Wait a minute, one of those boys was 16. Maybe I am old or something but that is not that much older than she. The 19 year old, okay he maybe a bit old but you also never know. Could he have been a friend of the family? Her brother’s friend or something? We don’t know.
You, and I mean “you all” must keep in mind that a lot of schools are now “Middle Schools” then “High schools” that means 14 year olds would go to school with a 16 year old. Not so in my day! It was called “Junior High” and the oldest was 14. I like that way better but you know the “publik skools”. Plus the way some kids don’t do well in school, that 19 year old may very well still have been a student! (failed a grade)
A minor met an adult online. She was allowed to meet with him several times. She was allowed to go to his house unsupervised. She's 14! That is like a high school freshman going out with a college freshman.