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To: starfish923
She's no innocent bystander here. SOMETHING happened to set him off

No matter what she did to "set him off" it does no justify his actions. People get upset everyday, they get their hearts broken and they have terrible family problems. Not matter what it was it does not account for what he did. We should keep the blame where it belongs.

24 posted on 07/09/2006 3:28:01 AM PDT by foolscap
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To: foolscap
No matter what she did to "set him off" it does no justify his actions. People get upset everyday, they get their hearts broken and they have terrible family problems. Not matter what it was it does not account for what he did. We should keep the blame where it belongs.

All true and Andrea Yates should get the death penalty, then burn in hell.

I suppose it's the headlines I object too...."marital dispute"?!
He murders his own children and himself and there might have been a "dispute"? Something doesn't smell right there. SHE is lying outside on the sidewalk uninjured? Completely uninjured? I wonder where she was in defending her four babies, that's all. They had more than a mere "argument." And it didn't suddenly start in ONE day. Has she NO part in this? Is she completely blameless in all this? Four babies and one father/husband are dead.....and she isn't even injured.

It ALWAYS AND ALWAYS takes two to fight. One person alone can't have a "fight," "argument" or "dispute"; it always takes TWO. So if there is a fight, then both are to blame for the fight. That's just a fact.

Also, when buttons are pushed, they are pushed by someone, KNOWING full well that buttons are being pushed. That goes for spouses, siblings, work-mates, whatever. That's the egregious part of fighting: buttons pushed are pushing someone farther and farther. The button pusher knows this but never knows "how far" the other person will go. That is always an unknown, yet the buttons continue to be pushed and pushed and pushed.

Some people just prefer to push buttons because they know they can. It's part of the control they have and exercise....especially when THEY don't have the guts, backbone, courage, brains, desire, whatever, to solve the problem WITHOUT pushing buttons.

Then when pushed-person goes "too far," the button pusher can ALWAYS say, "I didn't know s/he would go off like that. Besides, it's not MY fault, I didn't pull the trigger."

I was just wondering. This wasn't merely a dispute or argument. He didn't simply "go off" one day. I would be hard pressed to believe that she was blameless.
I am just wondering, that's all.

She will weep her way past any blame, naturally. Andrea Yates is doing a good job of it. Humans will do that with women, especially young women....let them weep their way past due process. Practice. It works.
Then, she will remarry and have more children. One hopes she will have learned something about disputes, arguments and fighting.

26 posted on 07/09/2006 6:51:10 AM PDT by starfish923 ( Socrates: It's never right to do wrong.)
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To: foolscap
Not matter what it was it does not account for what he did. We should keep the blame where it belongs.

CORRECT.

What he did is atrocious and completely unacceptable.

36 posted on 07/09/2006 8:46:36 AM PDT by Pikachu_Dad
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