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Looking for a small, reliable pistol/sidearm for a lady

Posted on 12/07/2008 6:54:45 PM PST by Mamzelle

Have small, weak hands and I play an instrument and am an artist and don't want to hurt my hands. Menfolk seem to want to encourage me to pistols too large, heavy and complicated. Seems to me if I cannot handle a weapon properly, it won't matter how big the bullets are that it can shoot because I won't manage to shoot at all. I want something small even if the bullets are small, too, because I'll have more confidence in shooting it.


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To: livius

Hey, I’ve been checking out the youtubes that these helpful folks provide...and then surfing the options that youtube gives you for other videos. LOL. Lots of guys like to make movies of their guns! Recommended.


41 posted on 12/07/2008 7:25:20 PM PST by Mamzelle (Boycott Peggy Swoonin')
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To: Mamzelle

Yes, very good! Thank you for starting this thread. I’m reading every post!


42 posted on 12/07/2008 7:27:24 PM PST by livius
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To: Mamzelle

Revolvers are not sexy and they are for close in shooting. they have short barrels so they are not target shooting pistols. Really for shooting within 20 feet or less.

They are reliable and mistake proof in a defensive situation when people are very stressed. Someone said a Beratta Tomcat semi-auto does not have to have the slide racked. If true check that out.

Find a lady instructor or sales person at you local gun store or the NRA web site.


43 posted on 12/07/2008 7:27:37 PM PST by Frantzie
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To: Mamzelle

A boyfriend with a Colt 1911 should do the trick.


44 posted on 12/07/2008 7:27:49 PM PST by HANG THE EXPENSE (Defeat liberalism, its the right thing to do for America.)
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To: UPcrawfish

Yes, I plan to take a class and get a CCwp, though I don’t know if I’ll actually carry. I guess I’m interested for the same reason that so many people are now purchasing firearms. I never took much interest in it, before. Lately I’ve been taking more.


45 posted on 12/07/2008 7:28:06 PM PST by Mamzelle (Boycott Peggy Swoonin')
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To: Mamzelle

46 posted on 12/07/2008 7:28:54 PM PST by Eye of Unk (Americans should lead America, its the right way.)
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To: PugetSoundSoldier

Kel-Tec is a good suggestion for small and light.


47 posted on 12/07/2008 7:29:22 PM PST by Frantzie
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To: Mamzelle

Try a Smith & Wesson with a shielded hammer. I think it is a model 36 and uses a 38 bullet. It can be kept handy in a purse without the fear of accidentally cocking the hammer if you have a concealed carry permit. It is a great first weapon for a woman. Keep in mind, however, to keep it safely away from any children, as it does not take a lot of strength to shoot this weapon.

Also classes are available many places to give people firearms training. It is a good idea to familiarize yourself with the use of various weapons, so you can make a choice that is best for you. Check with the closest chapter of the NRA and they should be able to direct you to a place where you could practice with several types and then make a choice for what works best for you.


48 posted on 12/07/2008 7:30:11 PM PST by Flamenco Lady
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To: Mamzelle

I have small hands and after input from other Freepers, I purchased a S&W .38 Airweight and I love it. :)


49 posted on 12/07/2008 7:31:04 PM PST by nodumbblonde (Apologies: Due to the coming economic crisis, I've had to let my tagline go.)
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To: Mamzelle
By all means, a revolver. Avoid the newer Smith and Wessons.

Here's a 25 page thread going talking about the Smith and Wesson internal lock freezing up the gun during firing.

I've owned the Ruger SP101. The grip is tiny, yet the gun has sufficient mass to absorb recoil. Buy one in 357 magnum, but load it with 38 specials for practice. They're cheap and recoil is mild. Then you can load it with 357 for self defense.

A revolver is truly the best for someone who doesn't spend a whole lot of time with guns.

50 posted on 12/07/2008 7:32:33 PM PST by LouAvul
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To: nodumbblonde

Yup good suggestions by Flamenco Lady and nodumbblonde. A women’s perspective and expriences will be the best feedback for the original poster.


51 posted on 12/07/2008 7:34:11 PM PST by Frantzie
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To: Mamzelle

I have small hands and osteoarthritis in them, traded my Bersa .380 which I could no longer rack with out pain, for a Tauraus Ultra Lite 48 revolver. Easy to use and maintain. Recoil isn’t to bad, bullets not to expensive either.


52 posted on 12/07/2008 7:37:25 PM PST by GailA ( Valor Quilts for our wounded Troops....I'm a quilt-aholic!!!)
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To: Frantzie

Thank you for the Bear Spray advice. I just went to the website and bought one for my daughter, who is a realtor and refuses to carry a gun, even though she goes out into the country and remote parts of town with total strangers and has had at least one close call. Maybe she’ll be willing to blast them with the bear spray. Amazing what one can learn on FR!


53 posted on 12/07/2008 7:40:06 PM PST by livius
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To: Mamzelle
My wife has one of these:


The Smith & Wesson 640 Centennial. This is a five-shot .38/.357 revolver with a small frame. Note the smooth lines. It is hammerless, so it is easy to pull out of a purse without getting it snagged on something. You do not need to cock it, or rack a slide, or worry about a safety lever. Just point and shoot.

-ccm

54 posted on 12/07/2008 7:42:35 PM PST by ccmay (Too much Law; not enough Order.)
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To: livius; Mamzelle
I tried a revolver...but somebody talked me out of it.

You shot it, and liked it. The person who talked you out of it was foolish. If you can, and still want to have a gun handy, I'd go back to the revolver. .38/.357 seems to be the most popular choice for self-defense; but the best gun is the one you're comfortable with and can shoot accurately.

55 posted on 12/07/2008 7:46:08 PM PST by HiJinx (~ Support our Troops ~ www.americasupportsyou.mil ~)
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To: Frantzie; Mamzelle

I’d also reiterate what I’m sure others have already said: Go to a reputable gun shop and HOLD everything!

I’d pretty much decided on another gun when I headed to the gun dealer and I changed my mind almost immediately. I didn’t like the way it was weighted and it just didn’t feel right. No way to know that until I actually held it.


56 posted on 12/07/2008 7:50:23 PM PST by nodumbblonde (Apologies: Due to the coming economic crisis, I've had to let my tagline go.)
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To: Mamzelle
Pick out any 380 Auto or a 32. Try before you buy. Don't get a $100 special, they often jam and are not reliable. You don't have to go nuts and spend $1000 either. Get what feels comfortable to you. One nice thing about firearms; they hold their value if you take care of them. if you want to trade it for something else later, you can.
57 posted on 12/07/2008 7:50:27 PM PST by Damifino (The true measure of a man is found in what he would do if he knew no one would ever find out.)
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To: Mamzelle
My wife doesn't have the hand strength to operate the slide on most semi-automatics. We ended up getting her a Smith and Wesson 3" barreled Model 60 revolver. She liked the feel of this one better than the Ladysmith models.

It's fairly light and easy to handle, but the extra barrel length compared to most snub nosed revolvers and the rubber grips help keep recoil pretty manageable with .38 special loads. She hasn't been to the range in awhile, but the first time she tried .357 mag out of it was also the last time she'll shoot .357's out of it.

Hard to make much of a recommendation based on an internet post, but if you don't have the hand strength to work a slide, your choices boil down to a revolver or a tip-up semi-automatic.

You might also look into a basic pistol course. The NRA has a course locator. If there's a course near you, call and explain your situation to the instructor. They may be able to help point you in the right direction. I assume some of the basic courses are set up to help people who haven't purchased a firearm yet, but don't know for sure.
58 posted on 12/07/2008 7:52:15 PM PST by javachip
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To: livius

the guy i know in my office building was a prosecutor and went to a good state law school. Super guy. He said it was good to have because if you spray someone you may have less problems versus shooting someone. It all depends on your state law.

Florida’s law used to be if your life was at threat and you had a CCW license you could shoot to kill. If the bad were retreating, you had to back off. Oddly if someone is attacking another person - you can shoot them.

The Castle Doctrine in most states says if the bad guy is in your home - you can shoot them. The joke is if you shoot em outside make sure to drag the body back into your home. This is not a funny subject but people need to be prepared to defend themselves.

I am glad this info helped you. Your daughter needs to be prepared to use it. There are a lot of bad people out there (and many are in the Senate). ;-)


59 posted on 12/07/2008 7:55:31 PM PST by Frantzie
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To: Mamzelle

Thanks for bringing this up. I’ve been wanting to get a handgun as well. Something easy enough to use as I’ve been having trouble with my hands lately as well, (beginnings of arthritis, I’m afraid) but effective. And relatively inexpensive ammo.


60 posted on 12/07/2008 7:58:17 PM PST by metmom (Welfare was never meant to be a career choice.)
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