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How to Raise Boys Who Read
Wall Street Journal ^ | September 24, 2010 | THOMAS SPENCE

Posted on 11/08/2010 7:39:06 AM PST by Immerito

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To: fml

If my kids are reading, they can stay up late. If they’re reading, I will unload the dishes or do whatever else it was I was about to have them do. My girl reads 1,000 books a day. The boy not as much but still quite a bit.


21 posted on 11/08/2010 7:57:46 AM PST by Doctor 2Brains (If the government were Paris Hilton, it could not score a free drink in a bar full of lonely sailors)
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To: Immerito
Responsible parents have a profound effect, but I think there's also something in one's DNA that has an influence too.
My youngest son always hated to read, never did, yet today, is a high school math teacher who barely had to study.
Meanwhile, his older brother would read three books a week, barely got the everyday math, yet today, teaches high school history & English.
22 posted on 11/08/2010 7:58:21 AM PST by oh8eleven (RVN '67-'68)
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To: Immerito

I recently read a review of a Freddy the Pig book. Some of this series is back in reprint and they seem to get boys (maybe girls also) interested in reading. There is also a Freddy the Pig fan club for youngsters.


23 posted on 11/08/2010 7:58:34 AM PST by apocalypto
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To: Doctor 2Brains

My kids would have preferred you over me.;) I didn’t let them skip chores.


24 posted on 11/08/2010 8:02:59 AM PST by fml
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To: JenB

Kipling’s poems, too. They are funny and very instructional, too.


25 posted on 11/08/2010 8:03:04 AM PST by Little Ray (The Gods of the Copybook Heading, with terror and slaughter return!)
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To: goodwithagun

I homeschool my 12 year old, I have forf the last 2 years. He absolutly hates to read..we have tried almost eveything to get him to read. I have read to both my kids since they were babies, and he seems to like when we read together as a family. He can read..just hates it. So I am going to go with post #6, and get him a subscription to something that interests him.


26 posted on 11/08/2010 8:04:06 AM PST by kacres
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To: Doctor 2Brains

One thing that I have found gets kids interested is to read them the book or story that was transformed almost beyond recognition by the movie industry (take Pinocchio or Bambi, for instance).

When you get to the part where Pinocchio....well, I won’t spoil what happens within the first 20 pages. :-)


27 posted on 11/08/2010 8:06:57 AM PST by Immerito
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To: fml

Oh, they LOVE me. I’m very much a Felix Unger type. I hardly ever let them do chores because their performance will never satisfy me. You know how it is — they move a glass from the machine to the drying towel and a drop of water falls to the floor. Can’t have that, you know.


28 posted on 11/08/2010 8:07:07 AM PST by Doctor 2Brains (If the government were Paris Hilton, it could not score a free drink in a bar full of lonely sailors)
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To: apocalypto

I remember reading my daughter a book about a little boy who had no interest in reading at school. (Actually it was a book about the cat who lived at the bookstore. True story from Maine BTW) So his mother took him to the book store, where he finds a book about soccer, his favorite pastime. Eureka, boys will read books about subjects they are interested in.

....so do girls re: cats


29 posted on 11/08/2010 8:07:31 AM PST by massgopguy (I owe everything to George Bailey)
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To: MichaelP
If you read to your children and show them that you read, then they will read. Nothing works better than role modeling!

Exactly. My wife and I read with and to both kids when they were little. Also I never said no to them if they wanted a book. I read constantly myself and our house is filled with books. Both my kids(1 daughter, 1 son) are avid readers.

30 posted on 11/08/2010 8:08:32 AM PST by lawdave
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To: Immerito

Step 1: Turn off the television.


31 posted on 11/08/2010 8:09:34 AM PST by tacticalogic
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To: latina4dubya

ping


32 posted on 11/08/2010 8:09:56 AM PST by scripter ("You don't have a soul. You are a soul. You have a body." - C.S. Lewis)
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My ten-year-old son is the most gun-crazy kid I’ve ever known, and I’ve known a few. I think he would rather sit and shoot pop cans with his .22 than eat. He’s an outdoorsy, kinetic kid who plays soccer, loves to hunt, fish, hike, and camp, and he’s the last kid in the world you’d expect to see with his nose in a book.

Not long after he started sounding out words, I introduced him to adventure stories... Daniel Boone, Davy Crockett, even Louis L’Amour westerns. Now he reads himself to sleep every night, and dreams of hunting elk and mountain lions.


33 posted on 11/08/2010 8:13:49 AM PST by Oberon (Big Brutha Be Watchin'.)
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To: Doctor 2Brains

I am more like a cheater housekeeper. Looking clean is as good as being clean. I could write a book of cheats. #1, teach the kids to do it and when it’s half baked, blame them :)


34 posted on 11/08/2010 8:15:28 AM PST by fml
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To: Immerito

Turn off the TV.
Turn off the video games
Read aloud to your toddlers from day one. Every day a book.

Into amazon.com type in the follwing words:

“Backyard Ballistics”. It will give back a one year reading list for boys.

“The dangerous book for boys” will return a two or three year reading list for boys.

There are a lot of books that are geared for boys now.

Science Fiction is all good for guys. Thousands of titles to choose from and much of it is terrific writing.

It is just that easy.


35 posted on 11/08/2010 8:17:06 AM PST by texmexis best
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To: Immerito

One other thing:

if your son insists on reading under the covers with a flashlight, hassle him just enough to make him think that he is getting away with something special.


36 posted on 11/08/2010 8:19:08 AM PST by texmexis best
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I’m afraid the author is either mistaken, or very fortunate. Not even a complete absence of electronics from the house—no Playstation or XBox, no computer games, not even a functional TV—will force a kid to start reading. I read to my kids from the time they came home from the hospital. We have thousands of fascinating books in our house, my children see me reading constantly, there are books and good magazines on every table and in every room except possibly the dining room, every bedroom has a bookcase or two. And no dice. My 16-year-old son has exactly ONE book he likes to read; my daughter doesn’t read for pleasure at all, except for Vogue. It amazes me.


37 posted on 11/08/2010 8:20:35 AM PST by ottbmare (off-the-track Thoroughbred mare)
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To: massgopguy

I agree! Boys will not like Fancy Nancy or Strawberry Shortcake. When I was in the children’s section at the local bookstore, most books appeared to be oriented to girls.


38 posted on 11/08/2010 8:23:24 AM PST by apocalypto
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To: Immerito
Check out some of Theodore Dalrymple's books on this and other topics...."Our Culture, What's Left of It", for instance, or "Life at the Bottom", they are amazing.

As a British physician, Dalrymple cites cases of treating victims of brutal beatings by teens who did nothing more than score well on tests. For some reason in the U.K. it is cool to fail, anyone bucking the peer group gets savaged. Reading his works will make you despair for our education system.

40 posted on 11/08/2010 8:30:51 AM PST by CanaGuy (Go Harper! We still love you!)
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