1. I wonder at anyone ASSURING another human being about the furture actions of any person. I thought that only GOD would be able to ASSURE one about a person's future behavior. You seem to have imbued your elders with omnipotence. That is not straight, clear thinking, not at all.
2. Pity away. Coming from you that is merely inane, peurile, misplaced and, I THINK, rather pathetic. Mostly it's nonsequiter. I feel on the right side when it comes from you. I have agreed on NOTHING with you so I would be rather worried if you did agree with me. Lol.
3. Since I didn't blame the spouse for the death of the children, you are not talking to me.
Perhaps, since you seem OBSESSED about putting those words into my post and they WERE NOT there, then perhaps, in your own skewed logic, YOU blame her.
You DO keep driving the point, so I assume that you can't let go of the fact that I DIDN'T say that. Your own obsessions reveal things not good in your thinking and ideas. Tsk, tsk.
Obsession with falsehoods seems to be another sad, sad part of your character. So does denial. But, that's just a guess based on your puerile thinking, emotional responses and inaccurate reading.
Respond or not. I don't care either.
Still, I say to you: Pax vobiscum.