Posted on 12/01/2010 4:27:59 PM PST by Niuhuru
A few days ago, I was reversing my car from a space in the Cheshire village of Alderley Edge car park, pleased to have found some beautiful flowers to take to my sick friend. Suddenly I heard a screech of rage. Failing to check my rear view properly, I’d narrowly missed backing into the small car entering the car park at a real lick.
Even inside my vehicle the torrent of abuse was deafening.
So I got out, hands up in supplication and apologies tumbling from my lips. ‘You f****** old bag,’ screamed the very pretty 18 or 19-year-old girl driver. ‘What the f*** do you think you’re doing?’
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The problem is’t the respect aspect, but the fact that so many women want ot be ‘taken care of’ and want a rich man to do it. I dated two guys who were starting out in the world, only to get left behind. I am now owrking on my own business and it’s finally picking up. In time I’ll get into Virology, but for the moment, money is my main interest along with my resume.
What is wrong with women that they dont’ worry about making thier own fortune?
Methinks you might have issues?
This aint Dad’s America, or UK’s.....They government and bankster insider co-conspirators, sold all that.
I refer to the Lifetime Movie Network, LMN, as the "Lousy Man Network". That seems to be the theme of 90% of the "entertainment" (= propaganda) it broadcasts.
You have hit the nail on the head! Also, girls/women aren’t expected to act “ladylike” anymore. In fact, the more raunchy they become, the more attractive/desirable. By whom? I guess the men/boys. So women/girls today are expected to cuss like sailors (no disrespect to any Navy veterans), wear trampy clothes, drink like fishes, fight like boxers.... Girls today are given too many mixed messages so it goes back to the parents (especially the Moms). I’m not raising my two daughters that way AND I am not raising my SON to think that girls who act that way are cool. Just a thought.
“I dated two guys who were starting out in the world, only to get left behind.”
Hmm, why’d they leave you behind?
Working is one thing. Wanting to work to make your own money, is a real red flag to me. Says to me you have issues with the idea that a family is meant to support each other through thick and thin and that you want to have a safety net outside of them. “Your money”, per se.
That’s not exactly an unusual attitude. Gals who see their money as theirs and your money as theirs, with the expectation that they have to work just to protect themselves so that they can say they don’t need you.
I’d rather be with someone who preferred not working.
Anyways, I’m a teacher. I don’t pretend to be rich and well off and the result is a rather quiet existence. Fine by me. As I said, the gals in university who were all about ‘finding themselves’, call me up now when they realise that I’m not tied down and expect me to lay out the red carpet. They don’t seem to realise that I was serious about how I felt back then, and that they didn’t want/need me then, they don’t really want/need me now.
I remember quite a few years ago, I went to a Shell station in Bloomington, IN. I was pulling in and got in by a long shot. Some young broad drove up and then flip me the bird and opened her window mentioning that she was entitled to get gas before me. I let her have it !
Another time when I was a grad student, parking was tight and it was pretty well those who got in first got first dibs on parking spots. One girl drove by and then came back later and when a spot opened up, she tried to take it. I started to back in and she pulled away. I got finished parking and she got out of her car screaming obscenities and made comments that she should get her spot and remarked how she was entitled to it. I told her she could wait in line like everyone else and pointed out a redneck in his truck who got there after I did.
These two stupid broads I mentioned about, I am 100% sure they voted for Dear Leader in the last election. In fact the second one got arrested for identity theft and her daddy was rich !
Do you speak from experience?
AMEN!
amen to that...
Why on Earth the other half of the species, men, are not angry at the injustices women suffer because of divorce, adultery, abandonment etc in this post Christian world I don't know. There are a few, but most are basking in the new game rules of “having their cake, eating it to” and women watch the attitude everyday — and react accordingly.
“children raised in day care or by the state do not learn the love-thy-neighbor principle.. nor to respect others or the property of others... it is survival of the fittest...”
What’s really scary is that I googled “Lord of the Flies Day Care” and got hits...
Another thing, some here discussing this only in regards to their own little world such as their homes, schools, churches, communities etc - their own daughters sitting at the kitchen table every morning — instead of looking at the big picture of who secular men and women are becoming in this post Christian world.
A Christian woman or man who is clueless as far as why women are the way they are now after all that has gone on in the world for decades needs to get up to speed. They are your mission field. Get over the fact that they swear like sailors - so what - they are angry.
Yes it’s all the BBC fault. Actually that is almost exactly my experience with all young people in the UK going back 25 years.
Don't forget, none of the above = loser.
These are the *good* ones, please understand.
I’m talking the Christian girls.
It just bothers me that attitude. All of a sudden being interested, wanting to do things, stuff like that, where before she couldn’t even be bothered to give me the time of day. I liked her very much and wanted to have a life together, but she wasn’t interested. Rather then sitting down and having that discussion, it was easier to avoid, not respond to calls, shut everything down.
You just don’t hurt someone badly and then try to jump back in when it is convenient to you. Life is strange. If you had asked me years ago if this would be my situation, I would have laughed at you.
Part of me is wary and the other part wants to say, look, see where it goes. So far I’ve been listening to the wariness and it’s not steered me wrong.
I was the nurturing type that I don’t think I wanted to work really, but I’ve grown up in a controlling family. I think the guys left me because I wasn’t ‘at their level’ or something. Either that or as they expanded their horizons, they found ‘better.’ Something of that sort I think.
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