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14 Red Flags to Look Out for in a Relationship (for guys)
Artofmanliness ^ | 1,31,2013 | Brett & Kate McKay

Posted on 01/26/2016 12:32:10 PM PST by virgil283

"You have probably had a friend who started dating a woman that really made you scratch your head. She was flaky, possessive, and high-drama. Everyone could see that the gal was toxic and really bringing your buddy down…everyone, that is, except your buddy......" Short video also..

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1. Shes a self-proclaimed Drama Queen . Beware of women who not only proclaim themselves to be Drama Queens, but also revel in the role

2. You cant stand any of her friends.

3. She says ALL her exes are jerks.

4. Shes a flake. Its hard to trust someone who flakes out on you all the time. Watch to see if your gal follows through on her commitments in all aspects of her life. If shes a flake with her employer, friends, and family, chances are she’s going to be a flake with you.

5. She treats waiters like crap. You can glean important information about a person from the way they treat strangers, especially those in a 'server' role like a waiter,

6. She expects to be treated like a princess. When one person comes into a relationship with a sense of entitlement and expectation that his or her needs should always come before the other person’s,

7. You argue all the time.

8. She gets angry or guilts you when you want to spend time with your friends. A good woman will actually encourage you to spend time with the guys, understanding that it’s good for your overall well-being, which is ultimately good for your relationship too.

9. She never apologizes or takes responsibility for bad behavior. Psychologists call the ability to recognize and take responsibility for bad behavior conscientiousness, and its an important attribute in maintaining a healthy relationship.

10. She has a bad relationship with her family. As the relationship gets more serious, you ll likely meet her parents and family. Watch how she interacts with them.

11. Shes not flexible. Marriage and relationship experts have found that flexibility — the ability to go with the flow and adapt to changing circumstances

12. You dont share any core values or life goals.

13. Shes violent.

14. Shes stingy with the appreciation. If your girlfriend rarely notices and thanks you for the nice things you do, such stinginess will eventually run your ship of love onto the rocks.

I ran into 10. and 13. with one girl. She was rude to her Mom in front of me and then looked at me and grinned. Then one night hauled off and slapped me over nothing... Wow was I ready get rid of her...

1 posted on 01/26/2016 12:32:10 PM PST by virgil283
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and if she does not move over to unlock your car door, drop here, she is selfish (see Bronx Tale for details).


2 posted on 01/26/2016 12:34:19 PM PST by Mouton (The insurrection laws perpetuate what we have for a government now.)
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15. Is overly psycho about her pet. You’ll be stuck with the toy dog in your face for years to come.

I get along with women from other countries for dating. Give it a shot!

GO TRUMP!


3 posted on 01/26/2016 12:34:33 PM PST by TigerClaws
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To: virgil283

this is really excellent sauce for the goose.


4 posted on 01/26/2016 12:35:17 PM PST by squarebarb ( Fairy tales are basically true.)
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or should that be gander?


5 posted on 01/26/2016 12:36:10 PM PST by squarebarb ( Fairy tales are basically true.)
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She revels in the “overly attached girlfriend” role... :)


6 posted on 01/26/2016 12:36:17 PM PST by MrB (The difference between a Humanist and a Satanist - the latter admits whom he's working for)
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Wife #2 hit on all 14 LOL


7 posted on 01/26/2016 12:36:34 PM PST by rockrr (Everything is different now...)
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16.) She’s the town bicycle.


8 posted on 01/26/2016 12:37:19 PM PST by SIDENET
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IOW, a narcissist. Another tell is botox and breast augmentation. I used to think that breast augmentation wasn't a sign but over the years it has proved a strong tell.
9 posted on 01/26/2016 12:38:07 PM PST by vetvetdoug
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10 is very dependent on the family. My wife has a bad relationship with her family because they suck. She does manage to have a better relationship with them that I do, I hate them, she merely dislikes them.


10 posted on 01/26/2016 12:38:14 PM PST by discostu (This is a different kind of flying... all together.)
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15. Wants to dress you.

16. Wants to change facial hair. (grow or remove)

11 posted on 01/26/2016 12:38:24 PM PST by TexasCajun (#BlackViolenceMatters)
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If she’s good looking, I’ll take a gander and give her a goose.


12 posted on 01/26/2016 12:40:24 PM PST by Richard Kimball
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Or doesn’t laugh at your farts:-)


13 posted on 01/26/2016 12:40:46 PM PST by Harpotoo
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16. Wants to change facial hair. (grow or remove)

If she has facial hair, I would prefer that she remove it.

14 posted on 01/26/2016 12:40:57 PM PST by thesharkboy (posting without reading the article since 1998)
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It seems that Hillary hit most of those points


15 posted on 01/26/2016 12:41:33 PM PST by Retain Mike
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If, on a first or second date, she brings up her meds -

1) Wait five minutes.
2) Excuse yourself to go to the men’s room.
3) Crawl out the window.
4) Run home.
5) Change the name on the mailbox.
6) Take your phone off the hook until the number can be changed.
7) Don’t go out for three months in your neighborhood.

Take it from one who knows...


16 posted on 01/26/2016 12:41:53 PM PST by Jim Noble (Diseases desperate grown Are by desperate appliance relieved Or not at all.)
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15. Her name wasn’t always Caitlyn.


17 posted on 01/26/2016 12:43:55 PM PST by Ken H
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18: Show off her tats in her mugshot.
18 posted on 01/26/2016 12:43:59 PM PST by frankenMonkey
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To: Jim Noble

If she ever uses the word misogyny, run, run, run.


19 posted on 01/26/2016 12:44:13 PM PST by Richard Kimball
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To: TigerClaws

EXACTLY correct..!

In Japan they are treating dogs MUCH better than kids, and in a few cases it’s clearly pathology.

Ever go to a DOG onsen (hot springs)..? I have.

Ever see a DOG SCUBA suit..? I have.

Ever see a complete baseball uniform for a DOG? I have.

The weird thing is I ADORE DOGS.

And yet, the level these women are taking it to is CLEARLY pathological.

They are making dogs into substitute KIDS.


20 posted on 01/26/2016 12:44:32 PM PST by gaijin
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