If that becomes the preferred approach to female claims of oppression, then the war is lost.
Personally, I think the best way to deal with women who complain they're oppressed is to laugh at them.
I laugh at them. Then I tell them: “I have it worse than you do — but you don’t hear me bitching and moaning about it!”
Refuting a false argument isn’t “bitching and moaning”.
Ridicule is a great tool against liars, but it usually isn’t the best way to convince people sitting on the fence that you are correct and the liars are wrong. To do that, you usually have to address the false arguments being made.