Posted on 02/06/2014 10:46:19 PM PST by Olog-hai
A teenager’s parents have been fined €3,000 by a court in Bavaria for not stopping their 13-year-old daughter having sex with her boyfriend.
The girl was 13 when she slept with her 16-year-old boyfriend and had talked about it with her parents beforehand.
Her parents told the court in Viechtach, Bavaria, on Monday that they had tried to talk her out of it but could not convince her. …
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In before the Freepers approving of the parents.
So much for negotiating with a person with an immature mindset.
Intimidation works, every time it is tried with a real sense that the consequences are certain and swift. Half-hearted persuasion is almost always a blueprint for failure.
“Her parents told the court in Viechtach, Bavaria, on Monday that they had tried to talk her out of it but could not convince her.”
Yeah, great parenting. A kid says no, so you throw up your hands and say, “We tried!” Idiots. Why does this girl have a boyfriend? Why was she even alone with this boy? If they knew she intended it, why wouldn’t they ship her off somewhere or something?
Mentally incapable of handling a 13 yr old?
Emotionally incapable of handling a 13 yr old?
How about physically handling the 16 yr old right out the freakin' door?
“How about physically handling the 16 yr old right out the freakin’ door?”
With a nice sharp weapon...
Was there a father anywhere? This 16 year old boy would not be walking had he spent unsupervised time alone with my 13 year old daughter. Chances are in the EU, though, a father would be arrested for violating some “right” for his daughter to slut around or the boy to nail 13 year olds.
Ten Simple Rules for Dating my Daughter
Rule One :
If you pull into my driveway and honk you’d better be delivering a package, because you’re sure not picking anything up.
Rule Two :
You do not touch my daughter in front of me. You may glance at her, so long as you do not peer at anything below her neck. If you cannot keep your eyes or hands off of my daughter’s body, I will remove them.
Rule Three :
I am aware that it is considered fashionable for boys your age to wear their trousers so loose that they appear to be falling off. Please don’t take this as an insult, but you and all of your friends are complete idiots. Still, I want to be fair and open minded about this issue, so I propose this compromise: You may come to the door with your underwear showing and your pants ten sizes too big, and I will not object. However, to ensure that your clothes do not, in fact, come off during your date with my daughter, I will use my electric nail gun and fasten your trousers securely to your waist.
Rule Four :
I’m sure you’ve been told that in today’s world, sex without utilizing a “barrier method” of some kind can kill you. Let me elaborate, when it comes to sex, I am the barrier, and I will kill you.
Rule Five :
In order for us to get to know each other, we should talk about sports, politics, and other issues of the day. Please do not do this. The only information I require from you is an indication of when you expect to have my daughter safely back at my house, and the only word I need from you on this subject is “early.”
Rule Six :
I have no doubt you are a popular fellow, with many opportunities to date other girls. This is fine with me as long as it is okay with my daughter. Otherwise, once you have gone out with my little girl, you will continue to date no one but her until she is finished with you. If you make her cry, I will make you cry.
Rule Seven :
As you stand in my front hallway, waiting for my daughter to appear, and more than an hour goes by, do not sigh and fidget. If you want to be on time for the movie, you should not be dating. My daughter is putting on her makeup, a process that can take longer than painting the Golden Gate Bridge. Instead of just standing there, why don’t you do something useful, like changing the oil in my car?
Rule Eight :
The following places are not appropriate for a date with my daughter: Places where there are beds, sofas, or anything softer than a wooden stool. Places where there are no parents, policemen, or nuns within eyesight. Places where there is darkness. Places where there is dancing, holding hands, or happiness. Places where the ambient temperature is warm enough for my daughter to wear shorts, tank tops, midriff T-shirts, or anything other than overalls, a sweater, and a goose down parka zipped up to her throat. Movies with a strong romantic or sexual theme are to be avoided; movies which features chain saws are okay. Hockey games are okay. Old folks homes are better.
Rule Nine :
Do not lie to me. I may appear to be a potbellied, balding, middle-aged, dimwitted has-been. But on issues relating to my daughter, I am the all-knowing, merciless god of your universe. If I ask you where you are going and with whom, you have one chance to tell me the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I have a shotgun, a shovel, and five acres behind the house. Do not trifle with me.
Rule Ten :
Be afraid. Be very afraid. It takes very little for me to mistake the sound of your car in the driveway for a chopper coming in over a rice paddy outside of Hanoi. When my Agent Orange starts acting up, the voices in my head frequently tell me to clean the guns as I wait for you to bring my daughter home. As soon as you pull into the driveway you should exit your car with both hands in plain sight. Speak the perimeter password, announce in a clear voice that you have brought my daughter home safely and early, then return to your car—there is no need for you to come inside. The camouflaged face watching you from the window is mine.
I can’t speak to the quality of the parenting, but strong-willed kids will find a way, damn the consequences. Unless anybody here will seriously suggest locking the kid up until they are 18, and slide food under the door and provide two buckets for washing and bathroom, some kids are going to do what they want no matter what.
How many Freeper’s kids have had kids before they were of age or in a marriage?
I have two daughters, and I’d have no problems putting the fear of God into some idiot. When my girls are a bit older I’ll be telling them to save it for marriage. They’ll only be allowed to marry conservative christian men too.
I agree with you. There are plenty of blowhards on here that think they can make a kid do anything and everything. The fact is a kid will do what they want unless you are locking them up until they are 18. And then the parent will end up in jail.
Don't let liberals convince you that you can not raise your children properly.
I didn’t say you couldn’t raise a child properly. You can’t be with them 24/7 to stop them from doing something stupid.
Yes. That would be statutory rape, and the parents would be helping it happen. Jail for the parents.
Start parenting when your babies are babies, throw out the TV before they are born, home school them and associate with others of like mind, instruct them in the ways of the world, in every situation let them know you are in control, direct and guide their path, when they are 18 or whatever age you deem appropriate let them go if that’s what they want.
For a parent none of this should be a sacrifice, if it is, you might as well let the village raise them.
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
Good
I have two daughters, and I’d have no problems putting the fear of God into some idiot. When my girls are a bit older I’ll be telling them to save it for marriage. They’ll only be allowed to marry conservative christian men too.
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Your daughters must still be pretty young.
You can tell your kids lots of things. They’ll do (usually) what they darn well please.
good luck with your marriage plans.
Raise them in God’s word, pray for them, teach them value, do my best to set them up for success in life, no luck involved.
they had tried to talk her out of it
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HELLO ???
shes 13 just a baby...underage...
youre responsible for her welfare...
lock the doors and keep her home..
if she insists on sneaking out get the law involved...
if your local juvie judges are like the ones here in TN they will soon tell her shes to toe the line or go to Juvie hall etc...
trying to talk to a teenager after you’ve spent years teaching her you dont have any authority is like trying to communicate to a man from Africa who only speaks Swahili..
Authority either starts the day the child is born or you’ve lost it for good...
spanking a naughty little bottom is good for the child..
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