Posted on 01/15/2014 5:47:49 AM PST by TruthShallSetYouFree
Very wise advice, indeed-I shared joint accounts for household expenses and bills with both MrT5 and my 1st husband-that was the account my 1st husband emptied on his mid-life binge, along with selling jointly owned assets-if I hadn’t had my own account, I’d have been totally trashed.
Wow - I”m starting to see this mid=life crisis as an excuse to just act like an idiot! I have a brother in law who did this - and now can barely afford to pay his own bills AND pay off the idiotic mess he spent while out whoring....plus he will be paying alimony for the rest of his life.
Since I first worked with my compadre, and he read my resume 16 years ago, he has asked that I use my transferrable skills to keep our jobsites injury-free and to maintain a positive and cooperative atmosphere-harmony is money saved. That said, past training and education rule anyway-I think I’m hard wired that way, but I’m happy doing it...
Very smart!
The male mid-life crisis is real, to some extent, but most do use it as an excuse for totally inappropriate and even illegal behavior-I hope for the BIL’s sake that he gets his head out of his ass at some time in the near future-my 1st husband ended up murdered over a married woman in her mid 20s...
I kind of doubt that ever went through his mind when he needed to feel young and wanted! sorry but that is ridiculous isn’t it?
So, I guess I pass the ethnic test :-)
Knew it!! That was a great survey of your ethnicity!!
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