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Male professor won’t apologize over lingerie ‘joke’ to Merrimack College professor
https://www.boston.com/ ^ | 5/7/18 | OLGA R. RODRIGUEZ

Posted on 05/09/2018 6:25:43 PM PDT by BBell

"In my view, this is not only a frivolous complaint but one that is damaging to serious issues of discrimination and misogyny."

Students on the campus of Merrimack College. –Jim Davis / The Boston Globe, File

SAN FRANCISCO (AP) — A male political theory professor said Friday he won’t apologize to a female gender studies professor for a joke about “ladies’ lingerie” he made while both were riding in a crowded elevator. The public spat comes amid heightened sensitivity to sexual misconduct propelled by the #MeToo movement.

Professor Ned Lebow, who teaches political theory at King’s College London, told The Associated Press that he has refused to apologize because he did nothing wrong and because a complaint filed by Professor Simona Sharoni against him with the International Studies Association is “frivolous.”

Sharoni, a professor of women’s and gender studies at Merrimack College in Massachusetts, said in a complaint she filed last month that she was standing near the elevator at a San Francisco hotel and she offered to press the elevator buttons when Lebow “said with a smile on his face, ‘women’s lingerie’ and all his buddies laughed.”

She said she froze and didn’t confront him. As the men walked out of the elevator, the only other woman in the elevator turned to her and told her maybe they should have spoken up. They said it is no longer acceptable to make such jokes.

“As a survivor of sexual harassment in the academy, I am quite shaken by this incident,” Sharoni wrote.

Hours after the April 5 encounter, she filed a complaint with Mark Boyer, the executive director of ISA, which was hosting the annual conference on international relations studies.

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TOPICS: Education; Society
KEYWORDS: lingerie; male; merrimackcollege; professor
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To: BobL

I’m assuming she would not like the lyrics to “Suffragette City” by David Bowie, nor would she appreciate the fact that there is a low mountain peak in my state called “Squaw Tit.”

If I mentioned either on the subway, and she was within earshot, she would no doubt report me as well.

Sigh ... so much grievance and outrage to display, so little time.


61 posted on 05/09/2018 7:47:17 PM PDT by tom h
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To: BBell

She’s impaired ergo she was victimized. She haz no sense af der humor, vhy? Dast izt soo funny? Aff mit yer haid for laffin!


62 posted on 05/09/2018 7:48:04 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (Ads for Chappaquiddick warn of scenes of tobacco use. What about the hazards of drunk driving?)
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To: FatherofFive

Why talk when you can manspread then put the button fir the next floor and let out a loud fart?


63 posted on 05/09/2018 7:50:11 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (Ads for Chappaquiddick warn of scenes of tobacco use. What about the hazards of drunk driving?)
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To: kdot

I have to wonder if he was intentionally jerking her chain. He probably knew who she was.


64 posted on 05/09/2018 7:53:39 PM PDT by BBell (calm down and eat your sandwiches)
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To: poinq

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2wdv43

go to 5:20


65 posted on 05/09/2018 7:54:23 PM PDT by mountn man (The Pleasure You Get From Life, Is Equal To The Attitude You Put Into It)
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To: PubliusMM

The emotional blackmail tactics only work as long as people remain empathetic.

These cry-bullies are destroying empathy by burning people, individually and en masse.

It also destroys any credibility for the “we’re better because we’re more caring, understanding, communicative”.

No, you’re not.

Not when you won’t stand in that moment and say, “I’m offended”.

Not when you won’t bother to care about the other side and engage in projection, assuming the disagreement or misunderstanding is only due to “they hate us/ fear us/ are crazy/stupid/evil”.

Not when you don’t care about the proportionality. Bad joke or rude comment, liberal bullies will form a digital or actual lynch mob, destroying someone’s career, taking away their livelihood, not caring if the person ends up homeless and isolated. Not caring if the punishment is FAIR.

Just tear them to pieces, the degree of the offense or actual guilt is irrelevant. It is seen as appropriate because someone officially oppressed is offended and their friends and a thousand strangers can join in the bullying, enabled by moral cover and egged on by their friends to be ever more cruel. Then move on to the next target of the day’s 2 minute hate, never caring to check on the status of the target weeks or months later.

I will give Jon Ronson credit in his TED talk for being the first to actually DO that.
https://www.ted.com/talks/jon_ronson_what_happens_when_online_shaming_spirals_out_of_control

And liberals still excuse it as “well, if we do that and it is too much, maybe we guaranteed no one else will commit blasphemy”.


66 posted on 05/09/2018 7:56:42 PM PDT by tbw2
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To: BBell

The college should be sued for not having a “safe space” elevator.


67 posted on 05/09/2018 7:58:49 PM PDT by pke
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To: tom h

“Squaw Tit”, have not heard that in a while. I have hit every 4WD trail out there. Indian Chief mine was a good exploring route.

I have the NAD 27 maps of the ranges. Lots of good finds including Dodge bros target vehicles. :^)


68 posted on 05/09/2018 7:59:18 PM PDT by eyedigress ((Old storm chaser from the west))
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To: BBell

To get this off his back, he just has to say he meant, ‘men’s lingerie’.


69 posted on 05/09/2018 8:18:05 PM PDT by aimhigh (1 John 3:23)
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To: poinq

70 posted on 05/09/2018 8:21:49 PM PDT by mountn man (The Pleasure You Get From Life, Is Equal To The Attitude You Put Into It)
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To: Governor Dinwiddie
Merrimack is a Catholic college, btw. Last time I saw anything about it was some Central/South American grad student was stealing Romney (Trump?) signs off private lawns.

Nice that the school admitted a foreigner to steal both property and 1st Amendment rights from citizens.

Sharoni was at SUNY Plattsburgh? I wonder if she had Carlos Danger (A Weiner) as a student?

Given the titles of her books, not surprised she also has bastions of leftism, Evergreen and American U. on her resume.

71 posted on 05/09/2018 8:25:54 PM PDT by Calvin Locke
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To: WashingtonSource

There is no fun in Leftistland. Liberalism is serious business (as well as a mental disorder).


72 posted on 05/09/2018 8:32:06 PM PDT by MagnoliaB (You can't always get what you want but if you try sometime you might find, you get what you need.)
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To: BBell
Odd, gender studies professors are known for their sense of humor.

How many feminist does it take to change a light bulb?

THAT'S NOT FUNNY!!!

73 posted on 05/09/2018 8:37:15 PM PDT by fungoking (Tis a pleasure to live in the 0zarks)
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To: BBell

Good news: donkey-on-donkey friendly-fire incidents are always fun to read about.

Bad news: You rarely read about them unless the donkey-writer is sure the donkeys are winning the culture war.


74 posted on 05/09/2018 8:39:38 PM PDT by BradyLS (DO NOT FEED THE BEARS!)
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To: BBell

If she’d replied “yes please, it’s one floor above the erectile dysfunction department” His buddies would have cracked up and ribbed him about it for days.


75 posted on 05/09/2018 8:43:58 PM PDT by Rebelbase
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To: americas.best.days...

That’s the problem. Once upon a time, you could apologize and make the effort not transgress again. But now, when the snowflakes hear an apology, they smell blood in the water and suddenly it’s an “incident” that needs to be dragged out and investiged and belabored and have formal report and a “frank discussion” and the apologist is hanging by thread wondering if they’ll be fired or shunted into a dead-end job.


76 posted on 05/09/2018 8:45:17 PM PDT by BradyLS (DO NOT FEED THE BEARS!)
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To: BBell

This is an old joke that likely dates from one of the Marx Brothers movies. That this woman got her lingerie in a twist over the remark is ridiculous.


77 posted on 05/09/2018 8:59:52 PM PDT by The Great RJ ("Socialists are happy until they run out of other people's money." Margaret Thatcher)
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To: All

So let’s review, no let’s not bother.


78 posted on 05/09/2018 10:02:00 PM PDT by Peter ODonnell (I've had it with Stormy Daniels, well what I mean is ...)
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To: BBell

Actually, that’s pretty funny. :)


79 posted on 05/09/2018 10:35:17 PM PDT by Crucial
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To: Lurker

Forget the sandwich. Just shut up and learn to take a joke.


80 posted on 05/09/2018 10:38:30 PM PDT by Crucial
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