a year ago after the last big deal about some invasion of privacy thing.. again!


51 posted on 10/22/2011 1:34:33 AM PDT by JSteff ((((It was ALL about SCOTUS. Most forget about that and HAVE DOOMED us for a generation or more.))))
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To: mamelukesabre

I have no ues for Facebook.
I finally broke down though on the social networking and joined LinkedIn. It’s limited to business contacts.


52 posted on 10/22/2011 1:35:24 AM PDT by Fred Hayek (FUBO, the No Talent Pop Star pResident.)
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To: BigCinBigD

LOL


53 posted on 10/22/2011 1:35:35 AM PDT by JSteff ((((It was ALL about SCOTUS. Most forget about that and HAVE DOOMED us for a generation or more.))))
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To: IDontLikeToPayTaxes

Yeah, many still do not realize “spell checker is your friend”... and one who never gets mad if use it often.


54 posted on 10/22/2011 1:38:17 AM PDT by JSteff ((((It was ALL about SCOTUS. Most forget about that and HAVE DOOMED us for a generation or more.))))
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For some things online one seems to need a FB account, so I made one. I think I used my dogs information or some such. FB tracks too much, so I avoid it as much as possible.

I think FB can be a good tool to help extended family to stay in touch.

I look at lamebook.com sometimes, when I'm not wanting to think about politics. Some of it is crude but some of it is pretty funny. They gather the goofy stuff from FB. ->

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55 posted on 10/22/2011 2:00:37 AM PDT by Irenic
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To: mamelukesabre
Damn right! Way too many wimmin hanging around here on FR!
56 posted on 10/22/2011 2:01:41 AM PDT by tdscpa
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To: mamelukesabre

Might have something to do with the content of your friend list.


57 posted on 10/22/2011 2:16:37 AM PDT by jimfree (In 2012 Sarah Palin will have more quality executive experience than Barack Obama.)
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To: Politicalmom

“I’m educating many people on conservative issues, and about Herman Cain, too.”

Me too. For that, Facebook is invaluable, and people shouldn’t knock it.


58 posted on 10/22/2011 2:28:29 AM PDT by Do Not Make Fun Of His Ears (Bush called us "vigilantes." Perry calls us "heartless.")
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To: mamelukesabre

Ninety percent of the activity on Facebook is people posting pictures of themselves, and ninety percent of that is women. So .... yes.


59 posted on 10/22/2011 3:10:37 AM PDT by Rummyfan (Iraq: it's not about Iraq anymore, it's about the USA!)
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To: mamelukesabre
I like Facebook - I do not understand Twitter. Facebook is basically an aggregator of gossip, I suppose, with pictures, but I have met some old high school friends and former coworkers. Some of us pray for each other’s intentions, some share health woes, some post brag pics of the kids, etc. But Facebook is on the decline.
60 posted on 10/22/2011 3:37:25 AM PDT by Puddleglum
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