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You’re not ready to have sex if…
B.P.Terpstra ^ | January 20, 2014 | B.P.Terpstra

Posted on 01/20/2014 12:52:21 AM PST by AustralianConservative

You’re not ready to have sex if…

1. You think sex equals love. 2. You feel pressured. 3. You’re afraid to say no. 4. It’s just easier to give in. 5. You think everyone else is doing it. (They’re not!) 6. Your instincts tell you not to. 7. You don’t know the facts about pregnancy. 8. You don’t understand how birth control works. 9. You don’t think a woman can get pregnant the first time. (She can.) 10. It goes against your moral beliefs. 11. It goes against your religious beliefs. 12. You’ll regret it in the morning. 13. You feel embarrassed or ashamed. 14. You’re doing it to prove something. 15. You can’t support a child. 16. You can’t support yourself. 17. Your idea of commitment is a 3-day video rental. 18. You believe sex before marriage is wrong. 19. You don’t know how to protect yourself from the HIV – the virus that causes AIDS. 20. You don’t know the signs and symptoms of sexually transmitted infections (STIs, also called STDs). 21. You think it will make your partner love you forever. 22. You think it will make you love your partner. 23. You think it will keep you together. 24. You hope it will change your life. 25. You don’t want it to change your life.

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1 posted on 01/20/2014 12:52:21 AM PST by AustralianConservative
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To: AustralianConservative

Actially number 1 should be: “You are not married.”


2 posted on 01/20/2014 12:59:47 AM PST by HapaxLegamenon
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To: HapaxLegamenon

“Actially number 1 should be: “You are not married.”
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I would say that in a perfect world, but there is no perfect world, and never will be. We may very well be close to the end times. Our so called president is a perfect example of a decaying society.


3 posted on 01/20/2014 1:05:56 AM PST by AlexW
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To: AustralianConservative

“You think sex equals being friends.” should be in there as well.


4 posted on 01/20/2014 1:06:54 AM PST by Darksheare (Try my coffee, first one's free..... Even robots will kill for it!)
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To: HapaxLegamenon; AustralianConservative
Actially number 1 should be:
“You are not married.”
strange how that is usually omitted..left out.
this is just another circulation ploy..sex..sex..sex sells

5 posted on 01/20/2014 1:09:15 AM PST by skinkinthegrass (The end move in politics is always to pick up a gun..0'Caligula / 0'Reid / 0'Pelosi :-)
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To: AustralianConservative

I’m ready.


6 posted on 01/20/2014 1:12:54 AM PST by Berlin_Freeper (Mia San Mia)
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26. You forget your anniversary.


7 posted on 01/20/2014 2:39:31 AM PST by Gene Eric (Don't be a statist!)
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To: Berlin_Freeper

That’s the comment of the day for me for ‘hilarity’, and the “married” one for ‘soundness’.


8 posted on 01/20/2014 2:58:53 AM PST by If You Want It Fixed - Fix It
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To: Gene Eric

Thanks for starting my day with a laugh!


9 posted on 01/20/2014 3:01:22 AM PST by generally (Don't be stupid. We have politicians for that.)
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To: AustralianConservative

10 posted on 01/20/2014 3:07:56 AM PST by JoeProBono (SOME IMAGES MAY BE DISTURBING VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED;-{)
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To: AustralianConservative

Having been a young man once who did not get married till his early 30s. I can tell you unashamedly that thinking was rarely part of the equation except to think of what to say or do that would help grease the wheels to make it happen.

It was this biological imperative that drove me from my church at around age 16. If Star Wars has taught me anything. There is a FORCE that drives the universe, and for good or ill it exists just below the waist.


11 posted on 01/20/2014 3:22:34 AM PST by Vaquero (Don't pick a fight with an old guy. If he is too old to fight, he'll just kill you.)
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To: Gene Eric

My wife used to take my breath away. Now she sucks the life out of me. ?/s


12 posted on 01/20/2014 4:19:54 AM PST by outofsalt (If history teaches us anything it's that history rarely teaches us anything.)
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To: AustralianConservative

#___: You’re a child in 6th grade that hasn’t yet had a parental discussion but your school just explained most of 1-25 and confused the hell out of you as an innocent child.


13 posted on 01/20/2014 4:22:00 AM PST by logi_cal869
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To: Gene Eric

27. You forgot her birthday.


14 posted on 01/20/2014 4:23:43 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: Gene Eric

28. Your idea of foreplay is when she gets you a beer.


15 posted on 01/20/2014 4:25:12 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: JoeProBono

LOL!!! (Good one!)


16 posted on 01/20/2014 4:26:39 AM PST by Las Vegas Dave (The democRATic party preys on the ignorant..!)
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To: AustralianConservative

Some of us when we were teenagers only wish we were in the position to even need to know if it was OK.


17 posted on 01/20/2014 4:27:50 AM PST by VanDeKoik
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To: AustralianConservative

People - If you can and have the financial means - adopt!

If you can almost met the financial means - adopt out of foster care.

There are US Citizens - little ones - that need caring, conservative, and Christian homes that will teach them values and responsibility - the traditions of what being a US Citizen is all about...and don’t worry about skin color...

My wife and I adopted 2 children from foster care - one bi-racial girl and one little boy with CP...and IT WAS TOTALLY WORTH IT!

Make sure you look into this — save these citizens from being bounced around and toss in to dangerous situations...they want someone to love them and show them that not all adult our out there to harm them...


18 posted on 01/20/2014 4:38:28 AM PST by BCW (Salva reipublicae)
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To: BCW

Bless you and your family.


19 posted on 01/20/2014 4:47:01 AM PST by jch10 (John Beohner has got to be removed from the Speaker position.)
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To: HapaxLegamenon
Actially number 1 should be: “You are not married.”

I think a clarification is in order: "You are not married TO HER."

20 posted on 01/20/2014 4:52:24 AM PST by nonsporting
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To: AustralianConservative

I have always said “many girls are sorry they didn’t wait but not many are sorry they did”.


21 posted on 01/20/2014 5:10:54 AM PST by ilovesarah2012
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To: AustralianConservative

You have not had a vasectomy.


22 posted on 01/20/2014 5:18:49 AM PST by BTCM (Death and destruction is the only treaty Muslims comprehend.)
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To: AustralianConservative
RE :”You think it will make your partner love you forever”

What? Sex alone doesn't make that happen?

23 posted on 01/20/2014 5:32:10 AM PST by sickoflibs (Obama : 'If you like your Doctor you can keep him, PERIOD! Don't believe the GOPs warnings')
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To: AustralianConservative

29. If you think putting on a clean t-shirt and deodorant is romantic.


24 posted on 01/20/2014 5:34:46 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: BCW

First of all, what does that comment have to do with the subject at issue?

Second, is your hand tired after all that slapping on your back?


25 posted on 01/20/2014 5:37:08 AM PST by OldPossum ("It's" is the contraction of "it" and "is"; think about ITS implications.)
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To: AustralianConservative
You’re not ready to have sex if…

...You excerpt your own blog.

26 posted on 01/20/2014 5:46:41 AM PST by humblegunner
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To: BCW

God Bless you for the difference you’ve made in the lives of those two children, as if the joy of raising them isn’t enough blessing already.


27 posted on 01/20/2014 5:48:15 AM PST by Scoutmaster (I'd rather be at Philmont)
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To: Gene Eric
26. You forget your anniversary.

27. You insist on demonstrating that your wife is wrong (about anything).

28 posted on 01/20/2014 6:04:24 AM PST by SampleMan (Feral Humans are the refuse of socialism.)
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To: HapaxLegamenon

Nope.

Number one should be the answer given as number fifteen; if you can’t support a child.

As a matter of fact, the list should be at least twice as long and “if you can’t support a child” should be reiterated every odd number.

Is is an assertion that makes some freepers furious. They get angry when moral people insist there must continue to be legal penalties for adults who have sex with minors.


29 posted on 01/20/2014 6:19:09 AM PST by MrEdd (Heck? Geewhiz Cripes, thats the place where people who don't believe in Gosh think they aint going.)
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To: OldPossum

You try to keep a low profile — and no - I don’t slap my self on the back - I consider myself blessed that I was chosen to raise these 2 kids and that God intervened to make sure I wasn’t killed in Iraq so that I could provide a safe, warm, and financially stable household for 2 kids that needed a place to grow up — so why don’t you keep that low profile to yourself asshole!


30 posted on 01/20/2014 6:21:43 AM PST by BCW (Salva reipublicae)
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To: AustralianConservative

Blog-pimping is frowned upon here at Free Republic.


31 posted on 01/20/2014 6:39:31 AM PST by Bigg Red (O LORD, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth! Ps 8)
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To: SampleMan
27. You insist on demonstrating that your wife is wrong (about anything).

28. Your idea of foreplay is "you awake?"

32 posted on 01/20/2014 6:42:38 AM PST by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: usconservative

I been married 25 years. It went from choclate and roses to a slap on the hind quarters and last one upstairs gets the defib paddles.


33 posted on 01/20/2014 7:06:44 AM PST by EQAndyBuzz ("The GOP fights its own base with far more vigor than it employs in fighting the Dims.")
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To: AustralianConservative

The vast majority of America’s problems with sex are based on the lack of a single social system: a way for boys and girls to have extended association with each other in a chaperoned, safe manner, *without* distractions. This has to happen for long periods at frequent intervals over the course of many years.

Most people assume that such interaction happens either in school or in church, but the truth is that in either case, children are kept too busy to interact.

People who raise dogs know that if a dog is isolated from other dogs, it will begin to see other dogs as “the enemy”, not part of their human-dog family. At maturity, dogs will still want to mate, but it is much harder, because they are conflicted between mating and fighting. There may be sex, but no friendly relationship between animals.

Why should children be markedly different from dogs?

Perhaps a good approach would be treating it like a social “finishing school”, which is more like practicing politeness instead of an intellectual exercise of learning about it.

Everything about it is “boy-girl-boy-girl”, to break up the natural desire to segregate by gender. While on the surface it is all about etiquette and manners, in reality it is to accomplish extended polite interaction between boys and girls, so that they learn how to do so. And importantly, it is chaperoned, so that there are adult men and women there to act as guides and prevent rudeness and misbehavior.

While they are taught things, the emphasis is on practicing what they have been taught with each other. Table manners, polite conversation, courtesies, body language, the list goes on and on.

The end result is hoped to be that when they are adults, they will be able to politely interact with each other, have a greater understanding of the other gender, to act on better principles than impulse, and to take more than their own point of view into account.


34 posted on 01/20/2014 7:27:49 AM PST by yefragetuwrabrumuy (WoT News: Rantburg.com)
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To: AustralianConservative

I’m ready to have sex. Who’s in! Show of hands please...


35 posted on 01/20/2014 7:28:38 AM PST by Lazamataz (Early 2009 to 7/21/2013 - RIP my little girl Cathy. You were the best cat ever. You will be missed.)
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To: HapaxLegamenon

Actually number 1 should be: “You are not married.”
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Absolutely correct...but then “the love of God is the soul of morality” so that explains the corrupted path many American have chosen.

Pray that our nation turns back to God.


36 posted on 01/20/2014 7:40:36 AM PST by SumProVita (Cogito, ergo....Sum Pro Vita - Modified Descartes)
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To: EQAndyBuzz
Congratulations on making it 25 years and keeping the romance!

The charming and delightful Mrs. USC and I have been married twenty-seven and a half years (after dating on/off for 6 years prior.) There's much to be said for keeping up the romance and constantly "winning your wife's heart" over along with a hefty dose of humor to sustain a marriage.

I'm sure anyone who's read my posts over the years I've been here on FR (since October 1998 IIRC) certainly knows that Mrs. USC must have one heck of a sense of humor to put up with me! ;-)

37 posted on 01/20/2014 7:41:59 AM PST by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: Lazamataz
I’m ready to have sex. Who’s in! Show of hands please... Clearly you've abused more than your share of the free Government penis pumps ...........
38 posted on 01/20/2014 7:42:57 AM PST by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: Lazamataz

When I was in college the Playboy Advisor (Jim Peterson?) made a ‘speech’ on campus, and took ‘any and all questions’, read aloud without screening.

Mine brought the house down: “Who in the audience is a virgin against their will?”

Hilariously, dozens of hands went up.


39 posted on 01/20/2014 3:45:54 PM PST by IncPen (When you start talking about what we 'should' have, you've made the case for the Second Amendment)
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To: central_va

30. You haven’t shaved your legs (ladies only!)


40 posted on 01/20/2014 3:48:23 PM PST by Churchillspirit (9/11/2001 and 9/11/2012: NEVER FORGET.)
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To: central_va

“28. Your idea of foreplay is when she gets you a beer.”

28b. Your idea is redneck foreplay: “Get in the truck, bitch.” (The wife loves that one!)


41 posted on 01/20/2014 3:51:34 PM PST by CodeToad (When ignorance rules a person's decision they are resorting to superstition.)
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To: BCW

Re your post 30, such gentlemanly language! What a nice Christian you must be.


42 posted on 01/20/2014 4:22:28 PM PST by OldPossum ("It's" is the contraction of "it" and "is"; think about ITS implications.)
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To: HapaxLegamenon

In an ideal world, yes. (-;


43 posted on 01/20/2014 5:41:33 PM PST by AustralianConservative
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To: Darksheare

I like that one.


44 posted on 01/20/2014 5:42:36 PM PST by AustralianConservative
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To: Berlin_Freeper

Oh, my.


45 posted on 01/20/2014 5:42:57 PM PST by AustralianConservative
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To: Gene Eric

Now that’s funny. (-:


46 posted on 01/20/2014 5:43:29 PM PST by AustralianConservative
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To: JoeProBono

Point taken. (-;


47 posted on 01/20/2014 5:44:08 PM PST by AustralianConservative
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To: Vaquero

I hear you.


48 posted on 01/20/2014 5:45:01 PM PST by AustralianConservative
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To: BCW

You sound like a good person.


49 posted on 01/20/2014 5:47:14 PM PST by AustralianConservative
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To: AustralianConservative

You get pregnant by accident.


50 posted on 01/20/2014 5:47:22 PM PST by AppyPappy (Obama: What did I not know and when did I not know it?)
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