13 year NBA career, playoffs 9 times, twice in the finals. What are your real accomplishments?
Being somewhat skilled at putting a ball through a hoop, and being a Sodomite don't really register high on the list of what I'd consider to be 'accomplishments'. Maybe he was a semi-proficient entertainer.
Hopefully he has some real accomplishments under his belt (none which you or I listed) - but being a good Dad and/or husband certainly aren't any of them...