Skip to comments.WOMAN OF MY DREAMS?
Posted on 04/21/2012 12:42:50 AM PDT by mamelukesabre
I am a middle aged single guy with no ex wives and no kids. I've never been married and never knocked up no one. For the last 12 years I've been trying hard to find that perfect someone. You may remember me having threads on this very same topic. I recently had a couple of relationships with young asian girls and posted about it...only to have those threads yanked by the FR mods.
The asian girlfriend I broke up with and posted about is still around but we don't get along that well anymore. I found another asian girl younger than her but she is no longer in the picture. She decided I was too old. She probably had a point since she was only 26. Please see my previous threads about my physical fitness. I have been working my ass off to look 15 years younger than my age and I think I have pulled it off except for baldness.
Tonight I met a new girl and I am already in love. There is just one problem. She is a 20 year old law student from Estonia. She is short and chubby and wears very thick glasses. She is very old for her age if you know what I mean. I spent the evening dancing with and drinking with her friends.
We've already made arrangements for the future. I know I am a complete idiot. I can't help it. I will be working out extra hard now and suffering more from tendonitis than I ever have in my life.
I actually wish I really was making this up.
It's a pity that society has devolved to such a point, but that's where it is for a growing segment of society. Aggressive feminism poisons male-female relations, making it a constant power struggle. Remove the sense of ownership and entitlement, and the power struggle recedes.
My understanding is that women rebel against the “exclusivity” expectations simply because it is typically assumed to only apply to women(or at least more strenuously towards women) and also that they naturally prefer exclusivity if not for this specific contention.
Therefore, I believe I have a marketable concept with my idea of a “FWB+exclusivity+marriage cert.”. My concept implies that the exclusivity works both-ways or no-ways.
Now, lets examine the “exclusivity” concept. Certain kinds of women are uncomfortable with the morality concepts that demand exclusivity. They do so because they feel these antiquated codes of morality were designed by men to help men subjugate women. If we separate out the concept of exclusivity from morality, then we stop antagonizing these kinds of women. Assuming these women have innate inbred desires of exclusivity hardwired into their brains(which I think is the case) I think we can convince them to go with their natural urges simply by removing the stigma(as perceived by them) from it...which is traditional biblical morality.
who’s == whose
I am not stopping anyone from doing what they want. I did not ask people their opinion. If you don’t want people’s opinion then don’t ask for it
Yeah, I could not see that working for me. You have sex with someone you explicitly do not fall in love with/have a relationship with. It’s really a myth both sides are trying to believe. There is no such thing as sex without consequences. If they aren’t physical they are emotional and/or spiritual.
I’m fine with it. You’re a Freeper, I’m a Freeper, three cheers for Freepers.
We are on the same side anyway, most of the time. LOL
So you are dating a 20 year old. What they hell interest is it of anyone?
If you are were a famous personality and wealthy they would secretly admire you.
Woody Allen comes to mind and most people I know seem to be okay with it and feel he has found “true love”. What do I know?
I’m not fine with nOOb moralists who probably are dealing with a lot of leftover and carry over pain and seek to diminish or marginalize others with their tropes.
They have issues and I won’t subscribe to them.
I somehow got included on this thread but, feel free to cancel my subscription to any more of your issues.
He did it all right. He didn't marry her. He didn't let her have a child by him. If she leaves him he owes her nothing, and she would be in the US without much in the way of skills that would maintain her at the standard of living that he offers her. She has lots of incentive to stay and make him happy.
Good luck with that, what you’re wanting is a conflict in terms, FWB made exclusive with a contract.
In order for this to have a prayer, you’ll want a woman who thinks and to a certain extent acts like a man, while still being attracted to men, and also one with a strong moral underpinning while being irreligious.
Don’t want much, do you, lol? Sounds like an Ayn Rand protagonist, but Ayn Rand was no joy to be around in real life; she treated her husband very poorly, cuckholded him right to his face, humiliated him routinely.
I can tell you from experience, it ain’t what it is cracked up to be
Catholics do family and no divorce pretty well. Well, certain of them, certainly not Kennedy, Pelosi or Sebilious
cuckholded him right to his face
That’s not exclusivity, unless I misunderstand.
Sure, but the merry-go-round never ends...
Honey, is that you? You never told me you had a Freeper account.
My daughter's only 14, but you're already making me worry about the future .. LOL
I’d sure like to try it.
Define use. So a person enjoys another’s company and laughs a lot in their presence. So the person who enjoy is basking in the feelings of enjoyment. The same person feels great laughing while in the presence of the other. So are you telling me that these positive feelings are not the impetus for reaching out the other for positive feelings in the future? We all use each other in different ways. The difference between you and I is that I am more insightful, obviously intelligent, and honest. :)
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