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'Sugarbabe' favors negotiated infidelity
CNN ^ | 8/3/10 | Shanon Cook

Posted on 08/03/2010 12:59:47 PM PDT by MissTed

Could letting your man sleep with another woman help your relationship?

Author and former mistress Holly Hill thinks so.

"One of the main things that I have learned is that a woman that negotiates infidelity with her partner is far more powerful than a woman who is sitting home wondering why he's late from the office Christmas party," she says.

"It's better to walk the dog on a leash than let it escape through an unseen hole in the back fence."

Hill's memoir, "Sugarbabe" details her yearlong adventure with a series of so-called "sugar daddies." The book sold 24,000 copies in her native Australia, according to her publisher, and has just been released in the United States. Holly Hill is a pen name.

"I thought it was men that would like the book," she says, "But in fact it's women, because what it says to women is that if your man cheats on you, he still loves you, and he's probably running about average."

Allowing their men to stray is a concept that's difficult for most women to contemplate.

But Hill says that if a woman takes the time to truly examine her relationship and considers Mother Nature's unerring spell on men's libidos, she might realize that letting her boyfriend or spouse know she's OK with him having sex elsewhere is a logical way to prevent him from doing it in secret.

(Excerpt) Read more at cnn.com ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: adultery; antimarriage; boycotttimewater; cnnbias; culturewar; downisup; hollyhill; hollyweird; homosexualagenda; lavendermafia; marriage; moralabsolutes; polygamy; promiscuity; sexpositiveagenda; smashmonogamy; sugarbabe; swingers; timelies
You've come a long way, baby.
1 posted on 08/03/2010 12:59:51 PM PDT by MissTed
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To: MissTed

Why Sugarbabe? It sounds better than “Whore” I guess...


2 posted on 08/03/2010 1:01:04 PM PDT by jessduntno (I wonder...how will third Manassas turn out?)
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To: MissTed

Would this make a good Christmas present for the wife?


3 posted on 08/03/2010 1:01:22 PM PDT by equalitybeforethelaw
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To: MissTed
The oldest argument in existence, do evil to do good.

We all know how well that works out.

4 posted on 08/03/2010 1:01:41 PM PDT by frogjerk (I believe in unicorns, fairies and pro-life Democrats.)
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To: wagglebee

Time-Lies-CNN, Boycott Time-Warner as they continue to try to “smash monogamy”

Lead off:
“Could letting your man sleep with another woman help your relationship? Author and former mistress Holly Hill thinks so...”


5 posted on 08/03/2010 1:01:49 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (I wish our president loved the US military as much as he loves Paul McCartney.)
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To: MissTed

It’s like the Eddie Murphy routine, “Yeah, we f-——, I f——d her, so what? I ‘make love’ to you.”


6 posted on 08/03/2010 1:03:00 PM PDT by dfwgator
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To: MissTed
"because what it says to women is that if your man cheats on you, he still loves you,...[...]"

And to think, we always doubted the Clinton marriage when they had the answer to an honest marriage all along... (SIC)
7 posted on 08/03/2010 1:04:03 PM PDT by Allthegoodusernamesaregone
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To: MissTed

These people are sick.


8 posted on 08/03/2010 1:04:22 PM PDT by Scythian
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To: MissTed

Can't find a man of her own?

9 posted on 08/03/2010 1:05:00 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (I wish our president loved the US military as much as he loves Paul McCartney.)
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To: MissTed; a fool in paradise; 185JHP; 230FMJ; Albion Wilde; Aleighanne; Alexander Rubin; ...
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10 posted on 08/03/2010 1:07:38 PM PDT by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: MissTed
....and he's probably running about average."

So, if I am true to my wife, that must make me above average.

11 posted on 08/03/2010 1:07:45 PM PDT by SERKIT ("Blazing Saddles" explains it all.....)
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To: MissTed
"It's better to walk the dog on a leash than let it escape through an unseen hole in the back fence."

That's what she gets for marrying a dog.

12 posted on 08/03/2010 1:08:07 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Steampunk Baby and the Quest for Bill's iPod - now on DVD!)
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To: Tax-chick

You lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas.


13 posted on 08/03/2010 1:09:39 PM PDT by dfwgator
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To: MissTed

Wait until the wandering mutt brings home a case of the clap, the drip, herpes or even HIV, ‘Holly Hill’ won’t have anything to say about that event.


14 posted on 08/03/2010 1:10:57 PM PDT by mkjessup (America doesn't have to fear an 0bama administration - John 'Quisling' McCain.)
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To: MissTed

Dang!!! The trash truck already picked up.


15 posted on 08/03/2010 1:13:18 PM PDT by rockinqsranch (Liberalism draws criminals as excrement draws flies. Liberals are only good for bait.)
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To: a fool in paradise
She looks quite the dish ...

Petri dish, that is.

16 posted on 08/03/2010 1:13:21 PM PDT by ArrogantBustard (Western Civilization is Aborting, Buggering, and Contracepting itself out of existence.)
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To: dfwgator

Use the “Revolution” drops every month. Works on catz, too.


17 posted on 08/03/2010 1:13:49 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Steampunk Baby and the Quest for Bill's iPod - now on DVD!)
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To: dfwgator
wake up with fleas.

Is that the new euphemism for "crabs"?

18 posted on 08/03/2010 1:16:38 PM PDT by ArrogantBustard (Western Civilization is Aborting, Buggering, and Contracepting itself out of existence.)
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To: MissTed

I would imagine the reason she “lets” her spouse cheat, is because she is guilty herself.


19 posted on 08/03/2010 1:16:43 PM PDT by Kakaze (Exterminate Islamofacism and apologize for nothing....except not doing it sooner!)
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To: MissTed

Really disgusting - plays to the lowest common denominator. Reminds me of the foolish parents who buy their kid condoms and say, “Go ahead and have sex in our house, you’re going to have it anyway and I’d rather you were safe.”

Talk about capitulation.

Colonel, USAFR


20 posted on 08/03/2010 1:17:49 PM PDT by jagusafr ("We hold these truths to be self-evident...")
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To: MissTed; dfwgator

I know exactly how my wife would react.

BLAM BLAM BLAM BLAM BLAM BLAM BLAM click click click

“Honey, how do I reload this thing?”


21 posted on 08/03/2010 1:21:34 PM PDT by Philo1962 (Iraq is terrorist flypaper. They go there to die.)
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To: MissTed
This recurrent topic never ceases to entertain, amuse and create hissy fits.

Anybody who has the interest to explore the topic in a serious adult way, may want to check this out :

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22 posted on 08/03/2010 1:21:52 PM PDT by Publius6961 ("In 1964 the War on Poverty Began --- Poverty won.")
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To: Philo1962

LOL - sounds reasonable.


23 posted on 08/03/2010 1:27:32 PM PDT by MissTed (My dogs have more integrity then my President)
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To: MissTed
woman angry Pictures, Images and Photos

Wife says no effing way.

24 posted on 08/03/2010 1:27:52 PM PDT by Snickering Hound
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To: MissTed

At least she wouldn’t be using the blowtorch ...


25 posted on 08/03/2010 1:30:57 PM PDT by Philo1962 (Iraq is terrorist flypaper. They go there to die.)
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To: wagglebee

She compares men to dogs.

Every human has the choice to behave like an animal or to behave like a human.

When everyone is taught that they are not souls, that humans are just meat machines, no different than animals just minus the fur, then there is no reason not to act like animals.

This lie is destroying civilization.


26 posted on 08/03/2010 1:38:17 PM PDT by little jeremiah
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To: Philo1962
At least she wouldn’t be using the blowtorch ...

And the pair of pliers.

27 posted on 08/03/2010 1:39:48 PM PDT by dfwgator
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To: MissTed

ask Mike Kekich how all that worked out.


28 posted on 08/03/2010 1:49:21 PM PDT by stylin19a (Never buy a putter until you first get a chance to throw it)
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To: jessduntno

While whore might also fit, there is also a slight distinction. Sugarbaby is the counterpart to a sugardaddy.


29 posted on 08/03/2010 2:04:10 PM PDT by Melas
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To: Melas

“While whore might also fit, there is also a slight distinction. Sugarbaby is the counterpart to a sugardaddy.’

The only “distinction” is the label ... a whore is a whore ... I don’t want to hear my little girl say “When I grow up I want to be a Sugarbaby” anymore than ... ahhhhhhhhh...


30 posted on 08/03/2010 2:08:09 PM PDT by jessduntno (I wonder...how will third Manassas turn out?)
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To: a fool in paradise

remember when “The Story of O” came out?


31 posted on 08/03/2010 2:24:27 PM PDT by MissDairyGoodnessVT (Free Nobel Peace Prize with oil change =^..^=)
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To: MissTed

“letting her boyfriend or spouse know she’s OK with him having sex elsewhere is a logical way to prevent him from doing it in secret.”

Yes, and letting your priest know it’s OK to fondle your son is a “logical” way to prevent him from doing it in secret.

And letting Jeffrey Dahmer know it’s OK to kill and eat his victims is a “logical” way to prevent him from doing it in secret.

etc. etc.

Indeed, if we just tolerated our differences in proclivity to murder, engage in pedophilia or incest, then NOTHING would have to be done in secret! Can’t we all just get along?


32 posted on 08/03/2010 2:52:10 PM PDT by DrC
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To: MissTed
And if hubby brings home a special little “gift” to “sugarbabe”? The type that leads to an early death?
33 posted on 08/03/2010 5:23:56 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (''I don't regret setting bombs,I feel we didn't do enough.'' ->Bill Ayers,Hussein's mentor,9/11/01)
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To: equalitybeforethelaw

LMAO! now THAT would be an interesting christmas morning!


34 posted on 08/03/2010 10:25:00 PM PDT by annelizly
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To: Snickering Hound

ahhh the acceptable domestic violence...


35 posted on 08/04/2010 8:24:15 AM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: MissTed

Wow there are a lot of people getting upset. Just because it’s not okay for one person doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for someone else. Variety is the spice of life, after all. The only thing I’d like to add is what’s good for the gander is good for the goose. I’d have a hard time convincing my hubby of it though. LOL!

No need to call names and insult, we’re all consenting adults, right?


36 posted on 08/04/2010 2:33:30 PM PDT by RaeKreb
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