Keep this thread alive, folks. Thanks and good night.
Trying to still be,
Silly
Ping to the Happy Hour crowd... Sure hope some of you can come tomorrow night.
I've gotta get some sleep. Please keep this thread alive. It'll cheer me up in the morning.
Silly
Walk to the police station file a police report, demand she is arrested for assault. Then get a lawyer. ( Please tell us you took pictures of the marks from the assault.... please tell us that)
I feel for you, we just got rid of a real bad one after 5 years of tirades, irrationality, and insanity. Its funny, I just thinking about this guy tonight on the way from work. Here's hoping everything works out for you..
None of this is expensive and it will put the fear of God into the abusive. You may or may not actually be able to sue them but as long as they think you might they'll give you space.
God bless you. Losing a job under any circumstance is traumatic. Been there, done that. Guess what? You'll wake up in the morning and the world will still be turning. They DO NOT matter. You do.
"And then she actually did it. She struck me in her office, while having one of her fits of anger.
After that, the nightmares became very frequent. Some days I could not get up in the morning. Once, awaking from a nightmare, I sat in my chair at home from 6 am to 6 pm, trying to calm myself down. That day i failed to call in to work. Of course, it was a problem.
And then I went on disability for two months to recover psychologically. I still am not there yet. Every time someone in a job interview asks, "Why are you looking for another job?" it all comes back. How do you answer a question like that?
Human Resources actually made it worse. The woman I reported it to betrayed me. When I got her off the case, her boss took over. This week I learned he has been lying about things too. I knew I couldn't trust him, but I couldn't believe he'd be so brash about it."
I think I will try to stay out of this.
My wife and I had dinner at Rosie O'Gradys down the street on Tuesday. We have plans Friday but would like to catch you some other time. I've been known to down a pint or two at the Pub.(or the library bar in the Sheraton Tower)
Sounds as if you may have a federal action with an unfair labor practice/hostile workplace action If you're over 40, did she ever bring up your age?
Prayers for you. Hang in there, and here's hoping this crisis brings you new opportunities.
Post Traumatic Struck Syndrome?
This thread is sickening, and just plain silly...
BTW, she probably LIKES you.
I'd love to join you, but I can't make it there until 7 (I work near Princeton).
The fact that such a shrew still has a job there after that says a lot for the company and none of it good. That's just unacceptable.
I said I prayer for you...that you find a MUCH better job very soon. I'll keep you in my thoughts.
Have a cold one for me, OK? And I hope you go after that abusive witch and the company and sue the daylights out of them. They should not get away with something like this. (And I have never been particularly litigious.)
My boss is a maniac but there is nothing I can do about it as I am self employed
OPINION:
1. I'm glad you filed a police report.
That was the right thing to do.
You may want to chat with a lawyer, too.
Now, here's something to think about.
2. Did you know we have freepers who have serious, some terminal diseases?
3. Did you know we have freepers who have had one or more relatives/friends killed or injured due to terrorism and/or the war?
4. Did you know we have freepers here with severe disabilities and diseases?
Anyway, Silly cheer up.
Each day is a gift from God.
Use it wisely and be grateful.
God bless you.
I'll be there in spirit!
From another thread. Thought you could use it.
Prayers UP for another job with someone kind!
Want me to punch her lights out? Just say the word....;)
I had to clean out my office today.
Silly, I know it is very hard. I will be praying for you too. I have stayed in abusive situations before. I absolutely know I should have left long before I did. You are a very special person and deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. If you can, look at this trial as a step up the ladder of faith. The first step up is the most difficult especially when it looks so dark. I know you will find a good job. I also believe you will look back at this time in your life and thank the Lord for it. Sometimes things come to us in difficult forms and when we are going through them we have a hard time seeing. I pray you will turn to the Lord himself for your confidence. He alone is your provider. No one on this earth or at any given job is what you really need. God will allow things like this to come into our lives to get our attention and than direct us right back to Him for all our needs. There is no need to small or insignificant for Him to help us with. My own experience tell me this. He knows your health and what you need in order to live and I know He wants to meet all your needs. Trust Him. Simple but so hard. God Bless you and keep us informed along the way. Look for Him as you step out into the unknown. He is waiting for you and longing to be your Source. Psalm 34:4 I sought the LORD, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears. & Psalm 43:5 Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope in God: for I shall yet praise him, [who is] the health of my countenance, and my God.
But unfortunately, if you do, you'll be hauled out in chains faster than you can say "equality under the law."
God bless you and I hope you will find justice and that she and your company get their just deserts.
I worry for the next person to work under this psychotic witch.
In the mean time, contact every conservative acronym you can think off. ACRU, ACLJ, you name it. There's no way this case should be allowed to a) end with no punishments and/or b) become a liberal/feminazi cause celebre.