Anybody who has the interest to explore the topic in a serious adult way, may want to check this out :
Posted on 08/03/2010 12:59:47 PM PDT by MissTed
Could letting your man sleep with another woman help your relationship?
Author and former mistress Holly Hill thinks so.
"One of the main things that I have learned is that a woman that negotiates infidelity with her partner is far more powerful than a woman who is sitting home wondering why he's late from the office Christmas party," she says.
"It's better to walk the dog on a leash than let it escape through an unseen hole in the back fence."
Hill's memoir, "Sugarbabe" details her yearlong adventure with a series of so-called "sugar daddies." The book sold 24,000 copies in her native Australia, according to her publisher, and has just been released in the United States. Holly Hill is a pen name.
"I thought it was men that would like the book," she says, "But in fact it's women, because what it says to women is that if your man cheats on you, he still loves you, and he's probably running about average."
Allowing their men to stray is a concept that's difficult for most women to contemplate.
But Hill says that if a woman takes the time to truly examine her relationship and considers Mother Nature's unerring spell on men's libidos, she might realize that letting her boyfriend or spouse know she's OK with him having sex elsewhere is a logical way to prevent him from doing it in secret.
(Excerpt) Read more at cnn.com ...
I know exactly how my wife would react.
BLAM BLAM BLAM BLAM BLAM BLAM BLAM click click click
“Honey, how do I reload this thing?”
Anybody who has the interest to explore the topic in a serious adult way, may want to check this out :
LOL - sounds reasonable.
Wife says no effing way.
At least she wouldn’t be using the blowtorch ...
She compares men to dogs.
Every human has the choice to behave like an animal or to behave like a human.
When everyone is taught that they are not souls, that humans are just meat machines, no different than animals just minus the fur, then there is no reason not to act like animals.
This lie is destroying civilization.
And the pair of pliers.
ask Mike Kekich how all that worked out.
While whore might also fit, there is also a slight distinction. Sugarbaby is the counterpart to a sugardaddy.
“While whore might also fit, there is also a slight distinction. Sugarbaby is the counterpart to a sugardaddy.’
The only “distinction” is the label ... a whore is a whore ... I don’t want to hear my little girl say “When I grow up I want to be a Sugarbaby” anymore than ... ahhhhhhhhh...
remember when “The Story of O” came out?
“letting her boyfriend or spouse know she’s OK with him having sex elsewhere is a logical way to prevent him from doing it in secret.”
Yes, and letting your priest know it’s OK to fondle your son is a “logical” way to prevent him from doing it in secret.
And letting Jeffrey Dahmer know it’s OK to kill and eat his victims is a “logical” way to prevent him from doing it in secret.
etc. etc.
Indeed, if we just tolerated our differences in proclivity to murder, engage in pedophilia or incest, then NOTHING would have to be done in secret! Can’t we all just get along?
LMAO! now THAT would be an interesting christmas morning!
ahhh the acceptable domestic violence...
Wow there are a lot of people getting upset. Just because it’s not okay for one person doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for someone else. Variety is the spice of life, after all. The only thing I’d like to add is what’s good for the gander is good for the goose. I’d have a hard time convincing my hubby of it though. LOL!
No need to call names and insult, we’re all consenting adults, right?
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