Skip to comments.8 reasons why New York women canít get a husband
Posted on 03/13/2014 10:30:55 AM PDT by george76
Last year, Susan Patton, a Princeton grad and the mother of two sons at the elite college, outraged feminists when she wrote an open letter to the Daily Princetonian telling female students to find a husband on campus before they graduate.
The red alert which argued that these Ivy League college girls would never again be surrounded by this concentration of men who would be worthy of you went viral with more than 100 million hits.
even in the dog-eat-dog dating jungle that is New York, there is hope for single career women between the ages of 22 and 35 (yes, thats her cutoff) who also want marriage and babies.
These women are spinsters-in-training, but they can turn it around
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The real problem is an unwillingness to stand on their own two feet. It’s not like they’re in a position to ‘be taken care of’ since for women that means a rich doormat who is willing to be a new ‘daddy’ for their spoiled wishes.
Anything that angers feminazis is good.
At the risk of being flamed, a lot of men create a lot of baggage for themselves when they sleep around and it ends up being one big mess.
Grab the guys before they get into the real world and find out what obnoxious, self-absorbed beeaches you really are.
My sons and his friends say that all the girls want men as “friends”.
No interest in the future or children.
Wow, I am sure Boston is similar.
Well, a lot of the girls have been let down by their families. I can’t say I’m surprised.
The real issue here, to me, is that a lot of girls have been taught that they have to rely on themselves (and as shown by divorce statistics it’s a natural lesson) and I wonder if having to grow up too fast has a lot to do with it.
Reason No. 1
No one wants to marry a liberal bitch.
I think the liberal ladies need to start getting out more and stop expecting the men to come to them.
The real issue here, to me, is that a lot of girls have been taught that they have to rely on themselves (and as shown by divorce statistics its a natural lesson) and I wonder if having to grow up too fast has a lot to do with it.
I think there is a truth to that. My daughters had to grow very quickly when the spouse crashed and burned with alcohol...and continues to this day.
Yeah that too.
However the oldest married at 24, the 21 year old is traveling the world in missions and looking. The son is looking for the right girl. The youngest is something else.
How about a higher than normal percentage of NYC women have herpes and other STDs?
Good for them!
If I wasn’t at work I would post that feminist in your face meme.
real women want a nice man who will treat them right and they will treat right.
And they despise women who found that
Sarah Palin is exhibit A
the guys are coming aren’t completely blameless either that is why younger women are going for men older than them.
Why would any man want to marry an overused woman who might have decided her sleep-around years were over?
I want a guy I can treat right and who will treat me right. I am not some snotty feminist and I had a feminist hypocrite for a stepmother. So no feminist loving here.
Why be so cruel?
“the guys are coming arent completely blameless either that is why younger women are going for men older than them.”
It’s too bad since I think those of similar age should be married.
Spinsters? Well worn sluts are NOT spinsters
Guys should just be single then wait until they are 35 and find someone younger unless you can be sure that she is a good catch.
Seriously, dont let women think they are made of gold, and that you cant live without them. Make them desperate for once and maybe they will get some sense. Enjoy your money and freedom while you are young. Age favors men.
Yes and same thing with women
I agree there; I wonder how many of these women having problems finding nice men are the ones with almost as many lovers as Lindsay Lohan.
I will give them a reason. See me? No? That’s why. I LIVed and worked in NYC for years and never received a glance from one of these “girls.” I was too ugly, too short, too bald, too Jewish, too hairy, not the best dresser, dont have a 6 figure income. Even though I could carry on an intelligent conversation, you “girls” were looking for George Clooney.
Well, I was not Clooney. I met a pretty girl in a bar, and while she had no interest in me, I kept her engaged long enough to get her number and get a date. She outright told me she was humoring me and we probably wouldn’t get past drinks.
That was 25 years and two children ago.
Want some advice? Stop being superficial.
Oh I didn’t mean to imply you were a feminist
Quite the opposite
You are a real woman who wants a real things out of men in return
There’s a lot of free milk out there.
Want some advice? Stop being superficial.
Oldest was engaged to a “dreamboat”. She is gorgeous and he was blindingly handsome.
She ended up married to a regular looking guy (no dreamboat) who loves her dearly, who shares her values, who wants a family, who is brave and takes care of her.
I wish men would stop the superficiality. I have a beautiful overweight daughter who would probably be any man’s dreamboat wife, she is intelligent, attractive, funny, devoted, kind and beautiful both inside and out.
American men don’t give her a second glance.
1. They are too ugly
2. They are too pushy
3. They don’t know when to shut up
4. They are feminists
5. They don’t know how to treat a man
6. They don’t have social skills
7. They have that New York nasle twang
8. It’s just too complicated in NYC
My experiences with women from NooYawk lead me to conclude at least these four reasons may be to blame:
1. The shrill, whiny, nasally voices.
2. High maintenance costs.
3. They never shut up.
4. Too many think Maureen Dowd is the greatest writer ever published.
“Wow, I am sure Boston is similar.”
Reminds me of the scene in the movie Ted — Couldn’t watch the whole movie...but I did see this scene:
Ted: Look, all I’m sayin’ is that Boston women are, on the whole, a paler, uglier sort than women from the else where’s of life.
John Bennett: They’re not that bad.
Ted: See, the fact that you have to say; ‘they’re not that bad’, means that they are that bad.
New York City (Manhattan or Brooklyn) is not a normal place. Its like a giant university campus. Driven and motivated people go there for a period, are focused nearly totally on themselves, live in tiny, expensive boxes, are surrounded by brain-dead leftists and their ideas and lifestyles, and expect to leave eventually after gaining something (a career, money, whatever)
You don’t go there to meet normal, well-adjusted people with whom you can expect to spend the rest of your life.
LOL. We were thinking along the same lines at the same time.
Best post on the subject.
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, all is forgiven!
If men didn’t sleep around so much, they wouldn’t be so bitter and so reactive about dealing with ‘headcases’ that they hook up with all the time and I am certain that they are as much part of the problem.
I frankly do think that men need reasons (like for example Jodi Arias) to understand the reasons that abstinence is best. To be honest, I believe that men really need to get the real nature of women pounded into their heads and also start showing more respect for themselves.
It’s not the fault of women that men are the ones hitting on women (except in the case of lesbians), or that women have sex with them, or that women want to bond with them beyond sex. It’s not right that men complain about no decent women when there are plenty of men out there wasting their twenties with the very women they complain about.
Just don’t take it out on someone who had nothing to do with your problems.
Seems to me a self-respecting guy would prefer a woman from “flyover country” over some cranky, liberal, hive-dwelling city b!tch.
We could start with the”worthy of you” attitude.
Excellent post. Well stated.
Nope. The word for 'em nowadays is
Maybe men need to change and stop asking, begging, manipulating, bribing (via expensive dates and lavish gifts) women to give it to them.
1. They are beautiful, inside and out, and it comes from their love of God.
2. Rarely are they pushy.
3. They know when to allow someone else in the conversation.
4. They are self-reliant, yet possess a quiet self confidence that pi$$es off feminists.
5. They know how to treat their men right.
6. Their social skills are finely honed.
7. They speak with a lilt that comes from that beautiful Texas drawl.
8. They keep things simple by not sweating the small stuff.
Just my opinion from living in Texas over 30 years, and lucky enough to have snared a Texas girl to be my wife (over 25 years).
It's a bad, bad, bad, bad, bad world out there, ain't it?
The women of our species do the choosing, men react.
Its really simple
If women choose to screw around with players & thugs and ignore nice respectable men, men are going to be players & thugs.
If women choose to not screw around with players & thugs and go for nice respectable men, men are going to be nice & respectable.
9) They all have that awful nasal-y voice like Fran Drescher and Leah Remini. Nice looking women with boffo figures, but I could never be around them cause their voices are like nails on a chalkboard to me.
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