The Seduction of Pornography, Part Two

life news ^ | 6/1/2012 | Albert Mohler

[Melas]

Having seen your contribution of what the man’s duties are in a sexual relationship, I will await your contribution as to what the woman’s duties are.

She should light your cigarette and make you a sandwich afterwards? Wild guess. I'm probably wrong, but I'm sure my wife would tell me I'm wrong in either event.

[kevao]

Forbidden knowledge?

Sorry, can't help you there, FRiend. At least not after what happened to the last guy who revealed the Forbidden Knowledge.

[PapaBear3625]

She should light your cigarette and make you a sandwich afterwards?

I don't smoke, but your answer indicates a widespread attitude that women have no responsibility for keeping the sexual side of the relationship going. Whatever is wrong, it's the job of the guy to fix it, and the fix entirely involves the man changing and no change is necessary on the woman's part.

In abortion threads, I keep making the point that the real issue is not the availability of abortion -- the real issue is people not wanting children.

Similarly, porn is primarily a symptom of men not being happy with the women in their lives, for whatever reason.

[PapaBear3625]

Sadly, this is also the standard message of the Christian church. If a man’s sexuality was truly validated in the church I believe there would be a lot less divorce - a man would get the clue there’s something missing and deal with heart issues with his wife, but instead the church thru omission instills a feeling guiltiness about his desire for passionate sex and this essential missing component leads to breakdowns in the core relational areas of marriage.

This is a good part of what I've been getting at in this thread -- there is a widespread attitude that a sexually unsatisfied man should just resign himself to celibacy.

[Melas]

but your answer indicates a widespread attitude that women have no responsibility

Actually, my answer indicated flippant humor and nothing more.