Skip to comments.Why Male Pansies Canít Attract a Good Woman
Posted on 05/19/2013 7:39:13 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks
A while back I received several e-mails from guys requesting my advice on how to attract a female like me. You see, they seem to have a hard time attracting women that are into shooting and the outdoors and I understand this.
Being that we humans arent whitetail deer and you cant rub your scent on a tree to find yourself a mate, it makes things harder for guys.
Ive decided to throw these guys a bone, and any others who need help, on how to attract such a lady. Here are essential points to follow in attracting the Katniss Everdeen for your life:
1. Confidence is key:
Now, I know I said we werent whitetail, but since you did mention you wanted a woman of the outdoors, I will use an analogy that caters to this community.
Women want the stud buck, bear or lion in their life. They want the alpha male, the one who walks out into the field and you know hes the man. However, dont confuse this with arrogance; that is one thing women cant stand.
2. Class not swag:
The woman who is into shooting and the outdoors is usually someone who is confident in herself. Knowing that, she will never choose a man who carries himself with swag and treats women as objects. A hundred times over and over, they will choose a man who has class and treats them with the respect they deserve.
3. Be a man of virtue:
Living a life of virtue is much harder than living a life of vice. Showing that you are virtuous in your actions will tell a woman that you live to a moral code, you have discipline and you arent easily influenced by weak and petty people.
4. Dont look, or be, desperate:
Never need someone. Always be content with the thought of being alone, that way you wont fall for the wrong woman. Also, if you do appear desperate, thats usually when women run for the hills and I think its true for men too. However, when you do find the apple-of-your-eye, dont ignore her.
5. My final note is, look sharp.
ZZ Top knows this and so should you; every girl goes crazy for a sharp dressed man. Guys, please put an effort into your appearance. We females arent shallow because we overlook the guys in sweat pants or who do the tube-sock/flip-flop combo you look like a slob, thats why we overlook you. If you want to attract a woman, be attractive.
Now, keep in mind this is strictly my opinion and the games of love are never set in stone. Nevertheless, these generally seem to be traits the majority of these Katniss Everdeen-like women are attracted to.
Also, take note of my use of the term man. The type of woman you want to attract isnt going to be into a 30-year-old mamas boy, who still lives at home and wets his bed. She is looking for a leader, the stud of the herd; she is looking for a man, not a boy.
Hope this helped.
Okay, but remember that Katniss eventually falls for Peeta, the soft-hearted artistic guy who decorates cakes, moons around after her like a lovelorn puppy, and has a tendency toward self-sacrifice.
Well, there’s no accounting for taste, I guess.
There's missing information before that last phrase....
But wait, we pee by trees all the time.
Lol, you’re so right.
Darwin ensures that complex organisational beings like humans and the higher apes cannot afford to have a rigid, rulebook-type mating strategy.
Many women are attracted to jerks and turned off by the Mr. Nice Guy types. This is evident everywhere, all the time.
Another of Doug Giles daughters. Hannah of ACORN crushing fame, and notoriety, and Regis according to search results writes for NRA, although I’d never noticed. I like to read Doug Gile’s articles, but this by his daughter Regis wasn’t something I’d go out of my way to pass to others.
I’ll look for her in my next issues of America’s First Freedom if that’s where her writings are.
What an awesome 80’s dating guide fellas! Too bad it’s 2013.
This guy has no clue about women today. They go for all the guys he says women don’t go for these days, and rather go for either: 1)Looks, 2)Money, 3) Someone who can help them climb the social ladder, 4) Someone to control or control them, or 5) Thrills and excitement (i.e. bad boy).
The guy he describes has no prayer in the current dating game. Women are beyond pathetic right now.
On those terms, Obama qualifies as the Perfect Pansy, who swings both ways, but ultimately joins with an Amazon-creature like Mooshy, who wears the pants in the family but
has to have them tailor-made. The Clintons, on the other hand, are both of them equal parts male/female, co-equal partners in power in a marriage of convenience. Bill appealed
to the girls who like the “bad-boy” types who are always in trouble, and keeping them guessing as to who he REALLY likes, as he bounces back and forth between 2,3,4 different women.
The rallying cry for these desperate females is “Let the games begin!” they knew instinctively they had a “player” in Bill, the ultimate irresistible liar as he parses words and gives all the girlfiends different stories with well-practiced, second-nature disengenuousness.In this unfortunate marriage-context,Hillary would inevitably become a fag hag, Michelle
would become the type male Liberals would develop “a crush” on, secretly aware that she couldn’t POSSIBLY get what she needed (except for the power that accrues to Queenly status)
from the metro/bi-sexual Barack.
There-—I think I’ve tapped the vein on the whole subject, as it relates to the clowns we are stuck with who run our lives.
4. Dont look, or be, desperate:
That’s why women seem to come out of the woodwork after you finally get one.
The author is a teenaged girl. She is apparently describing what she, herself, thinks is appealing in a man.
And men are so much less shallow in how they select a mate?
But wait, we pee by trees all the time....Maybe YOU do, but I aim UP the tree and knock those squirrels out of the tree. I take ‘em home and fry them up for my lovey. She stares a lot at her food, must be anorexic or sum’n.
Do they really name girls Regis?
Women have been shown to have their own version of the madonna/ whore split: going for the ‘bad boy’ at their time of greatest fertility, but being more likely to settle for the safer guy when it comes to raising a family.
First problem with this story is the author thinks she deserves “respect” and special treatment just because she’s a woman. Respect is earned and many woman do little to earn it.
Yes, after they have bedded 15-20 of the jerk squad, inherited herpes and other STDs, and gone through severe episodes of depression by the time they are in their late 20s.
I remember George on Seinfeld figured that out but it backfired on him.
That’s why a guy should always be in some kind of relationship, easier to get the woman you really want if you’re already in a relationship....sounds cynical, I know, but it’s true.....If a guy isn’t currently in a relationship, women are going to wonder why.
You have to consider the source. Regis Giles is one of the daughters of columnist Doug Giles. You’ve probably read his stuff here on FR from time to time. He is one of the ‘good guys’. 99% of the time (IMO), he is dead on target for conservative and/or Christian viewpoints. He has said in his columns that he raised his daughters to demand respect from the young men in their lives because that is what HE demands from them. Not only that, he has raised them (according to him) to be the kind of young women you WOULD respect.
Oh please. Females full of self need not apply.
Katniss Everdeen's temperament was probably choleric. A girl with a different temperament might be attracted to a different type of man than mentioned in the article.
You forgot to add the bastard children.
Women want a guy who can make them laugh and shiver when kissed on the neck. Everything else is gravy.
Something always bugs me when a woman says “respect she deserves” or “respect I deserve.” Simply being a woman does not deserve respect. As with all people it is earned.
Wow—I guess hell hath no fury like a male Freeper scorned!
As are the men. I CANNOT tolerate these new "metro sexual men". You are MEN, act like one. We are girls....WE are the "pretty" ones, NOT you!
I am turning 43 this year and took myself out of the dating game about 4 years ago. I am DONE. I'M the supposed freak because I won't sleep with you on the 1st or 2nd date? I'M the freak because I think you're more girly than I?
I must say, I am a happier gal now since I have taken such drastic action......and I'm "clean" and know it.
Oh, and to all you fellas out there.....LOSE THE SKINNY JEANS!
Don’t get me wrong, I gave up on those types at an early age. Of course, I had to look overseas.
I like men with long hair. It’s very 13th century.
Yes there seems to be some subliminal messaging going on here:
"Ive decided to throw these guys a bone, and any others who need help"
Men want physically attractive women.
Women want men with a substantial financial larder and security.
Both are equally shallow but it always has been and ever shall be.
Wow—I guess hell hath no fury like a male Freeper scorned!
backfired only because of elaine and jerry. “i’ve got hand”
I agree on the proclivities, but think women being drawn to good providers to help raise their familiea is actually the less shallow.
Your probably right.
Yep, even if true it’s not something to put into a column.
It’s not shallow. It’s how life has been, to genetically eliminate the undesirables. Too bad government welfare interference gums up the gene pool, but left to its devices, nature has a way of restoring balance eventually.
Those who consider the above to be unreal are merely in denial of life and natural selection, even among us human - we still share the biology of animals.
Sniveling nose pickers don’t exactly scream “MAN!” to a woman. They look like little children the woman will need to take care of just like a child. Women, real women, want men for bearing children.
In time I hope you get back in the game. I do understand your dismay. Finding a person ypu can trust in this day & age is not easy.
Are you a woman?
When men used to be men...lol.
Love the barber with his hairbrush.
Some of us aren’t so girly. :p
LOL!! You don’t give her a gun, do you!?
Cyber Liberty’s rule: If a girl tells you what she wants in a man, she’s probably lying. When you find one who tells you the truth, keep that one.
Unfortunately if you are one of the "safer" guys that means instead of having children of your own, you get to raise some other guy's or other multiple guys' kids.
Idiocracy here we come!
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