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Sexual revolution leaving American women plagued by anxiety disorders
Examiner ^ | Jan, 24, 2013 | Martha

Posted on 01/25/2014 10:06:17 AM PST by usalady

In spite of their advances in education and the workforce anxiety disorders are replacing happiness for American women. Sexual liberation was supposed to bring equality for females that expected fulfillment with the freedom to pursue lust without expecting committed relationships.

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KEYWORDS: americanwomen; blogpimp; communism; destroythefamily; disorders; historicignorance; idiocy; liberalagenda; men; mentalillness; nationalsuicide; psychology; riskybehavior; sex; sexualrevolution; sin; trends; women
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Instead of bringing happiness women are 60% more likely than men to experience an anxiety disorder over their lifetime and taking antidepressant medication to alleviate their distress.
1 posted on 01/25/2014 10:06:17 AM PST by usalady
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To: usalady

it did bring equality... now they are equally miserable to men and live equally as long instead of much longer like they used too.


2 posted on 01/25/2014 10:11:42 AM PST by TexasFreeper2009 (Obama lied .. the economy died.)
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To: usalady

My daughter is 29. Yesterday she received an email ad from the website Ashley Madison, which promotes “discreet affairs”. My daughter isn’t married and has no idea how they got her email. The point is there is a company soliciting married people to have an affair. I had heard something about them a few years ago - something about a billboard ad somewhere. I don’t think our society has a chance.


3 posted on 01/25/2014 10:17:32 AM PST by ilovesarah2012
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To: usalady

Maybe after 50 years they’re understanding that the sexual revolution basically liberated men even more to be able to use and abuse women to a greater degree, not be responsible for it (thanks to contraception and abortion) and, further heightened by the continued break down of families and self respect of, and for, members therein. So much for liberation and equality. Suckers.


4 posted on 01/25/2014 10:18:28 AM PST by john drake (Lucius Accius-Roman,170 BC - "oderint dum metuant" translated "Let them hate so long as they fear")
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To: john drake

Very briefly mentioned by Karl Marx and even referenced I think in Animal Farm is the idea that women will be held “in common” and available to all.


5 posted on 01/25/2014 10:21:40 AM PST by jjotto ("Ya could look it up!")
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To: usalady

I feel the same way when people pimp their examiner.com “essays” here on FR.


6 posted on 01/25/2014 10:22:11 AM PST by coop71 (Being a redhead means never having to say you're sorry...)
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To: usalady

There is loud guilt and quiet guilt. Loud guilt causes a person to feel terrible. Quiet guilt leaves a person continually like a shoe is untied and things aren’t right.

We have a generation of women ravaged by quiet guilt.


7 posted on 01/25/2014 10:23:31 AM PST by lurk
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To: john drake

U meen the Bill Clintons and John Edwards’ used their women? Shame on you. My lady friend had a big problem: Should she marry the man she loves or the one she’s living with? It’s tough out there.


8 posted on 01/25/2014 10:23:31 AM PST by DIRTYSECRET (urope. Why do they put up with this.)
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To: john drake
The so called ‘’leaders’’ of the feminist movement, Betty Friedan , Gloria Steinem and others were misandronists who left their husbands and as misery loves company, convinced other women they couldn't be ''full-filled'' in life if they didn't do the same. Society is still reaping the whirlwind of the bitter fruit women like this sowed.
9 posted on 01/25/2014 10:26:00 AM PST by jmacusa ("Chasing God out of the classroom didn't usher in The Age of Reason''.)
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To: TexasFreeper2009

“it did bring equality... now they are equally miserable to men and live equally as long instead of much longer like they used too.”

Well put; they ain’t liking it, either...


10 posted on 01/25/2014 10:28:59 AM PST by kearnyirish2 (Affirmative action is economic war against white males (and therefore white families).)
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Twelve FReeper-Patriots are now
New Monthly Donors.
Who will be lucky number 13? :)

11 posted on 01/25/2014 10:29:41 AM PST by RedMDer (Happy with this, America? Make your voices heard. 2014 is just around the corner. ~ Sarah Palin)
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To: john drake

Yep...the women elected a president to the WH who declared to the country that it’s ok to lie about sex in a court of law.

The pervert’s proclamations that blow jobs were not sex were broadcasted night after night into living rooms where young children were forced to listen. And the women backed the pervert.Is it any wonder that 20 years later we have gay marriage which helps to keep women unsatisfied?

The feminists caused their own destruction.


12 posted on 01/25/2014 10:30:59 AM PST by what's up
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To: jmacusa

Gloria married very, very late in life and he kicked off - who could blame him? She lived with very wealthy men all her life which, of course, subsidized her posh lifestyle - while the poor dopes who followed her advice are now living in homeless shelters, lol.

By the way, unless it was a hoax, she recently said that abortion was, indeed, a sacrament.


13 posted on 01/25/2014 10:31:08 AM PST by miss marmelstein (Richard Lives Yet!)
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To: DIRTYSECRET

Yep, given us men are basically dogs, and prefer the lowest common denominator in behavior. It’s tougher than ever for women to find a good man, given society had once protected the virtue of women and expected men to better behave. Society now has allowed women to no longer be in charge of making men live up to a higher moral standard and both now wallow in the slop. Sad. Very sad.


14 posted on 01/25/2014 10:35:55 AM PST by john drake (Lucius Accius-Roman,170 BC - "oderint dum metuant" translated "Let them hate so long as they fear")
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To: usalady
There is evidence that America’s present promiscuous culture is leaving in its wake increasing incidence of sexually transmitted disease (SDT) , teen pregnancy, abortions, and single or households headed by women.

Duh!

15 posted on 01/25/2014 10:38:10 AM PST by stevem
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To: usalady; All
People are still hung up about their sexuality.

I watched a one hour emergency room reality show while waiting to see something else on TV a night ago, and this one was like none I have ever seen. There were three couples who had a medical emergency while having sex and none of them would admit to having sex when the doc asked them what happened.

One couple were trying to have sex in a tree and a branch broke and the male fell 20 feet to the ground. Part of the tree had caught him and split his thigh and there was blood coming from his penis area. The girl got out of tree, put her clothes on and helped get the male in pants and shirt and she went to hospital. It took 20 stitches in his thigh to close that and the blood from the penis area was from his scrotum and the doc treated that without having to put stitches in. Doc said it was strange that his pants didn't protect his leg from that long cut. They finally admitted they were nude in the tree.

Another couple were having sex in their room in Las Vegas and the air conditioner wasn't working. At the time of the climax of the male, he feel unconscious. The girl had to call 911 but wouldn't say they were having sex. She said she came into the room and he was like that. The doc kept asking questions because this fainting made no sense. They finally admitted they were having sex and he fainted. Doc said okay, the room was really hot and the male’s temp. had gone up due to having sex and at the point he fainted, there was not enough blood getting to his brain.

Another couple was an Asian couple but the girl came in with her father. Her jaws were locked open. Doc asked her what happened and she shook her head because she couldn't talk and the father didn't know why it happened. Doc asked if she opened her mouth too wide when trying to eat, she nodded no, he asked if she opened her mouth wide when she yawned and she shook her head yes.

In the bed next to her bed with a curtain between them was an Asian young man with a dislocated shoulder. The father and girl were having a physical confrontation since the father saw on her phone she was texting to a young man he told her to stay away from. In their tussle, the curtain got torn down and the father saw the Asian young man in that bed and he went wild.

In the end, the doc and nurse determined the Asian young man had climbed through her window and they were having sex and the girl went down on the man and opened her mouth too wide and the jaw went out of place. The father heard noise coming from her bedroom and he was headed in there. The young man started climbing out the window and fell and dislocated his shoulder when he fell.

The doc got the girl's jaw back in place and the man's shoulder back in place. The doc was great and said at the end that he had seen everything in an emergency room and he never believed a person's explanation if the injury could have happened from sex. He always kept that in the back of his mind as a cause until he knew it wasn't true. He said people will not admit to having sex even if that was what they were doing at the time.

So, people still have a problem admitting they have sex.

16 posted on 01/25/2014 10:41:55 AM PST by Marcella ((Prepping can save your life today. I am a Christian, not a Muslim.))
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To: jjotto
Interesting point.....I am in early 70s, and now I see the long term effects of the 60s.....women in their mid 60s, are sexually crazy, they track down men, like a hungry lioness....one conclusion, I arrived at is that women want to be community property...fresh blood around the next corner...
17 posted on 01/25/2014 10:42:30 AM PST by B212
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To: usalady

Good post. Everything the left wants to do always turns out as the exact opposite.

Without exception.


18 posted on 01/25/2014 10:42:57 AM PST by reasonisfaith ("...because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved." (2 Thessalonians))
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To: usalady

I have become reasonably certain that EVERYTHING leaves women plagued by an anxiety disorder.


19 posted on 01/25/2014 10:46:25 AM PST by TalBlack
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To: miss marmelstein

Hello Miss Marmelstein, Happy New year. Yeah, Gloria also said at the time of Bill Clinton’s ‘’Monica Lewinsky’’ thing that a powerful man was ‘’entitled to one free grope’’. The woman is an idiot. I remember in the early ‘80s I was working with the construction union I belonged to at the time renovating a building on the corner of Sixth Ave. and 42nd St.(right next to the Grace Building) when who comes strolling down 42nd but Miss “Womens Lib’’ herself, old Gloria. What a puss she had on. You’d have thought she’d been dragged out of bed and thrown into a cold shower!


20 posted on 01/25/2014 10:51:18 AM PST by jmacusa ("Chasing God out of the classroom didn't usher in The Age of Reason''.)
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To: JRandomFreeper

Ping to my post 16 for unusual emergency room medical problems.


21 posted on 01/25/2014 10:51:44 AM PST by Marcella ((Prepping can save your life today. I am a Christian, not a Muslim.))
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To: john drake

“Maybe after 50 years they’re understanding that the sexual revolution basically liberated men even more to be able to use and abuse women to a greater degree, not be responsible for it (thanks to contraception and abortion) and, further heightened by the continued break down of families and self respect of, and for, members therein. So much for liberation and equality. Suckers.”

Kinda sounds like an entire CHAPTER out of the Commie Handbook, doesn’t it? I can think of at least 6 line items of The Communist Manifesto that apply to my ‘liberation.’

Um...No, Thanks!


22 posted on 01/25/2014 10:53:40 AM PST by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust Post-Apocalyptic skill set...)
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To: Marcella

The sexual repression theory is a lie.

Marxists and other sociopaths use it as a tool, knowing how effective it is to dismantle the family.

The truth is: sex is private. Not repressed. Just private.

No monogamous married couple needs to hide the fact that they have a private sexual life.

Sex outside of marriage, in whatever form, inclines it participants to want to hide it. Due to its inherent immoral nature.

The more a culture promotes nontraditional extramarital sex, the more it progresses toward destruction.


23 posted on 01/25/2014 10:55:26 AM PST by reasonisfaith ("...because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved." (2 Thessalonians))
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To: jjotto

Insightful explanation of their values.


24 posted on 01/25/2014 10:57:45 AM PST by ctdonath2 (Making good people helpless doesn't make bad people harmless.)
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To: john drake
Society now has allowed women to no longer be in charge of making men live up to a higher moral standard and both now wallow in the slop. Sad. Very sad.

Your posts is wrong on so many levels

The female of our species does the choosing, men react.

If women chose men with "a higher moral standard" then men will have "a higher moral standard". If women go for men with a low moral standard, then men are going to have a low moral standard.

Or more simply put men are dogs, because that's what women go for

It's that simple.

These women in their 20's and early 30's whore around with all sorts of players & thugs, while ignoring the "nice" stable guys. The nice stable guys end up marrying nice Asian women, while the women end up in their late 30's or 40s either childless or with multiple rotten kids by multiple rotten dads/race. Not surprising so many are "plagued by anxiety disorders"

It's so sad, what has become of Western Civilization

25 posted on 01/25/2014 11:03:24 AM PST by qam1 (There's been a huge party. All plates and the bottles are empty, all that's left is the bill to pay)
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To: reasonisfaith

Very few psychologists, sociologists or psychiatrists have the insight to understand how leftist ideas about sexuality will destroy our culture.

Leaders of marxism understand it.

Hollywood producers, politicians and run of the mill philosophical gurus almost have the ability to understand it, but they don’t care.

Tragically, even many of those who think they oppose leftism are so captivated in their desire to believe a lie they have in fact built their own prison.

The way to the truth is extremely simple.


26 posted on 01/25/2014 11:07:14 AM PST by reasonisfaith ("...because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved." (2 Thessalonians))
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To: jjotto; All
Very briefly mentioned by Karl Marx and even referenced I think in Animal Farm is the idea that women will be held “in common” and available to all.

(And then there was the 19th century Mormon polygamy "ideal"...where men could amass extra wives...some 2, some 3, some 5, some a dozen--like Romney's great-grandpa -- some 27, some with 45...thereby effectively hoarding them and leaving up to half of the Mormon male population in the 1880s and early 1890s with no Mormon female to partner up with)

27 posted on 01/25/2014 11:14:48 AM PST by Colofornian
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To: Marcella
So, people still have a problem admitting they have sex.

Funny, a lot of guys I know will admit to more sex than they actually get.
28 posted on 01/25/2014 11:31:14 AM PST by Svartalfiar
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To: usalady
The Commandment "Thou shalt not commit adultery (or fornication, or sodomy, or anything else related)" was given to us not to spoil our fun, but because that's the best way to live, for both individuals, society, and the next generation. Those who don't follow it are paying the price.
29 posted on 01/25/2014 11:47:01 AM PST by JoeFromSidney (itYe)
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To: qam1

Let me clarify, women prior to the sexual revolution, and joining the work force in huge numbers (about the same time) were protected in society by laws and norms (i.e., intact families and their norms and the societal basic building block of marriage)that limited their “choice” of picking a lower standard male because she’d be labeled a tramp and her father/brothers would take care of any guy trying to besmudge her reputation (and theirs). So it appears that women, granted the power of choice subsequent, have somehow became stupid as the general mores fell asunder? Then I give women less credit than before. Am I still missing the mark at so many levels? What were these women’s mother’s (and father’s) teaching them while they’re being raised to accept street gutter males as companions? Pathetic.


30 posted on 01/25/2014 11:49:33 AM PST by john drake (Lucius Accius-Roman,170 BC - "oderint dum metuant" translated "Let them hate so long as they fear")
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To: qam1

“Or more simply put men are dogs,”

Loyal, loving, dedicated, and protective IF they are treated properly.


31 posted on 01/25/2014 12:04:28 PM PST by driftdiver (I could eat it raw, but why do that when I have a fire.)
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To: Colofornian
The male side of my family have been LDS for 170 years and those who were in plural marriages numbered about 8, my branch of the family were opposed to the practice.

I think that if you polled the several thousands of my cousins they would tell you that your statistics suck.

32 posted on 01/25/2014 12:11:03 PM PST by Little Bill
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To: Colofornian

wow everything can be attributed to the Mormons according to you.

simply amazing


33 posted on 01/25/2014 12:13:54 PM PST by driftdiver (I could eat it raw, but why do that when I have a fire.)
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To: Marcella

The sexual repression theory is a lie.

Marxists and other sociopaths use it as a tool, knowing how effective it is to dismantle the family.

The truth is: sex is private. Not repressed. Just private.

No monogamous married couple needs to hide the fact that they have a private sexual life.

Sex outside of marriage, in whatever form, inclines its participants to want to hide it. Due to its inherent immoral nature.

The more a culture promotes nontraditional extramarital sex, the more it progresses toward destruction.


34 posted on 01/25/2014 12:23:15 PM PST by reasonisfaith ("...because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved." (2 Thessalonians))
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To: usalady; All
Instead of bringing happiness women are 60% more likely than men to experience an anxiety disorder over their lifetime and taking antidepressant medication to alleviate their distress

Yes, sexual and social expectations; sexual manipulation and exploitation and lack of male commitment is all take an anxiety/depression toll upon women. That is indeed a MAJOR factor. But it's not the ONLY major factor.

For example, Mormon women are known to be more chaste pre-marriage -- and marriage is harped upon Mormon males in the Mormon culture. But what do we find in Utah, which was about 60% Mormon in the articles cited below?

Utah anxiety/depression:

Even BYU concedes the problem: Risk Factors and the Prevalence of Depression in Mormon Women

From: Two Studies Find Depression Widespread in Utah:

"Neither study was broken down by gender, but nationally women are twice as likely to be diagnosed with depressive disorders as men, experts told ABC News.Psychiatrists point to several factors that could contribute to Utah's high levels of depression: limited mental health resources, restricted access to treatment as a result of cost, poor quality of resources and a varied list of other factors, including an under funded educational system and a culture deeply rooted in the Mormon faith. 'In Mormon culture females are supposed accept a calling. They are to be constantly smiling over their family of five. They are supposed to take supper across the street to an ill neighbor and then put up with their husband when he comes home from work and smile about it the whole time. There is this sense that Mrs. Jones down street is doing the same thing, and there is this undercurrent of competition. To be a good mother and wife, women have to put on this mask of perfection. They can't show their tears, depression or agony,' Canning said. 'Obedience, conformity and maintaining a sense of harmony" are unspoken but widely recognized behaviors, which all contribute to what he calls "the Mother of Zion syndrome."

Other sources re: Utah:
* ”Utah is known nationwide for the wrong reason. 'Utah has a pharmaceutical drug problem,' said Jeffery Sweetin, the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration special agent who oversees Utah...a 2007 report said had the country's highest rate of nonmedical painkiller abuse.”
Source headline: Utah has new prescription for painkiller problem (April 15, 2009)

See also:
* UVU professor's study puts focus on LDS women and depression (published by Mormon church-owned Deseret News)
* Study: 'Toxic Perfectionism' Major Part of LDS Women's Depression (published by Mormon church-owned KSL.com)
* Viewpoint: Dispelling the darkness [One BYU student recounts her battle with depression] (Written by a BYU student in a BYU publication)
* Religion: Depression and the (Mormon) church
* We've got the blues: Report labels Utah most depressed state in nation (Salt Lake Tribune)

35 posted on 01/25/2014 12:29:17 PM PST by Colofornian
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To: jmacusa

Hello and Happy New Year to you! I thought maybe you had forgotten who I was so I didn’t want to bombard you with “hello’s!” in my first post.

Perhaps old lemon-sucking face was upset your men didn’t cat call to her. Remember when she was considered the best looking of that awful-looking lot?! What a pathetic victory that was for her.


36 posted on 01/25/2014 1:07:31 PM PST by miss marmelstein (Richard Lives Yet!)
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To: qam1; john drake

qam1, Thank you for posting that so I didn’t have to. John Drake, nothing personal, but you don’t have the slightest idea what you are talking about when it comes to the moral agency of men vs. women. You talk like a feminist, or a man brainwashed by feminists. The funniest part is that you have an old Roman quote as your tagline. Look up what the ancient Greeks and Romans thought about the true nature of women.


37 posted on 01/25/2014 1:08:58 PM PST by fr_freak
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To: qam1

Exactly. If women didn’t go for the “Players and Thugs”, then Players and Thugs would go away.


38 posted on 01/25/2014 1:10:36 PM PST by dfwgator
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To: qam1

“The female of our species does the choosing, men react.”

It happens either way. My husband chose me, insisting my marrying him would be the best decision I ever made. He was right.


39 posted on 01/25/2014 1:11:55 PM PST by Marcella ((Prepping can save your life today. I am a Christian, not a Muslim.))
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To: usalady

If I was gender-stereotyped by the Democrat heroine, Sandra Fluke, for being totally unable to afford $9 a month contraceptives without a federal government subsidy, I too would be having anxiety disorders.


40 posted on 01/25/2014 1:21:03 PM PST by SES1066 (Quality, Speed or Economical - Any 2 of 3 except in government - 1 at best but never #3!)
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To: john drake
It’s tougher than ever for women to find a good man, given society had once protected the virtue of women and expected men to better behave. Society now has allowed women to no longer be in charge of making men live up to a higher moral standard and both now wallow in the slop. Sad. Very sad.

It is truly sad.

Society now has allowed women to no longer be in charge of making men live up to a higher moral standard

It's now being sold as "a woman's right to choose." :/

41 posted on 01/25/2014 1:23:21 PM PST by thecodont
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To: ilovesarah2012

The women who take them up on the offer probably end up on the internet.


42 posted on 01/25/2014 1:30:16 PM PST by B4Ranch (Name your illness, do a Google & YouTube search with "hydrogen peroxide". Do it and be surprised.)
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To: john drake

There has been a shift in the proportion of males to females in the past forty years. Throughout the history of our country there were many more males than there were females. Men had to compete for the attention of women. Men had to behave, have good manners and treat women well or they would be replaced.

Then the demographics shifted. There were more women than men. Women must ‘treat men well’ or they will be replaced.

Men and women have different ideas about what it means to be treated well.


43 posted on 01/25/2014 1:30:53 PM PST by ladyjane
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To: ladyjane

I’m surprised at that.
I would have expected the deaths of males in WW1 and WW2 would have swung the balance the other way.


44 posted on 01/25/2014 1:36:29 PM PST by nascarnation (I'm hiring Jack Palladino to investigate Baraq's golf scores.)
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To: fr_freak

I guess I was raised in an era when most women acted with virtue (or were expected to), at least the ones I knew, and was raised and surrounded by women who abided by those Judeo-Christian codes, including my wife of several decades. Naturally, there were always men and women who weren’t interested in living moral lives, they’re everywhere, always have been and the jails are full of them, and prostitution is the second oldest profession in the world. Brainwashed by feminists, huh? I guess it depends what definition of a feminist is; 100 years ago, they wanted the right to vote (no problem with that), however I have been a pro-lifer my entire life, so that makes me an enemy of modern feminists. If feminist you mean that women should be given equal respect for their God-given talents, and recognized as such, in the home or at work, yes. But for sexual freedom, nope, same for men. It leads to tragedy over and over again. Illegitimacy, STD’s, abortion, lies, broken families, etc. As for the ancient Greeks and Romans, I’ve studied both, and yes, they’re societies were considered pagan prior to Christ’s arrival, hence their limited perception of the value of human beings, both genders. I guess I’m an anachronism (Greek word) as to what was normal only fifty plus years ago; but what transpires today as normal is heartbreaking. The old immorality is the new morality, simply put, and what comes from it is only pain, IMHO.


45 posted on 01/25/2014 1:38:54 PM PST by john drake (Lucius Accius-Roman,170 BC - "oderint dum metuant" translated "Let them hate so long as they fear")
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To: usalady
The root of unhappiness can be traced to the leftist theory/scam of the tabula rasa or blank slate. This bogus idea was heavily propagated in the early sixties. Since the theory dictated that everyone's thought processes are the products of their environment, sexually promiscuous males were simply the product of the dreaded patriarchy...that org. of males that dictated what people should do and how they should think.

Since all thought processes were created by society and not hard-wired, women, thanks to birth control i.e. the pill, could be taught to be sexually promiscuous just like males. And they would have no guilt or anxieties about it.

Well, as we all know, the tabula rasa theory is a steaming pile of b.s. Male and female thoughts and behaviors, including the sexual area, are hard-wired. Many males naturally crave sex with multiple female partners. The reverse is not true for women. Women naturally pair love with sex. The adage about men giving love to get sex while women give sex to get love is mostly true.

So we have millions of unhappy females getting old with unsatisfied relationships thanks to the feminists. And probably an equal number of males who were sexual predatory when young, but who will be mighty unhappy as their sex appeal wanes in old age.

46 posted on 01/25/2014 1:55:23 PM PST by driftless2
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To: nascarnation

I would have thought so too. So many men get killed in wars, on motorcycles and in other accidents. It wasn’t until sometime after WWII that the balance shifted.

There was a sociologist at Harvard by the name of Guttentag who wrote a book about it. I think the title was Too Many Women. Oral contraceptives just happened to come along at the time men became the minority and got the upper hand. The opposite is happening in China right now.


47 posted on 01/25/2014 2:02:39 PM PST by ladyjane
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To: ladyjane

Interesting take on the demographic shift. Yes, men and women have different ideas about what it means to be treated well, however I’d like to think self-respect and mutual respect, and yes, honesty, is in the best interest of both parties to make a relationship balanced and workable long-term. Being old school, a person was given respect until they behaved otherwise. It appears there isn’t much respect on anyone’s part these days, nor a sense of self-sacrifice, only “what’s in it for me...me....me.”


48 posted on 01/25/2014 2:03:48 PM PST by john drake (Lucius Accius-Roman,170 BC - "oderint dum metuant" translated "Let them hate so long as they fear")
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To: usalady

Okay so let me get this straight. Some woman named Martha (no last name) and I’m just guessing here but drinks a little too much Wild Turkey and gets on a blog called the Examiner.com. Now this blog is not even in the top 100 conservative websites and I can see why. I could hardly get it to load up.

So Martha (no last name) declares American women to be slutty, worthless, unhappy POS’s who can barely get through life due to the fact that they have the right to come and go and do as they please in life including deciding not to reproduce Heaven forbid. And Martha declares American men are almost as bad.

I’m trying not to laugh here and I dearly love my fellow freepers but having read all the posted comments so far I’m trying to figure out what parallel universe I’ve landed in.

I think its far more likely that Martha (no last name) may well be depressed from leading a less than prudent existence herself and may have allowed herself to become a depressed unhappy and unfulfilled woman. It happens.

To all my fellow freepers let me say that my experience has been that American men are the greatest guys in the world. A few bad apples in every barrel but for the most part good, solid, reliable upstanding, handsome, compassionate and loyal. American women are smart, selfconfident, pretty, well educated, hard working, independent and family oriented. Just like I imagine all the gals and guys on FR are.

If you think the 60’s were the first sexual revolution talk to grandma and Mom about the roaring 20’s and WWII.


49 posted on 01/25/2014 2:04:54 PM PST by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose of a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped.)
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To: ilovesarah2012
The point is there is a company soliciting married people to have an affair. I had heard something about them a few years ago - something about a billboard ad somewhere. _________________________________________ Periodically, Sean Hannity has had on his radio show a guy who runs one of these website pay-to-play ‘services.’ Hannity debates the guy over the morality of making money running a website that facilitates marital cheating, which likely will lead to divorce.
50 posted on 01/25/2014 2:05:00 PM PST by iontheball
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