Posted on 01/25/2010 5:40:31 PM PST by tet68
Thank you. Much about this has been an eye-opener for me... I’m finally out of my walking around in a trance phase... but no one is ever prepared for this.
Bless you for helping your friend.
Prayers your friend will heal.
Thanks for your informative post.
My life was saved early in December because of quick reaction by my friends. I was bleeding internally (badly) and was near death by the time they got me off the mountain and to medical care that met us. Minutes mattered.
/johnny
Thank you all so much.
I posted this because knowing the symptoms is
very easy. Even so it took me several minutes
to put it together, all while questioning my
diagnosis. But after a bit it was very plain
and even my friend had to admit something was
wrong.
Will check out the thread in the morning
and post updates as
soon as I hear.
Tet.
Great information! Thanks for posting, especially now. I’m waiting for blood work results to see if I have temporal arteritis. The women in my family have all had issues or passed away from brain aneurysms/tumors, so I’m keenly aware of a potential time bomb in me.
As to your question about how I'm doing... it's been a shock, we were very close and had been together for 36 years... we each had our role in our daily lives and now I'm having to do both or find people to help me -- things like hanging something on the wall, which I took for granted in the past... I feel he is still around me, watching out for me. I am very glad the holidays are over, they were difficult. In general I can't change what happened, everything happens for a reason in God's own plan and clearly it was my husband's time... doesn't mean I don't miss him, I do...
I think people need to know more about strokes, but even if I had reacted faster, the location of my husband's stroke was such that nothing would have saved him.
We didn’t have an autopsy to determine the cause, but my husband had headaches his entire life and no one ever knew why. Interesting the morning of his stroke he didn’t have a sharp pain — probably due to the bleed being in the center of his brain — but the CT Scan showed the blood had actually moved his spinal column to the side and blood had leaked into the spine itself. Interesting thing is only a few weeks prior he had an MRI of the brain and it didn’t show anything.. but the neuro had played around with some new headache medications and like all strange things they tried on him over the years it gave him severe side effects that were worse than the headaches...
So sorry to hear of the loss of your husband.
God bless you and your husband Carolyn. We all just never know. Thank you for sharing your story.
God,how sad. She was younger than a couple of my kids.
Needless to say,at my age,strokes are a very big fear.
It’s all in God’s hands.
My condolences.
Excellent post. Call 911 or get to the hospital FAST!
I am so sorry to hear this. Please accept my condolences.
My deepest sympathy. May the Lord give you the peace in your soul and spirit that only He can give. God bless you.
SMILE
I have said a prayer for your friend and his wife. May the Lord be with them.
I came on shift and was doing vitals in a 4 bed ward when I looked over at a young man with sheer panic on his face..I went over to see what he wanted (I knew he had a stroke from the midnight shift report and he was only in the hospital a hour when shift change came on). He could shake his head yes or no, thats all the communication he had...
I ask him if he knew where he was, shook head NO. I sat with him and explained he had a stroke, what a stroke was and that there were therapies to assist him in regaining what stoke had damaged.
That is the worse situation to be in, when you don't know where you are or why you are there and suddenly you cannot communicate with anyone..its like being dropped into the middle of another country and you cannot talk..
This patient was in his early 40's. No one thinks that strokes can happen at those young ages.
The youngest stoke patient I had was 16 and on the rehab. unit..She had a heart valve replacement because of Rheumatic fever several years earlier and threw a clot that resulted in a stoke...
She did great on rehab and come back to see the staff the night of her senior prom.....
I was not being facetious or unsympathetic in saying SMILE. It is taught in Red Cross emergency training. It is an early indicator in a stroke. A person suffering a stroke will either be unable to smile or not able to smile normally. Also talking will be affected. My prayers go out to the stroke victim and their loved ones
Patricia, prayers up for you and your family.
FReepers are some of the most courageous people I know.
Everyone on this thread is brave and heroic to one degree or another.
goatgranny, God bless you for your compassion as you go about your daily work.
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