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Don't Ask Don't Tell - a picture is worth a thousand words
Daryl L. Hunter - Perspective ^ | 12/17/2010 | Daryl L. Hunter

Posted on 12/17/2010 11:21:22 PM PST by Daryl L.Hunter

They say a picture is worth a thousand words, I think my graphic tells the story.

I grew up in a college town, San Luis Obispo CA, there was an active gay student union at Cal Poly in the early seventies and I knew lots of gays and accepted them. My best friend Barry, his brother was gay, and he shared a party house with Barry and it was a hangout all his gay friends. They were hilarious to watch, boys acting like girls and sounding like girls. There wasn’t a gram of testosterone between the whole group.

Unlike many conservatives, because of my early contact with the gays of my hometown I concluded that these guys were born way to effeminate to be 100% man. I believe most come by it honestly, and there is nothing they can do about it. That said, I wouldn’t want anyone that effeminate acing out a position in my platoon from a red blooded Iowa farm boy.

I am no anthropologist, but I have lived my anecdotal evidence and have drawn my own conclusions, as have many servicemen. Battle is for the macho and the macho fighting our battle need faith in the ranks of their platoon. Faith allegiance, assurance, belief, certainty, certitude, confidence, constancy, conviction, credence, credulity, dependence, loyalty, reliance, could all be in doubt by platoon member who doesn’t measure up measure up 100% on the man scale.

Is my position and the position of millions of others against gays in the military fact or perception? It doesn’t matter; our perception is the faith that we put on our unit members watching our backside and faith is too important to squander.

The chiefs of the Army, Marines and Air Force warned that implementing a repeal of the policy banning gays from serving openly in the military would be more difficult than a Pentagon study has suggested, challenging the assessments of other top military officials in the administration. Gen. James Amos, the Marine commandant, offered the most critical comments in a hearing before the Senate Armed Services Committee and recommended against a repeal at this time. He said the Marines would carry out a change in policy if Congress votes for it but said the shift has a "strong potential for disruption at the small-unit level."

"(A repeal) will no doubt divert leadership attention away from an almost singular focus of preparing units for combat," Amos said. "We asked for their opinions, and they gave them to us."

Nearly seven of every ten Marines in combat roles say repealing the policy that prohibits gays and lesbians from serving openly would harm their unit's effectiveness, more than any other branch of the armed forces, according to a long-awaited Pentagon survey. Forty-four percent of all service members said unit effectiveness would be harmed by its repeal; among the Marines whose jobs are on the front lines that number rose to 67 percent.

The Marine Corps' resistance has come from the top down. Former Commandant Gen. James Conway was a staunch opponent, and his successor, Gen. James Amos, says he believes it could be disruptive to troops at war in Afghanistan.

Our military stresses such martial virtues as courage, both physical and moral, a sense of honor and duty, discipline, a professional code of conduct, and loyalty. It places a premium on such factors as unit cohesion and morale. The glue of the military ethos is friendship, comradeship, brotherly love, trust and faith. The bond among disparate individuals who have nothing in common but facing death and misery together is the source of the unit cohesion that most research has shown to be critical to battlefield success.

If gays wanted to serve in non-battlefield positions, I would bet there could be an argument make for that.

It dumbfounds me that so many are willing to play politics in an arena as important as the one that protects our country.


TOPICS: Military/Veterans
KEYWORDS: dontaskdonttell
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1 posted on 12/17/2010 11:21:27 PM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: Daryl L.Hunter

Our Combat Arms must be the smartest, meanest, toughest and most lethal sonsabitches on the block. Enough said.


2 posted on 12/17/2010 11:30:55 PM PST by unkus
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To: Daryl L.Hunter

BARRY sotero? Larry Sinclair swears he had homosex with odumbi back in 1999.


3 posted on 12/17/2010 11:32:09 PM PST by TomasUSMC ( FIGHT LIKE WW2, FINISH LIKE WW2. FIGHT LIKE NAM, FINISH LIKE NAM)
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To: Daryl L.Hunter

This is simple: Our culture has been feminized to the point where many (a majority? see obastard’s election) have no clue what it takes to be in life or death combat. Hence this idiocy, gun control, etc. Short version: when your life is at risk, you fight for the other people there with you. If you are wondering if they are less than masculine (ie, gay) or want to #### you, then how the Hell can you do that?!

The real problem: The emasculation of our culture. Examples abound. The inevitable result? Short version again: emasculated cultures get slaughtered.


4 posted on 12/17/2010 11:52:25 PM PST by piytar (0's idea of power: the capacity to inflict unlimited pain and suffering on another human being. 1984)
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To: Daryl L.Hunter

I wouldn’t be so sure, given the history of Hitler’s SA.

http://www.thepinkswastika.com/


5 posted on 12/17/2010 11:52:54 PM PST by To Hell With Poverty (The War on Poverty is over. Poverty won. - Howie Carr)
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To: piytar

Oh and to be clear: This isn’t misogynistic. I had a woman friend who was 105 lbs soaking wet. But she was a marine. A campus area rapist made the mistake of breaking into her place. There was a lot of blood. None hers.

The point: When the sh!t went down, she manned up. But males who are by genetics or choice self-emasculated? Sorry, I’d rather have my marine buddy with me.

PS Yes, she was smoking hot.


6 posted on 12/18/2010 12:06:37 AM PST by piytar (0's idea of power: the capacity to inflict unlimited pain and suffering on another human being. 1984)
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To: piytar

Sorry, Marine should have been capitalized.


7 posted on 12/18/2010 12:08:31 AM PST by piytar (0's idea of power: the capacity to inflict unlimited pain and suffering on another human being. 1984)
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To: Daryl L.Hunter
Get them all into the same divisions and then parachute them onto enemy lines.
8 posted on 12/18/2010 12:14:54 AM PST by Berlin_Freeper (Stupid Obama still lacks the experience needed to be President.)
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To: Daryl L.Hunter
I think the military might consider accepting openly gay females (lesbians), but continue rejecting gay males.
9 posted on 12/18/2010 2:19:14 AM PST by eCSMaster
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To: Daryl L.Hunter

while I am against DADT, let me advise my fellow Freepers, being gay is no guarantee that someone isn’t lethal....being from NY, I was exposed to many, many gay guys throughout my days in show business, and some of those cats, who would never impose their sexual tastes on anyone, can be pretty nasty fellows....you betcha’ damn dangerous, indeed.


10 posted on 12/18/2010 2:55:13 AM PST by The Wizard (Madam President is my President now and in the future)
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To: Daryl L.Hunter
Nearly seven of every ten Marines in combat roles say repealing the policy that prohibits gays and lesbians from serving openly would harm their unit's effectiveness, more than any other branch of the armed forces, according to a long-awaited Pentagon survey. Forty-four percent of all service members said unit effectiveness would be harmed by its repeal; among the Marines whose jobs are on the front lines that number rose to 67 percent.

I guess I'm just a dumb girl, but, what is "serving openly"? Do they want to hold hands while they march, share a bunk or wear lipstick? Is it their desire to be introduced as gay Lieutenant Kennedy? What is it?

11 posted on 12/18/2010 2:57:37 AM PST by Razz Barry (Round'em up, send'em home.)
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To: Razz Barry

I figure they want the benefits for their “spouses”, the college paid for and the ability to sexually harrass others, while suing for discrimination and harassment liberally.


12 posted on 12/18/2010 3:05:01 AM PST by runninglips (Don't support the Republican party, work to "fundamentally change" it...conservative would be nice)
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To: To Hell With Poverty

... by masculine-oriented male homosexuals who hid their sexual proclivities from the public.

‘Hid’ being the operative word, such as in DADT.


13 posted on 12/18/2010 4:16:24 AM PST by greenhornet68
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To: Razz Barry
I guess I'm just a dumb girl, but, what is "serving openly"? Do they want to hold hands while they march, share a bunk or wear lipstick? Is it their desire to be introduced as gay Lieutenant Kennedy? What is it?

How about new uniforms???


14 posted on 12/18/2010 4:22:45 AM PST by raybbr (Someone who invades another country is NOT an immigrant - illegal or otherwise.)
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To: Daryl L.Hunter

Congress may dictate who has to be allowed into the military, but they do not make up the distribution of the troops. They can segregate the troops based on “tests” that determine their best “usage”. They are psycologically fit to serve here and not there. Put them all in one place and let them frolic all they want and leave the rest of the military alone. Those who are serious military will continue with DADT and things will go on as they are now.


15 posted on 12/18/2010 4:32:24 AM PST by McGavin999 ("I was there when we had the numbers, but didn't have the principles"-Jim DeMint)
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To: unkus

Going through battle though might change some things in the biochemistry. Might cure some things. No excuse for allowing it at all. I’m just saying, wouldn’t it be ironic if Sarah Palin put a medal on a ‘former’ gay who changed in war? Good movie script anyway.


16 posted on 12/18/2010 5:13:48 AM PST by Rippin
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To: Daryl L.Hunter
It dumbfounds me that so many are willing to play politics in an arena as important as the one that protects our country.

Doesn't dumbfound me at all.

Those who are willing to play politics in an arena as important as the one that protects our country do so precisely because because it's the one that protects our country.

They want to destroy this country; make no mistake about that.

17 posted on 12/18/2010 5:56:12 AM PST by DuncanWaring (The Lord uses the good ones; the bad ones use the Lord.)
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To: Razz Barry
I guess I'm just a dumb girl, but, what is "serving openly"? Do they want to hold hands while they march, share a bunk or wear lipstick? Is it their desire to be introduced as gay Lieutenant Kennedy? What is it?

Exactly and although Wizards statement above is true, it is perception and confidence we are talking about.

18 posted on 12/18/2010 6:42:01 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: TomasUSMC
BARRY sotero? Larry Sinclair swears he had homosex with odumbi back in 1999.

You have seen Obama throw a baseball, I don't think many of us would want to depend on him throwing a granade :D

19 posted on 12/18/2010 6:47:57 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: unkus

The Thing is, Gays have been serving in the Military Forever,the problem will arise now they will be allowed to prance around openly and that will lead to the Obvious problems,that is their intention ,arguing all these facts has NOTHING to do with it. Like Obamacare has nothing to do with Healthcare
Our so called representatives are selling the Country domn the River for Power ,Money and Influence ,Case has been closed on that for decades and Decades,we are Playing out the string and it is incredibly short


20 posted on 12/18/2010 7:00:09 AM PST by ballplayer
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To: Rippin
Going through battle though might change some things in the biochemistry

Yes it might but it may have taken a toll on the troops in the mean time as others in the platoon may have not acted as decisively as they may not have been confident of who was covering for them. This is about confidence and trust.

21 posted on 12/18/2010 7:01:27 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: Daryl L.Hunter

Nice article except for the “born that way” part. We get gays from liberal, perverted upbringings, most were probably molested to be brought into the fold. BUT, they can change if they want to, many have done so through our Lord Jesus Christ.


22 posted on 12/18/2010 7:03:20 AM PST by conservaterian (Sarah/DeMint '12)
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To: McGavin999
They can segregate the troops based on “tests” that determine their best “usage”. They are psycologically fit to serve here and not there. Put them all in one place and let them frolic all they want and leave the rest of the military alone.

If it was guaranteed that gays would fill positions in the rear (pun intended) that would remove the lack of confidence that would be probable with the soldier sharing a foxhole with a homosexual.

23 posted on 12/18/2010 7:11:42 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: The Wizard
being gay is no guarantee that someone isn’t lethal.

Jeffrey Dahmer, Andrew Cunanan, John Wayne Gacy, you bet they can be lethal.

24 posted on 12/18/2010 7:27:12 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: piytar
Sorry, Marine should have been capitalized.

Yes, Marines should be capitalized as well as saluted, sorry for the oversight, I was working on this late into the night.

25 posted on 12/18/2010 7:32:13 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: DuncanWaring
Those who are willing to play politics in an arena as important as the one that protects our country do so precisely because because it's the one that protects our country.

They want to destroy this country; make no mistake about that.

There is that aspect of it from the radical lib revolutionaries that are running things now but not necessarily of the rank and file libs that just are sympathetic to the homosexuals. Those are the ones that need to be convinced that unit cohesion is more important than political correctness!

26 posted on 12/18/2010 7:42:52 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: raybbr
How about new uniforms???

Do you suppose the muslims would aim for them first :D

27 posted on 12/18/2010 7:46:27 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: conservaterian
Nice article except for the “born that way” part. We get gays from liberal, perverted upbringings, most were probably molested to be brought into the fold. BUT, they can change if they want to, many have done so through our Lord Jesus Christ.

As with hermaphrodites, some humans aren't born with all they should have been.

28 posted on 12/18/2010 7:55:47 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: Daryl L.Hunter
Nice article except for the “born that way” part. We get gays from liberal, perverted upbringings, most were probably molested to be brought into the fold. BUT, they can change if they want to, many have done so through our Lord Jesus Christ.
As with hermaphrodites, some humans aren't born with all they should have been.

That's been my take all along. I talked with one gay guy about that and he said, "We're made fun of, denigrated at every turn and sometimes beaten up and killed. Do you honest-to-God think anybody would willingly choose this lifestyle?"

While some may prefer to go that route, I think most have been dealt a bad hand by Mother Nature. I believe that many people who feel that way won't publicly say so because the militants would claim "handicapped" privileges.

29 posted on 12/18/2010 8:18:56 AM PST by Oatka ("A society of sheep must in time beget a government of wolves." –Bertrand de Jouvenel)
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To: Daryl L.Hunter

those are generally dead before puberty.

it is a serious malformation that results in death. Surgical intervention is required. Even if they make it to 18, they would be medically unfit to serve.


30 posted on 12/18/2010 8:29:18 AM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: longtermmemmory
it (hermaphrodite) is a serious malformation that results in death. Surgical intervention is required. Even if they make it to 18, they would be medically unfit to serve.

My point is there are degrees of genetic abnormality, all the way from normal to hermaphrodite. Homosexuals are only halfway there.

31 posted on 12/18/2010 8:54:57 AM PST by Daryl L.Hunter
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To: Daryl L.Hunter

Right. But get a sense of humour. Pretty funny idea don’t you think?


32 posted on 12/18/2010 7:59:48 PM PST by Rippin
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