Mother’s world falls apart after Planned Parenthood hides humanity of her child

lsn ^ | Rita Diller

[Morgana]

February 1, 2013 (STOPP) - The stinging tears and palpable heartbreak of a young woman deceived by Planned Parenthood say more than a book crammed with words ever could convey about the harm done to women when they are deprived of a glimpse of the humanity of their children before aborting them.

“I just got back from Planned Parenthood,” a visibly distraught young lady says in a YouTube video posted on January 19. She had just picked up records from a Planned Parenthood abortion that happened six years earlier. She says Planned Parenthood falsified the records regarding her age at the time of the abortion.

Struggling to maintain her composure, she sifts through the abortion records until she finds the ultrasound report. It indicates that she was offered and took advantage of the opportunity to view the image of her son prior to the abortion. She flatly denies that.

“I never saw my ultrasound,” she says. “I was told nothing was visible, and I was told that it wouldn’t matter—you couldn’t see a heartbeat, you couldn’t see anything. . . . I wouldn’t know what I was looking at.”

She displays the ultrasound form, which says that she requested and was given a copy of the image. “I wasn’t ever given a picture of my son. But when I went to Planned Parenthood today and I got all of the records, I saw that ultrasound for the very first time—about six years later,” she says, choking back tears. She points to an image in which she says she can see her baby’s heart beating.

She appeals to Planned Parenthood and to the people who support it with a heartfelt cry:

I just want to know why I was denied seeing this. You say that women don’t change their minds because of it. I don’t know if I would have, but if I had, would it have been so bad? You talk about choice, and all this crap, but when we want to pass laws about women having to see their ultrasound before having an abortion, [you say] that’s wrong. So basically, what you are saying is you don’t want to give them full choice. You just want them to pick your choice.

“I can’t even explain how much I sobbed when I saw that.”

She tearfully continues,

And my world just fell apart all over again. This was my child. This wasn’t a choice or just a little something that I got rid of in a simple medical procedure. This was my son. And this is the first time I’ve ever seen him. And there is something so wrong about that.

Until we stop allowing Planned Parenthood to obfuscate and lie about the humanity of those lives it considers worth sacrificing for the money it makes, the world will continue to be deceived and Planned Parenthood will continue to flourish, becoming fatter and fatter on our tax dollars and on the blood of the precious innocent aborted babies who so often get omitted from the abortion debate.

The personhood of these children is real and undeniable. We must protect their lives from the moment of creation, and guarantee their rights as members of the human family from the beginning of their biological development. For more information on personhood, visit our website.

[papertyger]

If she sounds “about me” then on one level she is correct.

And I most sincerely wonder if that is not the primary "level" for her: just as getting the abortion in the first place.

Further, I find the idea a girl old enough to get pregnant, in this society, is a naïf....laughable.

[Darren McCarty]

The thing with abortion is that it is out of sight and out of mind.

The key to ending it is by no longer making it out of sight and out of mind.

[papertyger]

The key to ending it is by no longer making it out of sight and out of mind.

Yet pro-life women keep insisting the answer is to provide more "emotional soup-kitchens."

Remember, no man can force any woman to get an abortion, nor can any man prevent a woman from obtaining one.

[Claud]

You hired somebody to kill your kid and now you've got a guilty conscience so you're blaming them, is that it?

Watch the video where she explains what led up to it.

Basically, she had a cruddy home life and drowned her sorrows in drugs and men. Got pregnant at 15. Was scared but fully intended to keep the baby, until her parents told her it was either an abortion or she was out of the house. The boy's parents also demanded abortion. Her father gave her the phone book and said start calling around. He drove her there.

Have some pity toward a scared 15 year kid who was pushed into this when all she was looking for was love and support. Yes, she does have a guilty conscience. She is going to bear this heavy, sad, penance for the rest of her life. You don't think she has the right to blame the adults in her life and the sick harpies at PP for pushing her into this, for lying to her?

[Claud]

Thank you xzins.

Everyone, if you’ve got a half hour, here’s her full story:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HCqD1pagbbE

She was pushed into an abortion by her parents when she was 15. It was a horrible experience, but even so she turned into a zealous pro-abortion advocate. Until she fell in love and had a daughter. Her second pregnancy forced her to come to terms with what she had done in her youth and she became uncompromisingly pro-life, no exceptions.

[2nd amendment mama]

I guess all of these people here who are judging this woman have forgotten that they are not God and have absolutely NO right to judge. That job is God's alone. I'm thankful that the scales have been removed from her eyes and that God is now using her to possibly prevent other girls from following in her footsteps.

To all of you who are judging her - I will pray for you that God does not judge you as harshly for your sins (in God's eyes all sin is equal) as you are judging this woman.

[xzins]

Thanks to both of you for wanting to win people to the pro-life cause rather than antagonizing them.

[LearsFool]

Have some pity toward a scared 15 year kid who was pushed into this when all she was looking for was love and support. Yes, she does have a guilty conscience. She is going to bear this heavy, sad, penance for the rest of her life. You don't think she has the right to blame the adults in her life and the sick harpies at PP for pushing her into this, for lying to her?

I have a great deal of pity for her. So much so that I want nothing for her but that she face the full weight of what she's done head-on and with stark honesty. This alone, I'm convinced, will allow her to (as they say) live with herself after what she has done.

I won't bore you with details, but I did a terrible thing many years ago. It wasn't until others confronted me with the stark and unvarnished truth of the matter, taking away all my excuses and blaming of others, that I was able to repent.

Like this woman, I have since then been able to see how people and circumstances influenced me to behave so terribly. And like this woman, I would like for others to be spared from such evil influences, so they might perhaps avoid committing the same evil.

What I needed, and what this woman needed - and what young women in her shoes need - is the strength and courage to do what's right in spite of influences to the contrary. Should we not en-"courage" them?

This woman has done well to admit what she did was wrong. But apart from excuses, what has she offered to young women in similar circumstances? Why not instead bolster their courage with a statement like this?...

"Killing your child is murder, and there's no way around this fact. You'll hear an endless stream of rationalizations, justifications, excuses, and outright lies about it... That your life will basically be over because of this baby. That your parents will disown you, your friends will laugh at you, and no man will ever want you.

Some will even try to convince you that it's not really a baby! And you'll be sorely tempted to believe them, because it's the easy way out of the mess you've gotten yourself into.

But you know where babies come from, don't you? And you know that's your child inside you. Every person encouraging you to kill your baby is someone who'll benefit from the murder. Even you yourself might be thinking how much better life would be without a child.

It's up to you now. Your baby's life is in your hands."

[LearsFool]

I guess all of these people here who are judging this woman have forgotten that they are not God and have absolutely NO right to judge. That job is God's alone.

So we should stop telling the Planned Parenthood butchers they're doing wrong?

[annalex]

caught in lies.

That is not merely a lie, it is fraud. Falsifying medical records is a crime, is it not?

Sue them blind, damn baby killers. America is not free till Planned Parenthood stands.

[2nd amendment mama]

This woman that you're talking about was a child of 15 when she was FORCED to have the abortion! Have you no pity on a child forced to commit such by her parents? I hope that God judges you as harshly as you are doing to this woman.

[2nd amendment mama]

What a foolish question! Absolutely not but you’re equating a 15 year old child who was forced to have an abortion by her parents with the abortionists at PP. Like apples and oranges.

[2nd amendment mama]

You’re welcome. I believe the way to win people to God’s side is with love and understanding rather than judgment and condemnation. I stayed away from Church for years because of judgmental people.

I’m now blessed to belong to a loving and nurturing Church family where God’s word is not only preached but practiced lovingly. I’ve never been closer to God.

[LearsFool]

So let's see, we're free to judge PP "doctors", and that's okay. But those who judge one of their customers "have forgotten that they are not God and have absolutely NO right to judge. That job is God's alone.

Unbelievable. Utter hypocrisy.

This is the problem I have with the pro-life movement, and perhaps it stems from the feminist "I'm a woman therefore I'm a victim" influence, coupled with the "it's a woman's issue and men can't understand" mentality.

Maybe men need to get more involved (you might heartily agree with this, at least until you hear the rest) in the leadership capacity God dictates, and tell women to "stop killing my children!"

The abortion debate has been framed in the way it has, and laws constructed, in order to keep men out of it. One side (comprised of women) says, "Keep your laws off my body, you rapist!" The other side (comprised of women) says, "Don't judge these poor, helpless victims, you heartless brute! That's God's job!"

Well here is one man who won't be shut up by either side claiming "it's a girl thang, you wouldn't understand". Enough of standing silently by while you excuse one another and thus perpetuate the cycle of murder.

[2nd amendment mama]

OMG- you are a total ass! I don't care if you're a man or woman! You seem to lack reading comprehension!

In this particular case, I believe you are being overly harsh in condemning a 15 year old child for being FORCED into having an abortion by her parents. In this case I believe that, yes, this child WAS victimized - by both her parents and by PP. If you can't make this distinction you must believe that you are God in the judgment you are making.

Since this girl has now confessed her sin and repented, God will surely forgive her sin but you won't....she's still guilty in your eyes. Shame on you!

[DungeonMaster]

“one dead, one wounded”

[LearsFool]

Forced? You say she was FORCED into killing her child?

She says different:

I just want to know why I was denied seeing this. You say that women don’t change their minds because of it. I don’t know if I would have, but if I had, would it have been so bad?

She went along with the killing. Now she's pondering whether she might've "changed her mind" after seeing the ultrasound.

She regrets her choice, and now wants to say that an ultrasound might've made her "change her mind". What the ultrasound argument says is "I didn't know it was a baby" - as if women don't know where babies come from! If you buy that, you must think women are utterly stupid.

Make sense now? Or are you still blinded by your feminist "women are helpless victims" attitude?

It's the same old "the serpent deceived me" excuse that Eve used.

[Morgana]

“just as getting the abortion in the first place. “

Well lets see...She was somewhere between the ages of 15 to 17. So yes her maturity rate was not very high. She is pregnant and in trouble so she is not thinking strait. She like many girls her age are thinking “my parents are going to kill me for getting pregnant”. Yes some parents my toss her out of the house but more than likely they will be just disappointed. She is also thinking “I can’t not pay for this baby if I do have it” She does not know help is out there, she is only a teen she does not know more than the local record store and movie house. Does not matter either way on all accounts because Planned Parenthood feeds into these fears, tells her lies to get her money for the abortion.

How on earth can you expect a child to think like an adult in an adult situation? What is worse she went to the very people she was told she could trust and now, years later she knows what you and I have known all along. IF only she had gone to a place like “Birthright” or another crisis pregnancy center they could have helped her, if anything to help her calm down! Most of all if only she could have told the very people in the world who were put on this earth to love and help her: her parents.

[Morgana]

“She went along with the killing. Now she’s pondering whether she might’ve “changed her mind” after seeing the ultrasound.”

No she was not “forced” but she was lied to. She now knows that. I honestly believe had she seen the ultra sound of her baby back then she would have left the clinic.

Why do you think so many abortion clinics fought so hard when they passed the law requiring that women see them? They knew!! They knew as soon as women saw that fetus with arms, legs and a heartbeat they would be right out the door!! Not the woman mind you but $$$$$$$$$ for the abortion right out the door because this business is all about money and anyone who thinks otherwise is full of it.

[Future Snake Eater]

Maybe I’m a coldhearted cynic, but this chick is too stupid to do simple Google searches about babies and pregnancy? Or maybe ask a woman she may know who has kids? Nope, just kill it and blame PP for “deceiving” her. She already deceived herself, PP merely told her what she wanted to hear.