Posted on 02/24/2022 3:28:47 PM PST by Jeff Chandler
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Samson-Deliliah
Bmk
How right you are. The courts are stacked against the men.
I finally divorced after 18 years, took care of my ex when she had thyroid cancer. Our son was born with DS and needed open heart surgery. I changed careers and worked from home to care for him while the ex was making her way up the promotion ladder at the hospital. She would not stop drinking. I finally had it when she had to have a minor operation to remove some lymph glands. She asked me to text people on her phone after the surgery and while doing that she had a few voice mails which I listened to and was going to return calls. Much to my surprise she had several very explicit voice mails from a man 20 years younger who was the boyfriend of my sons personal care attendant.
Here I was taking care of her, my disabled son, working, all the time she was sleeping around. Got a divorce and my lawyer was so good that I never had to take the stand and she settled which meant I got some of the equity from our house. She didn't want me to have a dime. She played the victim card, had an alarm system to put in the house that I moved out of for "Fear" of what I would do. It was the toughest thing I had to do but I took the high road and have been rewarded ever since. She continues to use my son as a pawn and will reap what she sows one day.
Why did you choose to marry her?
I was not secure enough in my late 20's to realize that I was being taken advantage of by a narcassist. The only thing that I care about that came from that marriage is my beautiful son.
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