I have been employed unceasingly for 20 years, and over 6 figures for the last 10 of them. I have the money, and the time.
I have not had a date in about one hundred and eleventy billion years. It is like the job market, if you are not currently employed, potential employers see you as unemployable. If you have a job, headhunters call you constantly. Similarly, if you do not have a girlfriend, women see you as undateable. If you have a girlfriend, you have a flood of suddenly interested women.
eleventy billion is more than umpteen thousand. Re brand yourself.