I saw a criminal mind being created.

the light | 5/09/12 | fabian

[fabian]

I sat in the Hollywood, Ca. McDonald's eating my meal as I watched an apparently single young mom berating her young son several seats next to me. He was young, maybe seven or eight years old childish look of innocence still. But I feared that that look would be displaced with one of anger if his mom kept up that badgering diatribe on him; like you do this, you always do that, you are this and that...all negative words that I could see were her projection of anger that she most probably had for the father not being around. I went up and spoke to her, letting her know that he is not a bad kid and she needs to be more calm for him and that she could find that path at www.copingstratiegscd.com. I know that her reaction, while muted, is the type of defensiveness that often keeps people from speaking up to bullies, wherever the are in our lives. I just remained patient and know that the look of "thank you, you are right" look on the boy's face made what I did a blessing to him and not forgotten. I pray that he will be ok, but I know what it is like to be raised by an emotional mom without dad being around to at least modify that anger. The thing is, that many millions of men bail out and leave the rearing of the kids souls to mom, but she is set up to, and can hardly help herself, from resenting the father and passing that automatically down to the kids, especially the males. We, as humans, are already predicated for resentment by the original sin, but for cowardly men to just leave the families, no matter how difficult it is to stick around, is the very reason America is falling badly, not to mention the world. Yes, the cause of so much anger is the vessels of angry women, but the real FAULT lies with the men as they are the God ordained leaders of the world and families. So how can blame be cast on the feminizing of America, without including the real root reason for that? It is like Adam once again blaming Eve rather than seeing and admitting that it was ultimately his fault as he was the one directly spoken to by God, not his mate. She really did what she was compelled to do, and it was Adam's job to say no, or to go along and then God's plan of redemption would play out. But the blame lies squarely on Adam, or did, just as it does now with men for the women taking too much control of many societies. So don't go blaming women for "taking over, and control" in many places of power. Rather, blame the men for opening those doors with your own ego and inflated sexual needs as the true reasons for our failing nation!

[tedw]

“But the blame lies squarely on Adam, or did, just as it does now with men for the women taking too much control of many societies. So don’t go blaming women for “taking over, and control” in many places of power. Rather, blame the men for opening those doors with your own ego and inflated sexual needs as the true reasons for our failing nation!”

In recent years the trend in many Christian
Churches is for women to become “Pastors or Preachers” despite a clear Biblical injunction against that: (The Apostle Paul: “I suffer not a women to teach or have authority over men”)

Clearly, God has ordained certain roles for men and women. I have met women who are dissatisfied with that and, apparently, it has little to do with “ego and the inflated sexual needs of a man”. It looks like such women are dissatisfied with their God ordained role and envious of men. They are not satisified with being mothers and raising children but seek positions of “power” like being a Minister.

They says things like “God uses women too”. And if you point out Paul’s injunction against women preachers they will say Paul was a victim of this times and culture, and not an inspired Preacher.

I guess what I am saying is that there is more to the equation than what you are pointing out. All women are not alike,just as all men are not alike.

[tedw]

And another factor to consider is that socialists and communists have been “hell bent” for decades to subvert the family.

[tomkat]

And there are apparently multitudes of women who will bleed a man of his last dime and every drop of his devotion,
then turn gold-digging slut, dump him and all his whole-hearted efforts, and move on to the next victim with legs splayed.

Spare me the broad brush of your Oprah Channel harangues.

[tedw]

Webster's Dictionary is the place most American English speakers go to for definitions of words. Just so we can be clear what Misogyny means since it is not all that common of a word. If you have a problem with this definition, take it up with Webster's not me. Definition of MISOGYNY : a hatred of women — miso·gy·nic adjective — mi·sog·y·nist noun or adjective — mi·sog·y·nis·tic adjective Origin of MISOGYNY Greek misogynia, from misein to hate + gynē woman — more at queen First Known Use: circa 1656 Other Psychology Terms

[tedw]

Webster's Dictionary is the place most American English speakers go to for definitions of words. Just so we can be clear what Misogyny means since it is not all that common of a word. If you have a problem with this definition, take it up with Webster's not me. Definition of MISOGYNY : a hatred of women — miso·gy·nic adjective — mi·sog·y·nist noun or adjective — mi·sog·y·nis·tic adjective Origin of MISOGYNY Greek misogynia, from misein to hate + gynē woman — more at queen First Known Use: circa 1656 Other Psychology Terms

[csmusaret]

So this all started when Adam said “Stand back Eve; I don’t know how big this thing will get”?

[wtc911]

Maybe her husband was in Afghanistan or at work or home with the other kids...why would you assume that just because the father wasn’t there at the moment you were, he never is?

[PAR35]

You forgot the ‘barf alert’. First the liberals banned spanking, and now they want to go after ‘chewing out’? No wonder there are so many out of control teenagers these days with this kind of thinking going on.

[Shimmer1]

And she will claim that she was always there for them, she won’t know what on earth could have happened.

[fabian]

Haha! I tried to use paragraphs but when I went to post it converted to a single big one. I will need to adjust in the edited before posting.

[fabian]

Because I have seen that anger in several single women and it is very common in them. She also did not have a ring on her wedding finger. I could be wrong, but it certaintly appeared that she was alone rearing her son as happens with millions of women.

[fabian]

haha

[fabian]

It is a principle I was writing about and is something that many men are in denial about. And that is one of misuse of their women!

[Lazamataz]

Oh great. Now my eyes are gushing blood.

[fabian]

Sorry, but not really. That trend of women having leadership roles in the churches is squarely the fault of the men in those churches. Most churches have almost completlety lost the salt of Jesus and are in the apostacy, as any aware person can see. www.copingstrategiescd.com has the original path back to salvation.

[fabian]

Take a chill pill! Right here...www.copingstrategiescd.com!

[Lazamataz]

THIS IS MY CHILL PILL

[fabian]

Rush has anger issues for sure..he is not the same Rush as when he began, too irritated. But really I was meaning the general discussion of how so many women have too much of an influence in society today...not so much specifically the extreme feminists. No, I do not believe Rush is a misogynist.
I think you know who I was wringing about in his broad strokes about women supposedly “taking over”. But I will refrain from using his name here, no point to that.

[Sherman Logan]

So, would you say that Rush Limbaugh who has for years talked about “Feminazis’ is a misogynist?

In reluctant defense of Rush, who is not my favorite radio personality, this term has been taken wildly out of context.

He has explained many times that it refers to that subset of feminists, themselves a subset of women, who view free legalized abortion as a sacred ritual that is more important than anything else.

Saying he is misogynist (hates all women) because he opposes a subset of a subset of women is irrational.

[fabian]

Yes indeed and that is the real purpose of evil! To turn us to and attach for life to God. But many kids will and do suffer through prison and other horrible things before that turn. I would like to see that time of suffering reduced and that is my motive here.
I myself barely made it without committing suicide....many years of deep depression. But I am like a new person now, thank God!