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It Don't Cost Nuthin'
email | unknown | Paul Bear Bryant

Posted on 01/19/2011 11:24:34 AM PST by Free Vulcan

At a Touchdown Club meeting many years ago, Coach Paul "Bear" Bryant told the following story:

I had just been named the new head coach at Alabama and was off in my old car down in South Alabama recruiting a prospect who was supposed to have been a pretty good player, and I was having trouble finding the place.

Getting hungry, I spied an old cinderblock building with a small sign out front that simply said "Restaurant." I pull up, go in, and every head in the place turns to stare at me. Seems I'm the only white fella in the place. But the food smelled good, so I skip a table and go up to a cement bar and sit. A big ole man in a tee shirt and cap comes over and says, "What do you need?"

I told him I needed lunch and what did they have today?

He says, "You probably won't like it here. Today we're having chitlins, collard greens and black-eyed peas with cornbread. I'll bet you don't even know what chitlins are, do you?"(small intestines of hogs prepared as food in the deep South)

I looked him square in the eye and said, "I'm from Arkansas , and I've probably eaten a mile of them. Sounds like I'm in the right place."

They all smiled as he left to serve me up a big plate. When he comes back he says, "You ain't from around here then?"

I explain I'm the new football coach up in Tuscaloosa at the University and I'm here to find whatever that boy's name was, and he says, "Yeah I've heard of him, he's supposed to be pretty good." And he gives me directions to the school so I can meet him and his coach.

As I'm paying up to leave, I remember my manners and leave a tip, not too big to be flashy, but a good one, and he told me lunch was on him, but I told him for a lunch that good, I felt I should pay. The big man asked me if I had a photograph or something he could hang up to show I'd been there. I was so new that I didn't have any yet. It really wasn't that big a thing back then to be asked for, but I took a napkin and wrote his name and address on it and told him I'd get him one.

I met the kid I was looking for later that afternoon and I don't remember his name, but do remember I didn't think much of him when I met him.

I had wasted a day, or so I thought. When I got back to Tuscaloosa late that night, I took that napkin from my shirt pocket and put it under my keys so I wouldn't forget it. Back then I was excited that anybody would want a picture of me. The next day we found a picture and I wrote on it, "Thanks for the best lunch I've ever had."

Now let's go a whole buncha years down the road. Now we have black players at Alabama and I'm back down in that part of the country scouting an offensive lineman we sure needed. Y'all remember, (and I forget the name, but it's not important to the story), well anyway, he's got two friends going to Auburn and he tells me he's got his heart set on Auburn too, so I leave empty handed and go on to see some others while I'm down there.

Two days later, I'm in my office in Tuscaloosa and the phone rings and it's this kid who just turned me down, and he says, "Coach, do you still want me at Alabama ?"

And I said, "Yes I sure do." And he says OK, he'll come.

And I say, "Well son, what changed your mind?"

And he said, "When my grandpa found out that I had a chance to play for you and said no, he pitched a fit and told me I wasn't going nowhere but Alabama, and wasn't playing for nobody but you. He thinks a lot of you and has ever since y'all met."

Well, I didn't know his granddad from Adam's housecat so I asked him who his granddaddy was and he said, "You probably don't remember him, but you ate in his restaurant your first year at Alabama and you sent him a picture that he's had hung in that place ever since. That picture's his pride and joy and he still tells everybody about the day that Bear Bryant came in and had chitlins with him..."

"My grandpa said that when you left there, he never expected you to remember him or to send him that picture, but you kept your word to him and to Grandpa, that's everything. He said you could teach me more than football and I had to play for a man like you, so I guess I'm going to."

I was floored. But I learned that the lessons my mama taught me were always right. It don't cost nuthin' to be nice. It don't cost nuthin' to do the right thing most of the time, and it costs a lot to lose your good name by breaking your word to someone.

When I went back to sign that boy, I looked up his Grandpa and he's still running that place, but it looks a lot better now. And he didn't have chitlins that day, but he had some ribs that would make Dreamland proud. I made sure I posed for a lot of pictures; and don't think I didn't leave some new ones for him, too, along with a signed football.

I made it clear to all my assistants to keep this story and these lessons in mind when they're out on the road. If you remember anything else from me, remember this. It really doesn't cost anything to be nice, and the rewards can be unimaginable.

Coach Paul "Bear" Bryant

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Editor's Note: Coach Bryant was in the presence of those few gentlemen for only minutes, and he defined himself for life. Regardless of our profession, we do define ourselves by how we treat others, and how we behave in the presence of others, and most of the time, we have only minutes or seconds to leave a lasting impression. We can be rude, crude, arrogant, cantankerous, or we can be nice. Nice is always a better choice.


TOPICS: History; Society; Sports
KEYWORDS: bearbryant; character; football; integrity
Great story about the Bear. Go Tide.
1 posted on 01/19/2011 11:24:41 AM PST by Free Vulcan
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To: Free Vulcan

Wow!

The most powerful lessons are the simplest.


2 posted on 01/19/2011 11:29:58 AM PST by freedumb2003 (Nothing sharpens the mind like not being able to get a job. /Nonstatist)
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To: Free Vulcan

Well - it did cost the price of postage. :-)


3 posted on 01/19/2011 11:30:39 AM PST by 2banana (My common ground with terrorists - they want to die for islam and we want to kill them)
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To: Free Vulcan

Awesome. Thanks for posting.


4 posted on 01/19/2011 11:31:59 AM PST by Wolfie
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To: Free Vulcan
What a fantastically heartwarming story about coach Bear Bryant.
I feel the same way and regularly seek to "underpromise and overdeliver" with people.
It is just as easy to be pleasant as it is to be abrasive.

5 posted on 01/19/2011 11:32:51 AM PST by Blue Jays (Rock Hard, Ride Free)
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To: Free Vulcan

Thanks for the smile this story put in my heart today.

Kind of makes up for the article about anyone not a Christian is no brother to the new Alabama governor.


6 posted on 01/19/2011 11:33:18 AM PST by Carley (IDEOLOGY TRUMPS FACTS IN THE LEFT'S QUEST FOR POWER)
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To: Free Vulcan

Kinda like, Be nice to the people ya meet on the way up because they may be there on the way back down.


7 posted on 01/19/2011 11:33:39 AM PST by US Navy Vet
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To: Free Vulcan
Good Story.
I saw him once at the the Senior Bowl when I was about 9 yrs old or so.
8 posted on 01/19/2011 11:46:14 AM PST by ▀udda▀udd (7 days - 7 ways Guero >>> with a floating, shifting, ever changing persona.....)
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To: SeaDragon

Ping, for the Virg


9 posted on 01/19/2011 11:53:39 AM PST by RikaStrom (Pray for Obama - Psalm 109:8 "Let his days be few; and let another take his place of leadership.")
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To: ├čudda├čudd

I shook hands with him in Birmingham airport at the age of 4. I’ve been a Crimson Tide fan ever since.


10 posted on 01/19/2011 11:53:45 AM PST by Hoodat (Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. - (Rom 8:37))
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To: Hoodat

Back in those days, coaches weren’t just about wins and losses, they were also about building men.


11 posted on 01/19/2011 11:54:39 AM PST by dfwgator
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To: Free Vulcan

It’s “Roll Tide” not go Tide!


12 posted on 01/19/2011 12:27:33 PM PST by Cannon6
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To: Hoodat

“I shook hands with him in Birmingham airport at the age of 4. I’ve been a Crimson Tide fan ever since.”

Funny how something so simple has a lasting effect on you. When I was about ten, Bubba Smith signed a photo for me (and a bunch of other kids.) Will never forget it and he’s always been one of my favorites. On the other hand, I use to like Peyton Manning. About five years ago (I was about 45,)he refused to sign an autograph for my cousin. Now I think he’s a dick.


13 posted on 01/19/2011 12:30:34 PM PST by Holen1
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To: RikaStrom
Thanks!

He will like it.

14 posted on 01/19/2011 1:51:48 PM PST by SeaDragon ("Life is tough ..... It's even tougher if you're stupid." - John Wayne)
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To: Holen1

I’m not a Peyton fan, but in his defense, it’s different now. People ask for his autograph all day, every day, and then it ends up on eBay 5 minutes later.


15 posted on 01/19/2011 2:00:36 PM PST by Defiant (There is no line on the march towards marxism that Democrats won't cross. Democrat=CPUSA)
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To: Cannon6

Hey, Go Tide will work for someone who is probably not an Alabamian. Bear wouldn’t have complained.


16 posted on 01/19/2011 3:17:26 PM PST by bamagirl1944 (That's short for Alabama, not Obama)
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To: Carley

As a Christian, Gov Bentley was correct in his statement. you have to understand the Baptist lingo.


17 posted on 01/19/2011 5:14:38 PM PST by Coldwater Creek (He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty Psalm 91:)
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To: Holen1

I worked in a golf course snack bar when I was 16 when a man came in with a beautiful ring on which I remarked how I had never seen one like it. He told me he was the quarterback with the Green Bay Packers to which I replied thats nice. I had no idea who the Packers were but the men all laughed, left a nice tip and the other golfers enjoyed teasing me about it. My brother to this day reminds me that I met Bart Starr without getting an autograph.


18 posted on 01/19/2011 5:36:54 PM PST by Dianer0839 (Due to budget cuts, the light at the end of the tunnel will now be turned off.)
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To: Free Vulcan

Obama preparing for Dallas visit, should the Bears reach the Super Bowl

When asked about his plans for the weekend, President Obama said, “Oh, if the Bears are in the Super Bowl, we’re going.”


19 posted on 01/20/2011 6:10:54 AM PST by KeyLargo
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