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Call Me Irresponsible?
Accuracy in Academia ^ | August 17, 2010 | Deborah Lambert

Posted on 08/17/2010 11:01:47 AM PDT by AccuracyAcademia

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To: AccuracyAcademia

I miss the days of 6 party line phones and hearing everybody’s ring. One ringee dingee two ringee dingee


21 posted on 08/17/2010 11:55:10 AM PDT by WKB (Oil spill = illegal immigration -- Until we stop the leak we will never fix the problems.)
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To: Larry Lucido; John O

BINGO !!

And I fully intend to STAY Bleeding edge.

My grandfather, the only one still living from that generation, has an iPad we got him. He LOVES it and uses it more than he ever did the PC.

He just couldn’t bring himself to SIT in front of that thing on the desk for any length of time.

But the iPad, he takes it everywhere.


22 posted on 08/17/2010 11:55:25 AM PDT by RachelFaith (2010 is going to be a 100 seat Tsunami - Unless the GOP Senate ruins it all...)
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To: stuartcr
Can’t you just say on the phone, the same stuff that you’d put in the e-mail? Like, I’ll get it later and send it to you. Just sounds a little weird to have to psychologically gear up to talk to someone.

I watch my friends that are 20 years younger than me screen their calls like the school truant officer might be calling, these are the usual tattooed, macho, 30 somethings of modern America but their fear of answering the phone seems incredibly sissified. To me it is like looking out the window to see if you should open your own front door or not, or pretend not to be home.

23 posted on 08/17/2010 11:56:55 AM PDT by ansel12
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To: Larry Lucido

Sorry


24 posted on 08/17/2010 11:57:01 AM PDT by stuartcr (Everything happens as God wants it to...otherwise, things would be different)
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To: ansel12

I’m lucky in that I work with a very small group of people, and we don’t have problems like that. We can’t even use our cell phones at work.


25 posted on 08/17/2010 11:58:36 AM PDT by stuartcr (Everything happens as God wants it to...otherwise, things would be different)
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To: AccuracyAcademia
“Answering a phone call requires a certain amount of psychological energy, because there’s something confrontational about someone calling you. You have to gear up for it.”

I'm 52 and have always felt this way. Texting is much better than the phone.

Quick, clear, effective.

26 posted on 08/17/2010 11:59:35 AM PDT by paulycy (Demand Constitutionality Now: Islamo-Marxism is Evil.)
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To: stuartcr

You’re a good guy, but I bet you never crack a smile.


27 posted on 08/17/2010 12:02:05 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: RachelFaith

You’re not a slave to Pavlov’s bell, but you’re a slave to Gates’ ringtone? What’s the diff?


28 posted on 08/17/2010 12:02:37 PM PDT by ozzymandus
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To: Larry Lucido

If you go by what a lot of freepers think, I’m really a demon-spawned, America and freedom-hating, Muslim-loving, gay-loving, leftist, deceivingly-dishonest, psychic vampire, troll.

In actuality, I’m an ordained robot politician.


29 posted on 08/17/2010 12:09:19 PM PDT by stuartcr (Everything happens as God wants it to...otherwise, things would be different)
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To: Larry Lucido

“But John, think back to 1985 or so. The very answering machines you think are the answer (no pun intended) were deemed as of the devil by the cranks of that time.”

I remember early voice mail, on the office phone system.

We said: “what are the secretaries going to do all the time?”

(It turned out the good ones were learning to use word processing, which with copy machines were a big improvement over carbons).


30 posted on 08/17/2010 12:10:28 PM PDT by truth_seeker
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To: stuartcr

I meant that they do it at their homes.


31 posted on 08/17/2010 12:11:02 PM PDT by ansel12
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To: Larry Lucido
But John, think back to 1985 or so. The very answering machines you think are the answer (no pun intended) were deemed as of the devil by the cranks of that time. “I’m not speaking to a #$(%#& machine! If you can’t pick up, I don’t want to talk to you!”

It always gave me the creeps to be at a friends house and watch them pretend to not be at home when other friends would call, it made you wonder about all the times that you call, and they don't answer either.

32 posted on 08/17/2010 12:17:28 PM PDT by ansel12
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I am NOT a slave to Pavlov’s Bell.

No, you're just a slave to Pavlov's text. :)

33 posted on 08/17/2010 12:23:56 PM PDT by MEGoody (Ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.)
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To: ansel12

OK. I can’t use my cell at home because of lousy reception, besides, cell phones are too small to use comfortably for me.


34 posted on 08/17/2010 12:29:45 PM PDT by stuartcr (Everything happens as God wants it to...otherwise, things would be different)
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To: Larry Lucido
“I’m not speaking to a #$(%#& machine! If you can’t pick up, I don’t want to talk to you!”

exactly!! That's why I prefer answering machines. They let the person leave a message and let me screen the calls. The perfect answer.

Of course the fact that I only give out my home phone number and am seldom inside at home to answer it helps.

35 posted on 08/17/2010 1:36:40 PM PDT by John O (God Save America (Please))
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To: ansel12
I watch my friends that are 20 years younger than me screen their calls like the school truant officer might be calling, these are the usual tattooed, macho, 30 somethings of modern America but their fear of answering the phone seems incredibly sissified. To me it is like looking out the window to see if you should open your own front door or not, or pretend not to be home.

That does bring up a valid point. We have gotten so insulated by technology that most younger folks these days cannot carry on an intelligent conversation. They refuse to look you in the eye and seem lost without being able to type LOL every once in a while.

Used to be you could drop in unannounced to the neighbors and have a short visit. An "if they were on the porch they were receiving guests" sort of thing. Now we hide behind out drapes and our phones and our computers. No wonder everyone is lonely.

36 posted on 08/17/2010 1:40:21 PM PDT by John O (God Save America (Please))
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To: stuartcr

The only time I dread phone calls is if a telemarketer gets through my defenses OR if a long-winded relative or person calls me and I feel like I CAN’T get away. I was taught that phone calls need to be limited to five minutes, which is plenty of time to say what you need to say. Otherwise, they can be really intrusive.


37 posted on 08/17/2010 7:09:42 PM PDT by 1951Boomer
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To: RachelFaith

I can only imagine the comments as the very first telephones were introduced. People probably said, “I will no longer answer letters or telegrams. If people want to reach me, let them phone me.” We’ve come full circle back to pre-telephone days when we want to silently write to each other! :-)


38 posted on 08/17/2010 7:18:59 PM PDT by 1951Boomer
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To: 1951Boomer

I don’t think I’ve ever felt dread over a phone call.


39 posted on 08/18/2010 8:32:16 AM PDT by stuartcr (Everything happens as God wants it to...otherwise, things would be different)
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