Posted on 07/25/2008 5:33:33 AM PDT by Pistolshot
Its a common way for couples to reconcile. Animalistic, uninhibited and aggressive, many couples are enthralled by make-up sex. Some couples actually thrive on it.
So why is anger such a powerful stimulant? And what are the rules of engagement for resolving conflict in this way? While fighting as a form of foreplay doesnt make much sense, on second thought, its not such an inconceivable aphrodisiac. Physiologically speaking, anger and arousal have quite a bit in common in revving up the body.
When angry or sexually aroused, a persons body reacts in much the same way - to the point that a furious individual can mistake outrage for sexual excitement.
When an individual is angry, chemicals, including adrenaline, are released in the brain. With these neurotransmitters fired up and ready for action, the brain is reacting much like it does during sex.
(Excerpt) Read more at foxnews.com ...
As far as the article, it's interesting that it almost advocates fighting with your partner to have better intimacy.
I must experiment.
Of course, I may get my butt kicked in the process, but hey, gotta try.
LOL...LOL...my girlfriend and I have tried it and I have to say it works well!
This article unintentionally gives insight into the crime of rape. It is often not about sex, but about anger, control, and dominance.
Will never happen with me. Takes a month before she’s over whatever she’s mad at me about.
Have to disagree.
I don’t need peaks and valleys - especially the valleys. Keep the relationship nice and steady.
I'd like to see the body language expert Bill O'Rielly uses to explain this photo. :D
My last girlfriend was the same way. Good times, good times.
Yeah, my wife is the same way. I’m always ready to make up (especially in THAT way) before she is.
My wife and I have always skipped the fight and gone straight to the make up part. ;)
lol...wrong quote on my previous post! Damned copy/paste!
That’s hilarious when you read the topic of sex into your quote.
“...my girlfriend and I have tried it and I have to say it works well!”
The best line from the movie War of the Roses is when Turner asks Danny DeVito if he likes angry sex. And he says, “Is there any other kind?”
“Yeah, my wife is the same way. Im always ready to make up (especially in THAT way) before she is.”
I can easily imagine Obambi and his bitter half having angry sex.
Mine takes YEARS to get over anything. She can't remember what I told her yesterday, but she hasn't forgotten things that I did 20 years ago.
I don’t believe that. Ewwwww, who wants to be intimate when someone was just mean to you.
It's hard enough going through life together with other problems, finances, jobs, family, kids, dogs, cats, critters. Why add anger with your partner to that?
I also learned VERY early that I get the last word in EVERY argument or discussion.
"Yes, dear."
As a husband who has been married for almost 22 years (yes, to the same woman!) I can sum up a happy marriage in two words:
Yes, Dear.
“Yes, dear.”
You are very smart. :-)
My gratitude to your wife for her service.
Test was fun. I am Wonder Woman. :-o
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Why do I keep getting pinged to “kinky sex” threads?
;))
um... me.
I’m sure it’s just a huge misunderstanding. ;’)
Here’s another one!
LOL!
Uh-huh.
Suuuure it is.
;]
LOL :-)
I’m sure there are many good things about marriage. I’m sure people have soul-mates out there. But I personally think it would be boring to be with one woman for the rest of my life. Perhaps that’s why couples might resort to forced fights to rev up the engines. Because after years of marriage, things get boring, perhaps bodies degrade, and couples need something new to keep things going.
LOL! No comment ;)
That’s entirely up to the man. And when I say “man” I mean THE Man in all aspects of your life to her. You do what you say you’re gonna do EVERY time. Some may say unfortunately, but that’s not necessarily true. When it comes to that aspect in the relationship YOU and you alone are in charge. It is YOUR job to keep her excited for a lifetime.
If she’s a high quality Daddy’s Girl, you BETTER do it or she will find that excitement elsewhere because she believes in her heart (thanks Dad) that she deserves it. In most cases she’s probably right. That you can take to the bank.
Fox is increasingly becoming a tabloid network. Oh for a serious conservative news network...
Try not to cargo load more than 9 months at a time.
Reminds me why I am against getting married.
When I was growing up they always said that if you were bored it was because you were boring, meaning if you put a little thought into it you could always find something to entertain yourself.
Really marriage and sex is the same thing, if you’re getting bored it’s probably because you’re dull. 18 years with the same woman (including dating years) and she’s still fascinating and exciting, and even better naked.
So any man who claims, “I’m a lover, not a fighter” is just lame.....
so, ya prefer it rough, does ya? ;’)
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