Skip to comments.WOMAN OF MY DREAMS?
Posted on 04/21/2012 12:42:50 AM PDT by mamelukesabre
I am a middle aged single guy with no ex wives and no kids. I've never been married and never knocked up no one. For the last 12 years I've been trying hard to find that perfect someone. You may remember me having threads on this very same topic. I recently had a couple of relationships with young asian girls and posted about it...only to have those threads yanked by the FR mods.
The asian girlfriend I broke up with and posted about is still around but we don't get along that well anymore. I found another asian girl younger than her but she is no longer in the picture. She decided I was too old. She probably had a point since she was only 26. Please see my previous threads about my physical fitness. I have been working my ass off to look 15 years younger than my age and I think I have pulled it off except for baldness.
Tonight I met a new girl and I am already in love. There is just one problem. She is a 20 year old law student from Estonia. She is short and chubby and wears very thick glasses. She is very old for her age if you know what I mean. I spent the evening dancing with and drinking with her friends.
We've already made arrangements for the future. I know I am a complete idiot. I can't help it. I will be working out extra hard now and suffering more from tendonitis than I ever have in my life.
I actually wish I really was making this up.
Hubby’s 18 years older than I am, just about flat broke, got a spare tire and I wouldn’t trade him for the world.
:-). And then there’s this . . . love. Awesome! thanks for the post my dear. Lucky, blessed man.
Did u work for the secret service?
Seriously dude. Im in the same boat. Don’t have any kids (can’t stand them). Do what you want and enjoy! I do! And wrap your pecker so that doesn’t change..
Damn straight that poor, fat old coot is lucky....LOL
is it me or is she mildly digestible in this pic?
Clean your glasses....LOL
It must be the pearls.
In the end it is a woman like you who is every man’s heart dream. A woman who wil always love his fat, poor ass! haha. My honey loves me through it all and I am truly blessed as well.
And he honored her offer.
And all night long
He was on her and off her.
Well, to be honest, sometimes I’m more like his worst nightmare.
[but I digress]
i think we lost the OP, but we’re having a hell of a time :)! He’s probably out getting laid sucking in the belly while we have all the laughs. haha
haha. Yep. It’s confirmed. Sounds like love to me :).
He’s a hit-and-run poster.
You should’ve been there for his “finding the perfect dog” thread.
What an auto-immolation that was.
great advice!!! nice touch on the secret service comment. haha.
My advice (I am a woman): Slow down and stop trying so hard! Be yourself. True love comes when you least expect it and weren’t forcing yourself to try and find companionship.
You can’t change anyone, so don’t try to. Move on if something about that person really bothers you, because if it’s hard to take now it won’t get any easier.
Talk to a lot of people and don’t have it in your head “Could this be the one?” Just talk to them as people, and you’ll know it in your gut as well as your heart if you’ve found true love. When someone seems like they’re
constantly trying to meet “Miss Right”, they can come across as a stalker!
Relax. If this new, younger girl you met is meant to be your true love, like I said, take it slow. Dinner, a movie, talk about common interests, goals, what do either of you want in the way of a family? If you find you have common interests and a love connection, date at least a year before getting married, if you plan too. Things will reveal themselves in that time,
good or bad. And if it’s bad, walk away.
I was 22 and maybe it’s a female thing but finished college and started thinking about the future. Before it was just yeah, your my boyfriend, but I
got serious and tried so hard to find the right guy. I took a job in retail to make some money while I made resumes and looked for a career. I was so busy I forgot about my love life! And then in walked Mr. Right! We had so much in common! He was finishing college and wanted a P/T job. I got him hired the next day! We talked about everything! He still says he can sue me for sexual harassment at the work place! Two kids and going on 16 years of Marriage, we’re still together.
One funny thing is I always said I loved the way he dressed. Later, I found out he would go into a high end department story and find a mannequin that looked good and request those clothes in his size! So he could never dress the kids when they were little, you should have seen what he’d have them wearing!
auto immolation! haha. dang. sorry i missed it. finding the perfect dog and the perfect young strange. no wonder he has tendinitis. dude’s a mess. If you have the link can you post it? I need a good life. Auto immolation. just hilarious!
great story and advice. thanks for sharing. love the mannequin details and ensuing fallout from that—haha. Definitely should still sue you ;).