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Marriage counslers, (vanity)
Pain ^ | 8-30-2012 | Me

Posted on 08/30/2012 6:16:12 PM PDT by MrPiper

If you think a marriage counseler can help your marriage, you believe in Santa Claus ! They are as full of stuffing as a christmas turkey!

Guys, you are a fool to ever marry!!!!


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Never marry a women !!!
1 posted on 08/30/2012 6:16:17 PM PDT by MrPiper
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To: MrPiper

Hef? Is that you?


2 posted on 08/30/2012 6:17:27 PM PDT by GreenAccord (Bacon Akbar)
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To: MrPiper

Does somebody need a hug?


3 posted on 08/30/2012 6:17:54 PM PDT by Puppage (You may disagree with what I have to say, but I shall defend to your death my right to say it)
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To: MrPiper

Is your side job making airplane banners for the DNC?


4 posted on 08/30/2012 6:17:54 PM PDT by Cowgirl of Justice
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To: Cowgirl of Justice

Tell us how you really feel ,,,lol


5 posted on 08/30/2012 6:20:24 PM PDT by Craftmore
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To: MrPiper
Never marry a women !!!

Better than marrying anything else...

6 posted on 08/30/2012 6:20:59 PM PDT by DouglasKC
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To: MrPiper

A woman can be a royal pain in the rear, but the benefits far out weight the negatives my FRiend.

Besides, only a man who wants to be alone and miserable in his old age would not want to have a wife.


7 posted on 08/30/2012 6:21:28 PM PDT by OneVike (I'm just a Christian waiting to go home)
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To: MrPiper

Warning! Rough Language! Keep the kids OUT OF THE ROOM.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JuA0Xm2cy1s


8 posted on 08/30/2012 6:23:20 PM PDT by wolfpat (Not to know what has been transacted in former times is to be always a child. -- Cicero)
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To: MrPiper

Are you saying to marry a man instead??

As for counselors, it’s always best to check out their status on the state licensing website for any disciplinary action against their license. Then proceed cautiously.

Personally, I’d only enter a counseling relationship with somebody that I am certain is a strong Christian.


9 posted on 08/30/2012 6:24:04 PM PDT by prairiebreeze (Don't be afraid to see what you see. -- Ronald Reagan)
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To: MrPiper

I have a suspicion that this won’t be a very good thread to pick up chicks.


10 posted on 08/30/2012 6:24:13 PM PDT by 1rudeboy
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To: OneVike

Wife’s only cause pain and heart ache.....


11 posted on 08/30/2012 6:24:25 PM PDT by MrPiper
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To: MrPiper

What brought this on?


12 posted on 08/30/2012 6:24:44 PM PDT by fatnotlazy
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To: MrPiper

Lord knows, MrPiper, I shall never marry a man. MrsSgtBob would be oh so pi$$ed. I might even wake up dead. That being said, I wouldn’t pay a court-ordered dime to a counselor to tell me that the psycho wench isn’t a psycho wench.


13 posted on 08/30/2012 6:26:00 PM PDT by SgtBob (Freedom is not for the faint of heart. Semper Fi!)
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To: prairiebreeze
Are you saying to marry a man instead??

No, Pipie is saying marry a men!

14 posted on 08/30/2012 6:26:28 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong!)
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To: MrPiper

They can only help if you and your wife are willing to do whatever it takes to make your marriage work. If you don’t really want to stay together, no counselor will help you. Don’t blame the counselor, blame yourselves.


15 posted on 08/30/2012 6:26:34 PM PDT by bethelgrad
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To: OneVike
only a man who wants to be alone and miserable in his old age would not want to have a wife.

I'm alone and happy. Alone can be good.

I don't need to buy a 4th house for some woman that winds up hating me. ;)

/johnny

16 posted on 08/30/2012 6:27:26 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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To: wolfpat

Classic.


17 posted on 08/30/2012 6:27:32 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: MrPiper

You are right about one thing STF away from Marriage Counselors.

The one my son had told him to let his wife have some time alone. He gave it to her , she used it to screw half the neighborhood.

Another thing if you have kids save the dough you would pay a lawyer to pay the child support.Just throw your hands up and ask how much she wants. Whore or not she is going to win.


18 posted on 08/30/2012 6:27:48 PM PDT by Venturer
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To: MrPiper

So, are you implying the gentlemen here should marry boys like you?


19 posted on 08/30/2012 6:28:42 PM PDT by formosa
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To: MrPiper
Wife’s only cause pain and heart ache.....

Is English your first language?

20 posted on 08/30/2012 6:29:00 PM PDT by OldPossum
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To: MrPiper
Wife’s only cause pain and heart ache.....

And bad grammar on top of that, evidently!

21 posted on 08/30/2012 6:29:07 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong!)
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To: MrPiper
It gets better. Like when you realize that you have half of an automatic transmission in the bathtub and no-one is yelling at you about it. Single and celibate is a valid lifestyle choice.

I've been through the marriage thing 3 times, and I'm better suited to single, celibate, and sane.

/johnny

22 posted on 08/30/2012 6:30:33 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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To: fatnotlazy
What brought this on?

bad marriage?

people are stupid to get married, guys always lose .....Just a warning to those guys still free.....

23 posted on 08/30/2012 6:32:24 PM PDT by MrPiper
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To: MrPiper; a fool in paradise; Slings and Arrows

24 posted on 08/30/2012 6:32:34 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong!)
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To: bethelgrad
Don’t blame the counselor, blame yourselves.

Actually, many of the modern, enlightened (liberal) counselors will suggest to the woman to leave and let the man pay. It's a common thing these days.

/johnny

25 posted on 08/30/2012 6:32:56 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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To: wolfpat
i still miss Sam...
26 posted on 08/30/2012 6:33:45 PM PDT by Chode (American Hedonist - *DTOM* -ww- NO Pity for the LAZY)
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To: MrPiper

27 posted on 08/30/2012 6:35:23 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong!)
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To: OldPossum
Genuine anguish can override spelling and syntax. Been there, done that, had to give her the T-shirt (and the house, and the car, and the country property....).

/johnny

28 posted on 08/30/2012 6:35:45 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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To: MrPiper

29 posted on 08/30/2012 6:36:16 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong!)
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To: OneVike
"Besides, only a man who wants to be alone and miserable in his old age would not want to have a wife."

What's wrong with being alone and being totally happy? I'm a 65 year old woman. I've been divorced since '78. Raised my two sons by myself. I accomplished more things in my life after I got rid of my cheating husband, than I'd ever have done if he was still around. I've been retired for almost 10 years, and love my privacy and solitude. I do what I want, when I want, and don't have to listen to anybody's whining. I've always said I'd rather live alone and be happy, than live with someone and be totally miserable.

30 posted on 08/30/2012 6:36:16 PM PDT by mass55th (Courage is being scared to death - but saddling up anyway...John Wayne)
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To: JRandomFreeper

As I told my Lawyer, once is enough it is cheaper to buy it.


31 posted on 08/30/2012 6:37:07 PM PDT by Little Bill
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To: MrPiper
Tell it to Lloyd.


32 posted on 08/30/2012 6:37:49 PM PDT by Delta 21 (Oh Crap !! Did I say that out loud ??!??)
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To: MrPiper
....Just a warning to those guys still free.....
33 posted on 08/30/2012 6:38:15 PM PDT by MrPiper
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To: MrPiper

34 posted on 08/30/2012 6:39:17 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong!)
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To: Little Bill
I prefer celibate, if not married, but I'm weird that way.

I had my lawyer on speed dial for many, many years until I figured it out and quit getting married.

/johnny

35 posted on 08/30/2012 6:40:07 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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To: MrPiper

I still miss the women I should have married.


36 posted on 08/30/2012 6:41:50 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong!)
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To: MrPiper
The only way to put a marriage back together is with God's help.

And there aint no counselor in the world gonna tell you that.

Go to your pastor/preacher and seek guidance there.

37 posted on 08/30/2012 6:45:24 PM PDT by Delta 21 (Oh Crap !! Did I say that out loud ??!??)
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To: OneVike

“Besides, only a man who wants to be alone and miserable in his old age would not want to have a wife.”

Spoken from the perspective of not being comfortable living by yourself?


38 posted on 08/30/2012 6:45:33 PM PDT by Rebelbase (The most transparent administration ever is clear as mud.)
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To: Venturer; MrPiper
Our son saw a mediator during his divorce. His ex-wife wouldn't be in the same room as our soon (hostile). She made several suicide attempts prior to the divorce (the latest in December of this past year) said she had found God with the assistance of a minister she'd met in the preceding 30 days. The children, when asked, say they do not attend church.

A few tears on the stand (acting at its finest) and a sypathetic judge and a guy has no chance at all. Since then male neighbors, friends and contractors have related the same experience with slightly different circumstances and the same outcome. It's a racket and definitely geared against fathers. I believe she'll have God as the ultimate judge for what she's done to her family.

39 posted on 08/30/2012 6:46:01 PM PDT by MamaDearest
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To: MrPiper

You have to be a man to marry a women (sic). You have to be a man for her to respect you. America doesn’t respect men anymore, ergo, women don’t respect men. I feel your pain but don’t feel a spine. Don’t let the commies destroy you, fight back. Spine-up brother.


40 posted on 08/30/2012 6:46:55 PM PDT by budwiesest (It's that girl from Alaska, again.)
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To: Revolting cat!
Marriage was invented by women to take advantage of lust...Women don't like sex, they make you think they like it to keep the paychecks coming....;
41 posted on 08/30/2012 6:48:22 PM PDT by MrPiper ( As)
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To: Revolting cat!; MrPiper
It's a dirty job...someone's gotta do it.


42 posted on 08/30/2012 6:50:10 PM PDT by Daffynition (Our forefathers would be shooting by now.)
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I’m sorry about your situation. When I was a young pup, marriages seemed to last. My parents were married 46 years till Dad passed away. They had their ups and downs. Dad was drunk the first few years, but then he straightened out. And Mom was obsessed with cleanliness which drove Dad crazy. But they always worked things out. They took their vows seriously. And when it came to parenting, they were a united front.

Today, marriage is as disposable as razor blades. No one works together to solve problems. Faithfulness is considered optional. Children are used as weapons. I think a lot has to do with the absence of God. He has been forgotten in nearly every aspect of our lives, including marriage.

Women are to blame for sure, but then again, so are men. We have all lost our way. The question is, will we find our way back?


43 posted on 08/30/2012 6:50:52 PM PDT by fatnotlazy
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To: Venturer

I’m still on with my first wife and hope it will always be so, but I’ve learned from the experiences of friends that the most dangerous thing you can bring into a divorce court is a penis.


44 posted on 08/30/2012 6:51:21 PM PDT by posterchild
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To: JRandomFreeper

Here is something very crass, adults only, from England expressing the sentiment, somewhat.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Qop8hdPAEQ


45 posted on 08/30/2012 6:52:04 PM PDT by Little Bill
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Guys, Never marry!!! You are warned!
46 posted on 08/30/2012 6:58:58 PM PDT by MrPiper ( As)
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“Women don’t like sex, they make you think they like it to keep the paychecks coming....”

I think you might want to be discreet. TMI on something that is by no means a universal truth.


47 posted on 08/30/2012 7:01:36 PM PDT by Psalm 144 ( "I didn't leave the Democratic Party. The party left me." Ronald Wilson Reagan)
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To: mass55th; JRandomFreeper

Concur. Paid through the nose to get rid of my first husband. (He dumped me, tried to get me, the kids, and the dog tossed out on the street—I ended up borrowing $15K to complete the divorce he decided that he didn’t want after all.) Now happily married for 22 years, but would not take the risk again for anything in the world if, God forbid, something happens to my precious soulmate.
Whiskey Tango Halifax do men think they are the only ones who suffer financially post divorce?


48 posted on 08/30/2012 7:02:03 PM PDT by Silentgypsy (If you love your freedom, thank a vet.)
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To: MrPiper
Mr.Piper, I hope you didn't think that a counselor was going to save your marriage. That's not a realistic expectation. I went to a marriage counselor for a while. I learned a lot about myself. It helped me to take a long, hard look at myself, and over time, I began to see the pattern of bad choices I'd made in my life, especially when it came to men. I dated here and there for a while, even went with one guy seriously for 5 years. Marriage never entered the picture. That relationship ended about 26 years ago, and I've never dated since. I have two sons I raised by myself.

Back in the early 90's, there was a time when I thought, if I didn't have anyone in my life by the time I was 50, I didn't want to live. Yeah, pathetic, I know. I look back at that now and wonder, what the hell was I thinking? It took a while after my divorce, but I finally realized that I didn't need anyone to make me feel good, or make me happy. I was the only one who could do that. And that's the way I've lived my life since then. I like my life as it is...uncomplicated. No headaches and no heartaches.

I hope you can find some peace for yourself. Good luck.

49 posted on 08/30/2012 7:02:24 PM PDT by mass55th (Courage is being scared to death - but saddling up anyway...John Wayne)
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"I'm alone and happy. Alone can be good."

Amen.

50 posted on 08/30/2012 7:05:02 PM PDT by mass55th (Courage is being scared to death - but saddling up anyway...John Wayne)
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