Surely if you are a smart man as well as a learned man you will avoid the dangers involved in a cross cultural long distance relationship that could most likely end up in betrayal. Hey, be like the late Lewis Grizzard go find a woman who hates you and give her your house...that should take care of your need to be stupid for awhile. Mosel Tov
I have to agree with you in some cases. People that go to “upscale” schools usually come out dumber than they went in, specially a place like Amherst. The smartest guy I ever worked for was a PhD Engineer. He graduated from the U.S. Navy Nuclear Power Program #1 in his class in the mid-sixties.