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What kind of priests can marry?
Couple I saw in a store | 8/12/13 | Me, Myself, and I

Posted on 08/12/2013 1:19:43 PM PDT by EinNYC

I was shopping in a Target last night, when I spotted an unusual looking couple, with a bunch of little kids, in the school supplies area. They were stocking up on school supplies.

The man was in his 30s or very early 40s, clad in a close-fitting black button-up religious garment which extended from his neck to his ankles. It flared out at the bottom and seemed to be made of some sort of shiny material, like satin. It certainly looked like some sort of official priest garb. He did not seem to have a white priest collar, nor did he wear anything on his head. He did have a large prominent cross hanging around his neck. The woman he was with was just dressed casually.

I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what denomination of priest this may have been, as I have not seen someone dressed like this before. I definitely do not think it was just a costume! He looked like any other dad buying his kids school supplies with his wife--except for the way he was dressed.


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1 posted on 08/12/2013 1:19:43 PM PDT by EinNYC
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To: EinNYC

Could be an Anglican or Episcopalian.


2 posted on 08/12/2013 1:20:54 PM PDT by MeganC (A gun is like a parachute. If you need one, and don't have one, you'll never need one again.)
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To: EinNYC
I think it IS a costume.

Not a broadway show costume, but a nut who likes to be different and stand out

3 posted on 08/12/2013 1:22:43 PM PDT by knarf (I say things that are true ... I have no proof ... but they're true)
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To: EinNYC

Eastern Orthodox priests are permitted to marry (as long as they do so before Ordination).


4 posted on 08/12/2013 1:23:10 PM PDT by rightwingintelligentsia (Truth/Lies; Liberty/Tyranny--WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE??)
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To: EinNYC
Married Episcopal priests who convert to Catholicism can apply to become a Catholic priest.
5 posted on 08/12/2013 1:23:19 PM PDT by Servant of the Cross (the Truth will set you free)
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To: EinNYC

Orthodox, must marry before they’re ordained.

Episcopalian but walking around in a cassock is very high church indeed.

Catholic, a convert if already married and previously a priest in a church sharing the apostolic succession like Episcopal but he probably wouldn’t mess with people’s heads by wearing a cassock in public with his family.

Eastern Rite Catholic.

Any priest with his sister and her children.


6 posted on 08/12/2013 1:24:01 PM PDT by heartwood
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To: EinNYC

Maybe it was Neo and Trinity.


7 posted on 08/12/2013 1:24:47 PM PDT by Resolute Conservative
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To: MeganC

I didn’t see any white collar in a notch. Do those denominations have that?


8 posted on 08/12/2013 1:25:21 PM PDT by EinNYC
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To: EinNYC

IIRC, African RC priests are allowed to marry because a single man has little to no status in may of those countries.


9 posted on 08/12/2013 1:25:30 PM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet (I aim to raise a million plus for Gov. Palin. What'll you do?.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

What?


10 posted on 08/12/2013 1:27:46 PM PDT by Arthur McGowan (If you're FOR sticking scissors in a female's neck and sucking out her brains, you are PRO-WOMAN!)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

They aren’t allowed to. Some do anyway. It might be prudent to create an African Rite Catholic church and allow them but then there is the whole polygamy issue.


11 posted on 08/12/2013 1:28:27 PM PDT by heartwood
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To: Resolute Conservative

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12 posted on 08/12/2013 1:32:01 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: EinNYC
A married Episcopal priest who converts to Catholicism can remain married.Don't know how many there are in the US but there are at least *some*.
13 posted on 08/12/2013 1:33:57 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (If Obama Had A City It Would Look Like Detroit)
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To: heartwood

“...but then there is the whole polygamy issue.”

You mean like with Barack Obama, Senior?


14 posted on 08/12/2013 1:35:22 PM PDT by MeganC (A gun is like a parachute. If you need one, and don't have one, you'll never need one again.)
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To: EinNYC
Among Roman Catholics, a pectoral cross (as you described, a large cross prominently displayed on the chest) is reserved to bishops and abbots.

Bishops and abbots - in every rite of the Catholic Church, Latin or Byzantine or other - are chosen from among unmarried men.

While this person could perhaps have been Anglican, he was probably not Catholic or Orthodox.

15 posted on 08/12/2013 1:37:17 PM PDT by wideawake
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To: wideawake

The cross was about 3” and about 1/4” thick. It was on a sturdy chain, not attached to the garment.


16 posted on 08/12/2013 1:43:35 PM PDT by EinNYC
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To: EinNYC

That sounds like a pectoral cross as typically worn by Catholic bishops. About the size of one’s palm, on a longish neck chain reaching to about where the lapels would meet on a sport coat.


17 posted on 08/12/2013 1:51:02 PM PDT by wideawake
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To: heartwood
Eastern Rite Catholic.

As I understand it, they fall under the management of Rome as well. They answer to the Pope. Under the banner of Catholicism, there are sects that allow priests to be married. This has always confounded me.

John Paul II had some things to say about it as well (though I'd have to research it).

(I am Catholic, btw)

18 posted on 08/12/2013 1:51:26 PM PDT by Tenacious 1 (Waiting for next tagline.)
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To: EinNYC

Catholic Deacons can be married as well.

I’m not sure of their dress code, however.


19 posted on 08/12/2013 1:54:18 PM PDT by Tenacious 1 (Waiting for next tagline.)
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To: EinNYC
Pat Priest was married twice.
20 posted on 08/12/2013 1:56:51 PM PDT by Slings and Arrows (You can't have Ingsoc without an Emmanuel Goldstein.)
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To: EinNYC

Sounds very much like an Egyptian Coptic Christian, whom I see regularly in a local restaurant.


21 posted on 08/12/2013 2:00:41 PM PDT by Salvey
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To: EinNYC
I sometimes wear that to scare the Baptists out of the booze aisle.

I also sometimes carry an unlit cigarette to scare the fat chicks out of the candy aisle.

22 posted on 08/12/2013 2:07:54 PM PDT by elkfersupper
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To: Salvey

He did not look Egyptian. He looked like any average white guy. He was very slender, about 5’7 or 5’8, with smallish silver-rimmed glasses. He had nondescript brownish straight hair.


23 posted on 08/12/2013 2:08:05 PM PDT by EinNYC
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To: EinNYC
Did he look like this?


24 posted on 08/12/2013 2:18:07 PM PDT by cizinec ("Brother, your best friend ain't your Momma, it's the Field Artillery.")
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To: EinNYC

Maybe it was his sister...


25 posted on 08/12/2013 2:21:28 PM PDT by laker_dad
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To: EinNYC

He mighta been Flashy Amish.


26 posted on 08/12/2013 2:24:16 PM PDT by tumblindice (America's founding fathers: All armed conservatives.)
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To: heartwood

An Orthodox or Eastern Rite priest can marry prior to ordination but cannot remarry if his wife predeceases him, nor will he be considered for elevation to the rank of bishop.

Married Episcopalian priests who wish to join the Roman Catholic Church are considered on a case by case basis. If accepted, the same restrictions apply.

IIRC.


27 posted on 08/12/2013 2:26:30 PM PDT by elcid1970 ("The Second Amendment is more important than Islam.")
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To: heartwood

“Eastern Rite Catholic”

Not in the US AFAIK.


28 posted on 08/12/2013 2:38:20 PM PDT by The Antiyuppie ("When small men cast long shadows, then it is very late in the day.")
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To: EinNYC

Could be Coptic Orthodox - not only may they marry, they are actually required to be married to be ordained. They dress roughly as you describe.


29 posted on 08/12/2013 3:02:00 PM PDT by naturalman1975 ("America was under attack. Australia was immediately there to help." - John Winston Howard)
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To: EinNYC

Orthodox priests are allowed to be married before ordination, up to the level of Arch Priest, IIRC.

The white notch? From what I’ve seen most Orthodox priests do not have them, but ours does. I don’t know why.


30 posted on 08/12/2013 3:03:39 PM PDT by sauron ("Truth is hate to those who hate Truth" --unknown)
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To: EinNYC

I never saw a Priest in Black Satin robes.


31 posted on 08/12/2013 3:05:00 PM PDT by Venturer ( cowardice posturing as tolerance =political correctness)
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To: EinNYC

Conservative Episcopalian priests who were married and then joined the Catholic church get to keep their wives. But unmarried men who become Catholic priests cannot then marry.


32 posted on 08/12/2013 3:20:17 PM PDT by tbw2
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To: EinNYC

Eastern orthodox can become priests as long as they have had a family before becoming ordained, however, they cannot attain a higher position than priest.
My girlfriends father is a priest, he was ordained 15 years ago. Prior to that he had a Masters in Physics and was(and still is) a physics teacher. He refuses any sort of compensation for his duties and does not take any money from the parish. He does get many gifts sent to him though. In fact just last week 10 lbs of Baklava was delivered to his house from a family for whom he performed a baptism. (He has been offering me and everyone who visits him baklava for the past week :P) He also has a little farm, and gives out everything that is surplus to his families needs to people in the area he knows can use some help. Great man!


33 posted on 08/12/2013 3:22:12 PM PDT by hannibaal
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To: rightwingintelligentsia
Eastern Orthodox priests are permitted to marry (as long as they do so before Ordination).

Restatement for clarity - Eastern Orthodox priests and Eastern Right Roman Catholic Priests may not marry but a married man may become a priest and stay married. and Eastern Right Roman Catholic Priests. Neither is likely to be religiously robed away from church territory. An Anglo-Catholic (Anglican) might be robed in public but likely only for a religious-related activity such as a Life Chain demonstraton.

34 posted on 08/12/2013 5:07:26 PM PDT by arthurus (Read Hazlitt's Economics In One Lesson ONLINE http://steshaw.org/econohttp://www.fee.org/library/det)
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To: arthurus

Not true at all for eastern orthodox!!!


35 posted on 08/12/2013 6:09:41 PM PDT by Mount Athos (A Giant luxury mega-mansion for Gore, a Government Green EcoShack made of poo for you)
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To: cizinec

He was clean shaven. He had on a 1-piece black dress-like garment (a cassock??). The big cross on a chain is the same, however. The garment looked very expensive, not like from a costume shop.


36 posted on 08/12/2013 8:15:28 PM PDT by EinNYC
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To: sauron
I've looked and looked on the web, and this is the closest picture to what this man was wearing, only MINUS the white collar. His garment had NO sash around it. And he wore that big square cross on a sturdy chain. The cross did NOT have very rounded edges. The edges looked pretty square. I seem to recall that his garment flared out more at the bottom than this particular one, but it's close.


37 posted on 08/12/2013 9:07:26 PM PDT by EinNYC
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To: EinNYC

Only those that’s preaching for it.


38 posted on 08/13/2013 12:50:16 AM PDT by Joe Bfstplk
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Roman catholic priests in Africa are not allowed to marry.

but there are several heretical churches in Africa that use the word “catholic” in their title, that allow them to marry, and follow various African customs. similar “African” churches have protestant or Anglican roots.

These splinter groups are all over the world but are not considered part of the catholic church because usually they quickly morph into Protestantism or worse, cult like churches.

As for “African culture”: which tribe are you referring to? There are a lot of different cultures and tribes in Africa.


39 posted on 08/13/2013 1:08:50 AM PDT by LadyDoc (liberals only love politically correct poor people)
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To: MeganC

Priests in the Old Catholic Church and in the Polish National Catholic Church may marry. Neither denomination is very large so the chances of running into one of their priests may not be that high.


40 posted on 08/13/2013 9:31:46 AM PDT by Verginius Rufus
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