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Posted on 05/19/2013 7:39:13 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks
Sniveling nose pickers don’t exactly scream “MAN!” to a woman. They look like little children the woman will need to take care of just like a child. Women, real women, want men for bearing children.
In time I hope you get back in the game. I do understand your dismay. Finding a person ypu can trust in this day & age is not easy.
Are you a woman?
Oh damn.
When men used to be men...lol.
Love the barber with his hairbrush.
Some of us aren’t so girly. :p
LOL!! You don’t give her a gun, do you!?
Cyber Liberty’s rule: If a girl tells you what she wants in a man, she’s probably lying. When you find one who tells you the truth, keep that one.
Unfortunately if you are one of the "safer" guys that means instead of having children of your own, you get to raise some other guy's or other multiple guys' kids.
Idiocracy here we come!
Willing to bet some man in her life earned the money that bought her that beautiful rifle.
Use your imagination.
You cannot believe the amount of truth that exists in your comment.
Hello Regis:
Just wanted to write to you 5 points in response to your ‘unhelpful’ ‘wish list’. What do we look for in a woman?
1. Submission is key
I know I’m going to get flamed here. Are you willing to submit to your church? To your husband? When it is called for are you willing to sit down and say, “I might not agree with this - but I will do this because this is the right thing to do”. Submission to proper authority is hard. It requires someone to come down and say, ok, you are my husband. Am I willing to trust in you enough to follow along with the decision that you made? Gut check time. Easy enough to demand confidence without the concamitant exchange. What makes a guy confident? Knowing that his woman has his back. What makes a guy insecure? Knowing that his woman isn’t willing to do what it takes in the crunch. Want a guy who’s confident? Don’t undermine him to ‘get your way’. Why are you not getting confident men? Probably because you aren’t giving them support. Really easy here - If a guy asks you out - and shows you a good time, do you take the time to thank him for asking you out? Or do you cancel on him just before the date comes. Would you put up with the guy cancelling on you? Then don’t do that to the guy if you want a confident one. Showing guys respect is really super easy.
2. Respect
This gets into point number 2. Look at CS Lewis and what he says about, “there are no ordinary people”. Do you live that way in your own life? Or are these just ‘guys’ out there that come and go as you please? Gut check time - we look for respect - to men and to what we do in life. Sure, we work hard and earn money. Do we get much respect from society for it? No. Are we going to put up with lack of respect from our wife/girlfriend for it? Also no. Respect is earned, not automatic. Earn respect by showing it.
3. Be a woman of virtue:
Do you have kids by another man? See, here’s the thing I see all the time. Women expect that their business is just that their business. When it comes to the men - they expect and demand someone who puts them first, after having already had the party scene for, say 10+ years, they ‘go straight’ and then decide this is what they want from a man. Well, that doesn’t work that way. Have you waited until marriage? I’m waiting. Are you? If not, why not? Do y ou think it’s fair to demand someone who’s ‘morally upright’ while turning a blind eye to you and what you’ve chosen to do? Now, maybe you aren’t like most women out there. Maybe you don’t have a history 10 pages long, wonderful. Some of us *are* willing to look past these things, but here’s a clue - most of us who have waited aren’t really happy with the whole situation of being asked to look after someone else’s kids because you think we’ll make a good husband.
4. Rightly ordered priorities.
I’m putting this one up there. If you want something you go get it. I want to be married. Am I looking? Hell yes. Do I make that clear? Hell yes. Does that save me enormous amounts of time? Also hell yes.
See, many women like to play around and keep ‘options’ open. This way they get to do plenty of things without commitment. It’s a great strategy - except for when you hit 40 and can’t have kids anymore.
You want something - go get it, simple as that. Should I apologize for being blunt about what I want and being direct about it?
I see this many times. Many women don’t understand what’s the most important thing in their life, and the first thing that they should be working on. So they spend their time working on things that aren’t directed to what they want out of life and then putting the time in towards it. What are your priorities? How are you going about and accomplishing these things?
5. My final note is, look sharp.
We men aren’t shallow because we overlook the women in sweat pants or who do the tube-sock/flip-flop combo… you look like a slob, that’s why we overlook you. If you want to attract a man, be attractive.
:)
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George can’t get the fake wedding ring off
Then she’s a gold nugget that needs to be protected and nurtured, cuz she’s a very, very rare bird these days.
A good man knows how to make a sammich. Then, he can teach a good woman how to make him a sammich. It’s all good after that!
Now, make me a sammich.
(ducking)
Uh yeah, they are. In case you haven’t noticed, we’ve done a 180 in this society. It’s the women who are players, and the mean who mostly want to settle and be serious. 90% of the guys are done being players, if they ever were, by 25. You might have a few frat boys out there, but compare that to all the serial relationship women clear up into their 40’s and 50’s who are NEVER happy with what they have, even if they are married with a good life.
There is no loyalty anymore. Women either control you, or they are looking for the next best thing, or they let the guy run over them. It’s like they’ve all went psycho.
As am I. I’m tired of cauldrons of swirling emotion in perpetual need of attention and little to no skills being offered except looks and getting laid. I don’t have issues with getting women so that really doesn’t appeal to me.
It’s the same old pattern. Woman has nothing to offer but her physical attributes, has ridiculous or screwed up expectations, no emotional stability, always wanting something more but can’t define ‘more’, self-centered, or has to be in complete control over everything. And of course you better be able to make and fork over the money, or mama ain’t happy.
It’s like being normal, balanced and all-American is a sin today. I guess I’m just a holdover from past times, but whatever happened to working hard, acheiving something, living life, and taking it in stride? I will not live life at the extremes cuz some woman needs a perpetual rush to make her feel alive.
What is the need for an article after that headline?
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