Advice to parents: send your kids to community colleges close to home, and make them live at home. By then they (the kids) might have an inkling what, if anything, they want to do. Sending a 17 year old kid off to be on their own, imo, is very unwise. They’re suddenly thrust into the company of other children, with no supervision, all who merely want to have a good time. No wonder we have children majoring in Contemporary Lesbian Psychotherapeutic Existential Moments in Education.