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Why white men prefer Asian ladies to their own kind
http://news.asiaone.com/print/News/News.html ^ | 7/31/2010

Posted on 07/31/2010 9:13:39 PM PDT by chasio649

Las Vegas bookies give better odds on a nickel slot machine hitting the jackpot than a single white female meeting and marrying a single white male in the Middle Kingdom. -China Daily/ANN

Sat, Jul 31, 2010 China Daily/Asia News Network

Yellow Fever. [ yel'lo f'var]

1. A viral infection transmitted by mosquitoes in South America and sub-Saharan Africa

2. An intense attraction for Asians by Caucasians

It's the Mount Qomolangma of obstacles, the nightmare on bar street, the reason why single white females cry in their half-price drinks on Ladies Night as they're passed over for the long black hair and short skirts of their Chinese sisters. As the bar chanteuse croons, "I've got the fever" the male expatriates sing lustily in reply ".yellow fever!"

"I'm a reasonably attractive, intelligent woman who, like these guys thought out-of-the-box and came to China. And we share the same native language. Why those girls over me?" laments a single white female. Why indeed. China has long been known as a single (sometimes married) white man's playground while at the same time being a single white woman's wasteland.

Las Vegas bookies give better odds on a nickel slot machine hitting the jackpot than a single white female meeting and marrying a single white male in the Middle Kingdom.

What is it then that attracts expatriate men to Chinese women? Is it their petite size, willingness to submit to their needs, eagerness to help their men succeed? Duh, yes.

Rightly or wrongly, Chinese women fully expect their husbands to be the provider and will take a backseat in order for them to be successful. Of course, for the male expatriates, dreams of lives like a bed-of-roses are abruptly pierced with thorny predicaments when meeting future in-laws. But differences aside, many such couples press ahead with the multiple bridal ceremonies and receptions. Chicken breast is on the wedding menu for guests in his hometown, while the head and feet are served up to friends and family in hers.

>> Should more expatriate women seek our local Chinese men?

Now with the male-female ratio in China decidedly greater on the male side, why don't more expatriate women increase their dating pool and seek out local Chinese men?

Well even if the single white female is relatively conversant in Chinese, there's a physical obstacle. It's embarrassing when your boyfriend's jeans are smaller than your own. It may harken back to that "hunter-gatherer" thing, but generally, women want men who are tall enough to see over their foreheads (Tom Cruise excepted).

Chinese men, unlike Chinese women, are more risk-averse and less comfortable swimming in the uncharted seas of cross-cultural relationships. Chinese men are more tradition bound and especially in the age of the one-child family, bear a heavy filial duty to their parents. Sons are expected to take care of their parents, but in reality it's the wife's duty to serve the in-laws. And Po po and Gong gong are none too happy when laowai girlfriend plans to kidnap their son to Phuket for Spring Festival instead of staying at home and rolling jiaozi with them. Yes, parents can be a buzz kill.

And true or not (but mostly true), expatriate women carry the reputation for being very vocal about what they think and want. Few are the Chinese men who will put up with losing face over inadvertent statements made by their expatriate girlfriends. So unless the single white female is fluent in Chinese and understands the culture, a Chinese man will be reluctant to start something he knows will end badly.

With all these advantages to Chinese women, what's a single white female to do? There's fading hope in quasi-social networking cocktails or maybe another awkward evening matched up with the only other single at your friend's dinner party or worst yet, waking up in someone's hand-me-down IKEA bed in a fourth floor walk-up after a mind-numbing night of vodka shots at the local pub.

Yes girlfriend, if China will be your life, then go native; if not then, better luck back on your home turf. Match.com is waiting.


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"waking up in someone's hand-me-down IKEA bed in a fourth floor walk-up after a mind-numbing night of vodka shots at the local pub."

Well, there's her answer....

1 posted on 07/31/2010 9:13:42 PM PDT by chasio649
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To: chasio649
Kung pow!


2 posted on 07/31/2010 9:18:40 PM PDT by library user
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To: chasio649

“All sex is rape” —there’s another easy answer.


3 posted on 07/31/2010 9:19:05 PM PDT by gaijin
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To: chasio649

In previous threads on this type subject the concensus was that Asian women actually like being women while many white women can tend to gravitate towards liberalism even if they have a conservative facade (i.e., Laura Bush).


4 posted on 07/31/2010 9:19:06 PM PDT by fkabuckeyesrule (The important thing to remember is that Obama reads newspapers and isn't that whats important?)
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To: chasio649

“to their own kind”???

What kind of crap is that?


5 posted on 07/31/2010 9:20:11 PM PDT by mnehring
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To: library user

It’s simple - more attractive.


6 posted on 07/31/2010 9:21:14 PM PDT by DJlaysitup
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To: chasio649

My brother has an asian woman but I prefer the blondes myself.


7 posted on 07/31/2010 9:21:51 PM PDT by tflabo (Restore the Republic)
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To: mnehring
What kind of crap is that?

That would be utter and complete crap.

8 posted on 07/31/2010 9:23:23 PM PDT by Stentor
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To: DJlaysitup
It’s simple - more attractive.

Not by a long shot in my book.

But, that's just me. To each his own...

9 posted on 07/31/2010 9:23:28 PM PDT by Windflier (To anger a conservative, tell him a lie. To anger a liberal, tell him the truth.)
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To: Stentor

That’s what I figured.


10 posted on 07/31/2010 9:24:22 PM PDT by mnehring
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To: chasio649

The article does hint at what gringo men may be stepping into in an Asian marriage.

You don’t just marry her. You marry her whole family.

Get ready to be prostate-milked, honorable rich white boy. Thy connubial bliss may be stymied as you are expected to expedite the immigration and support all thy in-laws.

Then beware if you find yourself abruptly divorced once the five-year waiting period is over and Madame Butterfly qualifies for her green card.


11 posted on 07/31/2010 9:25:04 PM PDT by sinanju
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To: chasio649

Presumably most white dudes in China aren’t staying there forever. They can get white women whenever they want when they go back to wherever they came from. When in Rome, have sex with the people Romans have sex with.


12 posted on 07/31/2010 9:25:09 PM PDT by Tublecane
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To: chasio649
Here is the thing white guys don't realize - if you go to Japan and date white women they will come at you like crazy because they are SO lonely. It's a niche market - most white guys are chasing japanese tail and the japanese guys are scared to death of white women.

Of course, after dating a slew of Brits, Aussies, and Americas, I met a wonderful woman from Kyoto. So yeah, count me as one of the yellow fever types.
13 posted on 07/31/2010 9:25:31 PM PDT by struggle ((The struggle continues))
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To: chasio649

I’m waiting for the de rigueur comment on these threads that men prefer asian women because asian women allow themselves to be treated like doormats. Anybody who believes this has never been married to an asian woman. We are talking steel lotus flower.


14 posted on 07/31/2010 9:25:58 PM PDT by fidelis (Zonie and USAF Cold Warrior)
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To: struggle

Here is the thing white guys don’t realize - if you go to Japan and date white women they will come at you like crazy because they are SO lonely


Never thought about it that angle.


15 posted on 07/31/2010 9:26:52 PM PDT by chasio649 (amused)
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To: chasio649

I lived in Asia for six+ years and ran across many single white females. And let me tell you, they are more than likely Canadian, which makes them even more condescending, snider, and bitchier than any group of women in the world. Unless an Asian guy wants a blond trophy which puts out, he is well served to steer clear of the average SWF expat.


16 posted on 07/31/2010 9:27:06 PM PDT by CondiArmy
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To: mnehring

“’to their own kind’???

What kind of crap is that?”

Well, it’s a statistical fact that most people end up with mates from similar backgrounds, with the same cultures, nationalities, and, yes, skin colors.


17 posted on 07/31/2010 9:27:21 PM PDT by Tublecane
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To: fidelis

I’m waiting for the de rigueur comment on these threads that men prefer asian women because asian women allow themselves to be treated like doormats. Anybody who believes this has never been married to an asian woman. We are talking steel lotus flower.


Truth...i should know.


18 posted on 07/31/2010 9:27:51 PM PDT by chasio649 (amused)
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To: chasio649
Why white men prefer Asian ladies to their own kind

Because they aren't gay?

19 posted on 07/31/2010 9:27:53 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (there are huge chunks of time...at night...where I'm just asleep...for hours...it's ridiculous....)
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To: mnehring

Most honorable Chinese writer call spade a spade; not suffer from Western malady known as “political correctness”.


20 posted on 07/31/2010 9:28:02 PM PDT by sinanju
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To: chasio649

Case closed.

21 posted on 07/31/2010 9:28:20 PM PDT by fhayek
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To: chasio649

After my first trip to to the Philippines in 2008,
I moved here from Europe in Jan. 2009, and yes, because of the sweet ladies that treat their men like they are gods.
Add to that, the cost of living is a fraction of cost in the west.


22 posted on 07/31/2010 9:29:35 PM PDT by AlexW
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To: chasio649

Yeah, and what’s even funnier, the Brits and Aussies think your accent is sexy. Even though I was fluent in Japanese, I wasn’t interested in Japanese women really until I met my wife.

The point being, it’s the individual that’s important.


23 posted on 07/31/2010 9:30:13 PM PDT by struggle ((The struggle continues))
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To: AlexW
I worked for a multinational back in the seventies. The joke then was that the best of all worlds was an American job, a European home and a Japanese wife. The worst of all worlds was a European job, a Japanese home and...
24 posted on 07/31/2010 9:33:13 PM PDT by Richard Kimball (We're all criminals. They just haven't figured out what some of us have done yet.)
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To: chasio649

This is from a pretty funny site

http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/2008/01/20/11-asian-girls/


25 posted on 07/31/2010 9:34:12 PM PDT by skimask
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To: chasio649

I’m reminded to my Days in the Navy....

It’s sideways....


26 posted on 07/31/2010 9:35:40 PM PDT by downwdims (It does not take a majority to prevail... but rather an irate, tireless minority)
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To: chasio649

Sorry. Married to a tall white woman made better by her wearing 3-4 inch heels to work. No need for a short subservient nit-wit. Screw this sh@t. I thought we were Americans here.


27 posted on 07/31/2010 9:36:17 PM PDT by Lazlo in PA
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To: CondiArmy

“........I lived in Asia for six+ years and ran across many single white females. And let me tell you, they are more than likely Canadian, which makes them even more condescending, snider, and bitchier than any group of women in the world.....”

I’ve found that to be much more true of Australian women to be honest. Such a freeking chip on their shoulders. Absolutely weird.


28 posted on 07/31/2010 9:36:17 PM PDT by floridavoter2
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To: chasio649

This article is a direct rip-of from one years ago. Only the words have been rearranged from Thailand to China. Nothing new.

http://www.nomarriage.com/articleasia.html

and this

http://www.nomarriage.com/articleasia1.html


29 posted on 07/31/2010 9:38:02 PM PDT by Organic Panic
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To: sinanju
“Then beware if you find yourself abruptly divorced once the five-year waiting period is over and Madame Butterfly qualifies for her green card.”

An older gentleman(?) I know is on his fourth or fifth Philipino wife. He said it is even a better deal than a leased car. As long as you get one that is a good cook. He said they are all real good in bed. And after five years when they have their green card and want a divorce - you're pretty much tired of them anyway. And then he heads back to the Phillipines for a vacation. And a new wife! Pretty goofy if you ask me, but to each their own.

30 posted on 07/31/2010 9:38:33 PM PDT by 21twelve ( UNINTENDED CONSEQUENCES MY ARSE: "..now begin the work of remaking America."-Obama, 1/20/09)
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To: chasio649

1. My J. wife NEVER stinks
2. My J. wife is not fat + no signs of impending ass explosion
3. My J. wife is not political in any way
4. My J. wife likes animals, but also will eat them with me
5. My J. wife not only does not compete with me, but does not even AVOID competing with me

6. My J. wife seldom uses sex as a weapon —verrry few, “headaches”

7. My J. wife is strong, but does not have a clear idea of what feminism is; “Men & women = enemies” is a nebulous concept


31 posted on 07/31/2010 9:41:00 PM PDT by gaijin
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To: 21twelve

>>An older gentleman(?) I know is on his fourth or fifth Philipino wife. He said it is even a better deal than a leased car. As long as you get one that is a good cook. He said they are all real good in bed. And after five years when they have their green card and want a divorce - you’re pretty much tired of them anyway. And then he heads back to the Phillipines for a vacation. And a new wife! Pretty goofy if you ask me, but to each their own.

Is his name Art Bell?


32 posted on 07/31/2010 9:41:33 PM PDT by struggle ((The struggle continues))
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To: chasio649

Ai Shinozaki 篠崎愛

Born: 26 February 1992

87 - 60 - 88 cm (34" - 26" - 35")

Height: 5' 3" Weight: 90 lbs.

That's why.

33 posted on 07/31/2010 9:44:04 PM PDT by B-Chan (Catholic. Monarchist. Texan. Any questions?)
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To: floridavoter2

“.I lived in Asia for six+ years and ran across many single white females.”

In my 18 months here in the Philippines, I have yet to see one single white girl, and maybe only a few white couples.
Every town, however, has a sizable collection of western men, married to, or going with Philippine girls.


34 posted on 07/31/2010 9:44:04 PM PDT by AlexW
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To: chasio649
Asian women are tough, but they realize that it makes no sense to attack the guy they are with over his perceived shortcomings; they are interested, not in being a doormat, but in moving forward together.

"White" women have unfortunately been convinced by TV / Cosmo / Sex in the City that they should engage in certain behaviors, all of which are counter-productive to having a good relationship with a straight man.

35 posted on 07/31/2010 9:44:16 PM PDT by ikka
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To: library user; wardaddy

As one who chased LBFM’s all over the world for a few decades I will say Chinese ladies are last on the good looks train.

Thai gals.....Numbah 1 !

There is some round eye in that ladies DNA .....


36 posted on 07/31/2010 9:44:26 PM PDT by Squantos (Be polite. Be professional. But have a plan to kill everyone you meet)
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To: struggle

Is his name Art Bell?


Art likes dem brown ones ;)


37 posted on 07/31/2010 9:45:25 PM PDT by chasio649 (amused)
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To: 21twelve

“As long as you get one that is a good cook.”...If you like the taste - they are AWESOME cooks...no hamburger helper if you can provide.


38 posted on 07/31/2010 9:45:52 PM PDT by DJlaysitup
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To: ikka

I think you’ve summed it up nicely...can’t argue with that.


39 posted on 07/31/2010 9:47:01 PM PDT by chasio649 (amused)
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To: B-Chan

Wow, she is too childlike and androgynous for me, that picture gives me the willies, (the creeps).


40 posted on 07/31/2010 9:47:50 PM PDT by ansel12 (Mitt: "I was an independent during the time of Reagan-Bush. I'm not trying to return to Reagan-Bush")
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To: chasio649
My eldest son married a gal from Okinawa, going on ten years now. She's no submissive wall flower by any means. He also says you end up marrying the whole family but he's ok with that.
41 posted on 07/31/2010 9:47:59 PM PDT by ladyvet (WOLVERINES!!!!!)
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To: fhayek
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42 posted on 07/31/2010 9:48:40 PM PDT by ansel12 (Mitt: "I was an independent during the time of Reagan-Bush. I'm not trying to return to Reagan-Bush")
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To: gaijin

My wife’s family are pretty famous Buddhist statue carvers in Kyoto. After hearing of them and their reputation (they had three houses, one across the street from the old imperial palace), I was kind of scared to spend New Years getting to know them. We played Mah Jang and I played her brother in shogi and so on, and it was a great time.

I eventually asked the father “Did you hesitate in allowing your daughter to marry me?” He responded, “No! We don’t care who she marries as long as he’s not an idiot.” This seemed like a rather strange compliment, but it was still a compliment.


43 posted on 07/31/2010 9:48:49 PM PDT by struggle ((The struggle continues))
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To: fkabuckeyesrule
In previous threads on this type subject the concensus was that Asian women actually like being women

That's what I think it's all about, and I'll go so far as to say it's the women who have changed, not men. Go watch old movies on TCM. The white women back then look like, carry themselves, etc like asian women today. It seems like many western women have become unfeminine. Of course some western men have become effeminate. But women seem to have changed more IMO and you can see it in old movies, commercials.
44 posted on 07/31/2010 9:50:21 PM PDT by Vision ("Did I not say to you that if you would believe, you would see the glory of God?" John 11:40)
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To: ikka

Exactly. I am happily married (to a tall, blue-eyed Teutonic goddess, LOL) and have been for eighteen years, thanks be to God, but if were ever to become single again, God forbid, there is no way on Earth I’d date American white girls. Not a chance. Most American women are trained from birth to be screeching harpies. (To be fair, most American men are giant 10-year-old boys.) For me, it would be Japanese girls or nothing. They are still women over there, not Men With Breasts.


45 posted on 07/31/2010 9:51:10 PM PDT by B-Chan (Catholic. Monarchist. Texan. Any questions?)
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To: B-Chan

“Men With Breasts”

They wear manziers or Bros?


46 posted on 07/31/2010 9:52:52 PM PDT by chasio649 (amused)
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To: Richard Kimball
Okay, its 12:40 on a Saturday night. I'm enjoying a couple of nice adult beverages. Let's put the cards on the table. I am a European American (snort). I think Asian women are hot. Scandinavian women are exquisite. I like women of Irish heritage and if Polish girls were stocks, they would be a great buying opportunity. Latino woman, African American women, not my cup of tea. So. Am I a racist?
47 posted on 07/31/2010 9:54:41 PM PDT by fhayek
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To: ansel12
Androgynous? WTF??? Did you click on the link?

Your concept of androgyny is obviously different from mine.

48 posted on 07/31/2010 9:54:57 PM PDT by B-Chan (Catholic. Monarchist. Texan. Any questions?)
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To: Vision

“That’s what I think it’s all about, and I’ll go so far as to say it’s the women who have changed, not men.”

I won’t say you are exactly right V - but you are pretty darned close.


49 posted on 07/31/2010 9:55:36 PM PDT by DJlaysitup
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To: Vision

You want to know why men like asian women? Just watch the beginning of Tamori Club (Nsfw):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGT0wlQPxLg


50 posted on 07/31/2010 9:56:04 PM PDT by struggle ((The struggle continues))
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