LOL. You have been to my hometown during Spring break, but down valley. I grew up watching gay sex on the street (there really IS a gay convention).
Don’t forget I wuz borned in duh sinny....San Fransicko....
yeah, it was spring break and truthfully I was there for the weekend with my friends...Whooooo, happen to be gay.
Not the flamboyant type, except in private settings but they are gay never the less.
Hilarious and very talented guys.
We had a discussion a few years ago regarding marriage and it ended with them telling me how offended they were with my position.
To which I replied something along the lines “I recognize synthetic temperaments for their ability to manipulate others but, I am not swayed.
You want to normalize your lifestyle by legal and lawful dicta, which is not to say your choices are recognized as say la vie but, more regimented by penalty of law for the safety of your choice, while you throw said choice in our face all day long.
You cease being funny when your whole mantra or humor is merely about sex and cheapened to some backroom pejorative for it’s over exposure.
You are funny, witty, intelligent and a variety of other things that don’t make up 20 minutes out of your day, in bed.
Think Ellen guys. Bright, talented and very funny but, not when it became the sole subject.
Do you want to be seen as a one dimensional objectified term or as human beings who have value outside the bedroom?
Conversation changed as everyone’s minds started whirring with, probably, how they were going to pummel but, I had told them an immutable truth:
“You have value as human beings and friends”. “Your bedroom antics and carnivals....I don’t care to see”.