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My Daughter Has Published Bikini Pictures of Herself On FB...what is the downside?
07.12.09 | chickensoup

Posted on 07/12/2009 4:26:05 PM PDT by Chickensoup

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To: Chickensoup
When she grows up and applies for that corporate position, her entire background history will be investigated. This includes criminal record, traffic violations, credit history, outstanding debts, past residences and now internet websites she belongs to.

I would strongly suggest she cancel herself from any FaceBook or other such sites........

FWIW, a friend invited me to join FaceBook or some such site but in doing so it would require me to provide info that I have no wish the rest of the entire world having access to. In fact, I have already contacted him to remove me as a "friend" and to remove any pictures of me as his friend that he may have posted on his site...........

101 posted on 07/12/2009 4:53:14 PM PDT by Hot Tabasco (This country isn't going to hell in a handbasket, it's riding shotgun in an Indy car....)
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To: Chickensoup

From what I’ve read looking for approval from other men and having sex early is very very typical of daughters in divorce situations. She needs Dad and lots of him. Good luck...


102 posted on 07/12/2009 4:54:08 PM PDT by Lizavetta (Politicians: When they're not lying, they're stealing.)
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To: Chickensoup
This is what I was wondering, How accessble the pics are, Sounds like anyone who can see her site has access to copying the pics.
Yes. And once someone has a copy, there's really no limit on how/where one can "distribute" it. A great deal of damage can be done before criminal charges, and/or a civil suit gets resolved if things get that sideways. Why not send her the link to this thread and let her read it for herself. Hang in there, Mom and keep fighting the good fight for your little girl. :)
103 posted on 07/12/2009 4:54:15 PM PDT by Sylvester McMonkey McBean
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To: NoControllingLegalAuthority

You are absolutely correct along with top people at Google as well. You better believe the organizations are helping Obama, et al with information and whatever else Obama wants to know about you.

Just read the disclaimers on the sites...no one in their right mind would sign on these agreements.

If you think your gmail and g-docs are private...think again.


104 posted on 07/12/2009 4:54:18 PM PDT by surfer
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To: autumnraine

She is just posed, but there is more skin than modesty permits.


105 posted on 07/12/2009 4:54:26 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: Chickensoup

No problem.


106 posted on 07/12/2009 4:54:40 PM PDT by Red in Blue PA (If guns cause crime, then all of mine are defective!)
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To: Jean S

She didn’t post them, her daughter did, or did you catch that point?


107 posted on 07/12/2009 4:55:13 PM PDT by editor-surveyor (The beginning of the O'Bummer administration looks a lot like the end of the Nixon administration)
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To: Chickensoup

Hey, at least she wasn’t wearing a peace sign.


108 posted on 07/12/2009 4:55:43 PM PDT by buccaneer81 (Bob Taft has soiled the family name for the next century.)
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To: porter_knorr

I have the posed on a towel naked baby pictures but probably would get run in for child porn. I think I have seveeral of the skirted swimsuit pics.


109 posted on 07/12/2009 4:56:28 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: Covenantor

Good analogy


110 posted on 07/12/2009 4:57:21 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: fatima

Well the “private” account features on facebook are not really private. Here is the issue...if you access any of the 3rd party “games”, “apps” they have access to some of your account information even if it is marked “private” and quite frankly you know NOTHING about the app developers and what they are doing with your facebook info...that you think is private.

Also keep in mind if they link your profile to other “non-private” profiles and those profiles have “bad” things in them...well as they say...the crowd you keep...


111 posted on 07/12/2009 4:57:45 PM PDT by surfer
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To: A.Hun

That has occurred to me.


112 posted on 07/12/2009 4:58:02 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: madison10
"That someone will take her head and place it on another’s undressed body and THAT gets passed around the internet..."

That could happen even if she is fully clothed in the original photo.
113 posted on 07/12/2009 4:59:07 PM PDT by FortWorthPatriot
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To: NoControllingLegalAuthority

Didnt know that. Leftist turkeys are everywhere


114 posted on 07/12/2009 4:59:17 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: LiberConservative

Job...you mean a real job? Not the counter job she has in the summer? Who knows?


115 posted on 07/12/2009 5:00:03 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: Lizavetta

Thanks!


116 posted on 07/12/2009 5:01:14 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: Chickensoup

Is this a rhetorical question? Face Book pictures can go as far as you can imagine. It’s like posting an ad, saying I’m hot. Take a peek. It’s sad when I young girl thinks that her body is the best thing she has to offer the world.


117 posted on 07/12/2009 5:02:41 PM PDT by Eva (union motto - Aim for mediocrity, it's only fair.)
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To: Chickensoup

She could end up here, with freepers determining her guilt, or worse yet, she may be photoshopped with a pancake on her head!!


118 posted on 07/12/2009 5:03:35 PM PDT by stuartcr (Everything happens as God wants it to...otherwise, things would be different.)
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To: silverleaf

Nice put down.


119 posted on 07/12/2009 5:04:37 PM PDT by stuartcr (Everything happens as God wants it to...otherwise, things would be different.)
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To: Chickensoup

I’m an old person who doesn’t get it. A hundred something responses to this? Bikini pictures? What the heck is the big deal?


120 posted on 07/12/2009 5:04:46 PM PDT by Oldhunk
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To: Chickensoup

You can also find out if she is already out there. Google for her using the name/nickname she uses, then filter search with additional pieces of information she has on her FB page. You all might be surprised.


121 posted on 07/12/2009 5:06:36 PM PDT by Covenantor ("Men are ruled...by liars who refuse them news, and by fools who cannot govern." Chesterton)
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To: I see my hands

I doubt anyone that puts a box around his responses, could be net-passive.


122 posted on 07/12/2009 5:07:15 PM PDT by stuartcr (Everything happens as God wants it to...otherwise, things would be different.)
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To: Covenantor

Nothing comes up from face book. I used her name and face book and the school she attends.


123 posted on 07/12/2009 5:11:17 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: Chickensoup

If she is over 18 and the situation was bikini appropriate, it seems fine as long as she knows that many employers will check that. Pretty much everyone I know have something like this on Facebook. We have some memorial day photos where we went boating with friends and most folks where dressed like that, including my wife, you go on boars in the lake, you sure don’t wear suits. I think my pastor’s family even has pool pics on FB.


124 posted on 07/12/2009 5:11:25 PM PDT by mnehring
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To: Chickensoup

There is a lot of hyperbole on this thread. Wow.

If she is in a normal run of the mill bikini she is just like millions of other young women on facebook and myspace.

The photos could potentially be used for nefarious purposes I suppose, but I don’t know how likely that really is. After all there are plenty of people in the world who willingly do those things.

I’m quite sure any potential employer would guess that any potential employee has been to the beach/lake at some point and was probably wearing a swimsuit of some type. If that were actually enough to have someone disqualified from a job they wouldn’t have anyone to hire.

Overall I would guess that the chances of the negatives spouted off on this thread like near certainties actually happening at very slim. Wearing a bikini in a picture and putting that picture on fb isn’t exactly a huge moral failing.


125 posted on 07/12/2009 5:12:29 PM PDT by Mr. Blonde (You ever thought about being weird for a living?)
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To: Chickensoup

How old is she? Tell her that interviewers and college application (admissions people) look at FB.


126 posted on 07/12/2009 5:13:57 PM PDT by merry10
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To: Chickensoup

Not good what is on the itnernet is forever.


127 posted on 07/12/2009 5:14:30 PM PDT by chris_bdba
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To: Chickensoup

any picture can be copied off the internet.


128 posted on 07/12/2009 5:15:17 PM PDT by Vaquero ("an armed society is a polite society" Robert A. Heinlein)
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To: merry10

How can they find her, it doesnt come up with google or google images. and it is private setting


129 posted on 07/12/2009 5:16:14 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: Chickensoup
...how far could these pictures go?

Anywhere on Earth, for now. To other planets, when the Internet gets there.

130 posted on 07/12/2009 5:17:12 PM PDT by 3niner (When Obama succeeds, America fails.)
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To: Chickensoup
Brain dead?

Well, if you feel that way have her remove the image and tell her why she is to remove it.

131 posted on 07/12/2009 5:17:18 PM PDT by jla
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To: Chickensoup

well, then don’t worry about it. But you should caution her.


132 posted on 07/12/2009 5:17:21 PM PDT by merry10
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To: Chickensoup
The photos are up, so there's not much to do about it. I generally don't spend time worrying about things I can't do anything about. Was it a good idea? Probably not. Will it destroy her life? Probably not.
133 posted on 07/12/2009 5:17:39 PM PDT by Richard Kimball (We're all criminals. They just haven't figured out what some of us have done yet.)
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To: chris_bdba

When I search Google images with her name and FACEBOOK. Nothing of hers comes up at all.


134 posted on 07/12/2009 5:18:36 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: jla

brain dead and twenty and not living at home.


135 posted on 07/12/2009 5:19:19 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: Richard Kimball

Thanks


136 posted on 07/12/2009 5:20:03 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: Chickensoup
Much ado over nothing.

Untold numbers of women have pictures of themselves in bikinis on the internet because...women wear bikinis...and this does not make them whores or porn stars, nor do all of them meet their end within days at the hands of a serial killer. And believe it nor not, most employers and college admission boards are aware of this.

137 posted on 07/12/2009 5:20:47 PM PDT by Dan Middleton (Say no to political personality cults, on the left or the right.)
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To: Hot Tabasco

Thank you for all your help. I think I have a sense of this and will try to move slowly and perhaps she will understand the greater impact of what she is doing.


138 posted on 07/12/2009 5:21:06 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: surfer

To be honest I know nothing about facebook.All my kids and most of the older grandkids are on it.I just know that they all have private accounts and nice pages.But your right you have to be careful.


139 posted on 07/12/2009 5:24:53 PM PDT by fatima (Free hugs today :).)
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To: Chickensoup

My 17 year old cousin has a photo of her in a bikini.. its neither threatening nor suggestive in anyway.. she is a georgeous girl to boot. She is almost like my daughter in a real way rather than my younger cousin

But I am not worried for her.. she lives in a very down to earth home with good conservative parents. Anyone messes with her, she will make sure they are very very sorry.. then the mom and dad gets involved.. Oh god.. look out!


140 posted on 07/12/2009 5:26:03 PM PDT by Kitanis
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To: Dan Middleton

I was asking what the downside was...


141 posted on 07/12/2009 5:26:24 PM PDT by Chickensoup ("Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.")
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To: Chickensoup; earlJam; Larry Lucido; Cagey

Being that she’s 18 years old not much you can do, however, she should be careful when she starts sending out Christmas cards of herself.


142 posted on 07/12/2009 5:28:05 PM PDT by MotleyGirl70
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To: Chickensoup
The greater danger is not that the pictures will be seen
by someone unintended, the real danger is the mindset of
a daughter that feels it is OK to post presumably alluring pictures of herself - anywhere!
143 posted on 07/12/2009 5:29:58 PM PDT by HardStarboard ("The urge to save humanity is almost always a false front for the urge to rule - Mencken knew Obama)
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To: Chickensoup

As most have said, what seems innocent and harmless today may not seem so in the future.
The worst thing is the lack of control as to what happens to the files. You just do not know.

I advise my daughter thus; do not have photos taken of you with a glass in your hand, do not have photos of you smoking anything, do not have photos of you with PDAs of either sex, DO keep an eye out for backgrounds of photos. She is 30 and can do what she wants but I tell her, you just don’t know.

My grandmother gave me the advice that was passed down to her about the glass of adult beverages.

Good luck!


144 posted on 07/12/2009 5:33:27 PM PDT by wxgesr (I want to be the first person to surf on another planet!)
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To: Chickensoup
toothpaste / tube and all that, but... you might want to fine out why she felt to need to post them.
145 posted on 07/12/2009 5:35:08 PM PDT by Chode (American Hedonist - Obama is basically Jim Jones with a teleprompter)
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To: I see my hands

I’m not worried — I LOVE Big Brother.


146 posted on 07/12/2009 5:37:09 PM PDT by BenLurkin ("A new Dark Ages made all the more terrible and prolonged by the sinister powers of science.")
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To: Chickensoup

I’m not familiar w/ those personalized website but I would think you can just right-click and ‘Save As’ to your computer. Not sure about that but that would be my guess.


147 posted on 07/12/2009 5:38:34 PM PDT by MotleyGirl70
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To: Chickensoup

Try controlling a 14 year old boy who does.


148 posted on 07/12/2009 5:51:49 PM PDT by Maine Mariner
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To: Maine Mariner

She should know that any time she applies for a job, her potential employer will be checking the social networks. So will potential boyfriends and potential in-laws.


149 posted on 07/12/2009 6:00:07 PM PDT by Kanzan
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To: Chickensoup

They could go viral...depending on how many friends she has in her network, and then how many friends her friends have.


150 posted on 07/12/2009 6:02:59 PM PDT by HiJinx (~ Support Our Troops ~ www.ourmilitary.mil ~)
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