Your head is soooo far up your butt I don't know where to start. When I married my ex he liked a drink now and then, by the end of our 16 year marriage he was a raging abusive alcoholic. One of his "buttons" I pushed was telling him the weather forcast before he left for work. Tell me how to avoid things like that. Many people still believe that marriage is forever and we don't end it unless our life is at risk. How do you know when someone is going to snap. It must be convienient being psychic. Most of us are not so blessed.
Oh PS I have had the same best friend since I was sixteen. I am now forty eight. When anything bad or good happens I call her first. She's the person that knows me best and will tell me the truth instead of what I want to hear or what she feels she should say. I trust her most of all. Too bad you don't understand that kind of friendship.
You really ought to get some therapy, couseling or have a LONG chat with Dr. Laura.
They will ALL tell you what you so obviously STILL don't know. There is nothing "psychic" about spotting a drunk or a psycho. There is nothing "psychic" about common sense.
Some GEMS from Dr. Laura (I listen to her on my way home from work.):
*Knowing someone at least a year and a half before marriage will tell you almost everything about a person.
*Family and friends will often see what the most blind lover won't see and listening to those who love you the most is crucial.
*Meeting someone through family, friends or church is often a good way to meet someone. Can you guess why or do you need a crsytal ball?
Are these revelations of the "psychic" to you? Are you so unblessed as to not possess any common sense? I hope not. If so, then you are doomed to repeat your mistakes.
You REALLY show YOUR character, upbringing and manners when you start off a post with an insult. Shame on you.