[najida]

Well, I know for a fact that when (some) women get together, especially after a few margaritas, they let loose way more than guys do. Some of the things we talk about would make most men blush.

OK folks, I must hang out with crazy people ;). And I won't go into detail, but all I can say is...be grateful you aren't in the dating scene anymore. There are men who, erm, want to drive Harleys when they are still falling off the tricycle. IOW, the are rotten in bed, but think if they do THIS, they'll be great! And I lay it squarely on the doorstep of porn.

What rintense said is true....whether it be in person, on the phone or on the net, when women let loose, it is AMAZING what comes out....and that is a major complaint I've heard.

Lastly, guys...
You wanna be the greatest lover on the planet?
Walk away from the TV and the monitor and pick up what the woman in your life is reading. Or go hang out on some of the chat forums that discuss these books. Call it what you may; bodice ripper, Housewife porn, romance novel...whatever. THAT is what her real fantasys are.

To this day, I'm amazed that men watch what they do, and ignore the obvious.

[PaulaB]

I also think it comes from fathers who raise boys
If a father teaches his son to treat women like the gift that they are from God
and to treasure them..
this would not be a problem!!
Boys learn how to act towards and treat women from seeing how their fathers
treat and love their mothers. I have 2 boys..one is already a teenager.
He watches every move his father makes
he is blessed that his father is an AMAZING man...
he then will know how its done when he finds his own wife.

[ken5050]

Aren't we making a big mistake is automatically accepting the statistics cited in the article as a given..Rememebr the Kinsey survey on homosexuality, which was accepted as a given for years...cited often by gay advocacy groups..and is now totally debunked and estimated to be as much as ten times overstated?

[Tax-chick]

pick up what the woman in your life is reading

The complete works of Thomas Sowell? "Sorry, dear, I'm just not interested unless you're a brilliant, 72-year-old black economist ... talk to me about price theory, and try to be a little more feeble, would you?"

Just kidding, excellent insights.

[Callahan]

When it comes to certain topics, FR isn't quite anonymous enough. Otherwise we would get some stories.

[Yossarian]

You wanna be the greatest lover on the planet?

Walk away from the TV and the monitor and pick up what the woman in your life is reading. Or go hang out on some of the chat forums that discuss these books. Call it what you may; bodice ripper, Housewife porn, romance novel...whatever. THAT is what her real fantasys are.

Feh. Walk away from the TV, sure, but rather than picking up a Harlequin Romance, I think most women would appreciate you hitting the gym instead. That's just my experience, your milage may vary....

[Lorianne]

Nicely put. I agree.

[Lorianne]

Nicely put. I agree.