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NC megachurch pastor admits adultery after only 9 months on the job
examiner.com ^ | May 19, 2014 | Sima Ballinger

Posted on 05/20/2014 11:06:52 AM PDT by Gamecock

According to the Christian Post Monday, megachurch, Westminster Presbyterian Church (This is a PCUSA church) in Greensboro, NC will be without a senior pastor because of his recent admittance to having an affair for the entire nine months he has been the pastor. “ Weaver apologized in a letter to the Salem Presbytery: I have violated my ordination vows and my wedding vows," the 33-year-old Weaver confessed in the letter, which was mailed to the congregation on Friday by the Salem Presbytery, the regional governing body for local Presbyterian (U.S.A.) churches. "I am sorry and I ask your forgiveness.”

This young married couple seems like they had so much promise. What went wrong?

Notice the different last names. It is not uncommon for husbands and wives to have different last names, but the wife's name is not even hyphenated to include Weaver.

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1 posted on 05/20/2014 11:06:52 AM PDT by Gamecock
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To: Gamecock

2 posted on 05/20/2014 11:07:53 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: Gamecock
What went wrong?

We can start with 'PCUSA' and work our way down from there.

3 posted on 05/20/2014 11:10:03 AM PDT by tbpiper
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4 posted on 05/20/2014 11:10:07 AM PDT by Gamecock (#BringTheAdultsBackToDC)
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To: Gamecock

I expect the pastors at PCUSA churches to violate their marriage vows, even in same sex marriages.

They preach a liberal morality and pretend to live a conservative one. The hypocrisy is not in fact that these liberal feel good pastors cheat on their spouses. The hypocrites are the ones who don’t.


5 posted on 05/20/2014 11:13:25 AM PDT by P-Marlowe (There can be no Victory without a fight and no battle without wounds)
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To: P-Marlowe

They probably became pastors because they heard it was a great way to meet chicks.


6 posted on 05/20/2014 11:14:55 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: Gamecock

This thread is useless w/o pictures of both the wife and the mistress.

In other words, guilt cannot yet be determined!


7 posted on 05/20/2014 11:15:49 AM PDT by Hawthorn
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To: Gamecock

Most all megachurches are “Rock in Rool, Rockband Jesus who loves the puppies and childrens...”

They have forgoetten the times Jesus turned over the tables and kicked the corruption out of the temples, instead becomming money changers in their own right...

At best they are low rent pharisies...

At worst they are out and out money changers in frocks...


8 posted on 05/20/2014 11:16:47 AM PDT by GraceG
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To: dfwgator
They probably became pastors because they heard it was a great way to meet chicks.

Don't laugh. There's more to that thought than we'd like to acknowledge.

Let's just say that I no longer think that a young Billy Graham was paranoid for sending in advance teams to make sure no women were hiding in the hotel rooms.


9 posted on 05/20/2014 11:17:27 AM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
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To: dfwgator
They probably became pastors because they heard it was a great way to meet chicks.

That would be the female pastors. The male pastors probably heard it was a great way to meet boys.

10 posted on 05/20/2014 11:17:37 AM PDT by P-Marlowe (There can be no Victory without a fight and no battle without wounds)
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To: Buckeye McFrog
Don't laugh. There's more to that thought than we'd like to acknowledge.

Oh believe me, I know there's a lot of truth to that.

11 posted on 05/20/2014 11:18:49 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: Gamecock

I grew up in the surrounding neighborhood and earned my Eagle Scout rank in Troop 101, which is sponsored by this church and meets in the Fellowship Hall.

Interesting that the pastor was black — the church is almost all white.

I had no idea Westminster was a “mega-church”. First Presbyterian Church downtown is where I used to go and it has had 4000+ members since I can remember.


12 posted on 05/20/2014 11:19:35 AM PDT by Andy from Chapel Hill
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To: GraceG

There are pleanty of “mega” church’s that have Godley pastors and leaders. Mega is not synomunous with cheater.


13 posted on 05/20/2014 11:31:47 AM PDT by Coldwater Creek
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To: Coldwater Creek

synonymous


14 posted on 05/20/2014 11:36:12 AM PDT by Coldwater Creek
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To: Andy from Chapel Hill
First Presbyterian Church downtown is where I used to go and it has had 4000+ members since I can remember.

2000 is the usual figure I hear, as definitional for a "megachurch". Wikipedia, that font of all knowledge (YMMV), agrees.

A megachurch is a term used (primarily in the United States) to describe a Protestant church having 2,000[1] or more[2] persons in average weekend attendance.[3]

15 posted on 05/20/2014 11:52:07 AM PDT by Lee N. Field ("And if you are Christ's, then you are Abraham's offspring, heirs according to promise" Gal 3:29)
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To: Gamecock
According to the Christian Post Monday, megachurch, Westminster Presbyterian Church (This is a PCUSA church) in Greensboro, NC will be without a senior pastor because of his recent admittance to having an affair for the entire nine months he has been the pastor. “ Weaver apologized in a letter to the Salem Presbytery: I have violated my ordination vows and my wedding vows," the 33-year-old Weaver confessed in the letter, which was mailed to the congregation on Friday by the Salem Presbytery, the regional governing body for local Presbyterian (U.S.A.) churches. "I am sorry and I ask your forgiveness.”

IMO 33 years old is too young for a senior pastor.

16 posted on 05/20/2014 12:09:02 PM PDT by Alex Murphy ("the defacto Leader of the FR Calvinist Protestant Brigades")
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To: Coldwater Creek

Oh thats cool. I thought synomunous was just the Spainish spelling. NP!


17 posted on 05/20/2014 12:29:12 PM PDT by DariusBane (Liberty and Risk. Flip sides of the same coin. So how much risk will YOU accept? Vive Deco et Vives)
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To: Gamecock

Back during my easily influenced adolescence, our pastor ran off with my father’s secretary.

That episode schooled me to expect a lot less, from people including pastors.

It can be a lucrative career, for charismatic self-promoters.


18 posted on 05/20/2014 3:31:21 PM PDT by truth_seeker
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To: Alex Murphy

Agree~


19 posted on 05/20/2014 6:11:52 PM PDT by Gamecock (#BringTheAdultsBackToDC)
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To: Alex Murphy; Gamecock
IMO 33 years old is too young for a senior pastor.

Our Methodist system is itinerant with many smaller churches having only one pastor who is called the senior pastor. As they learn, and as there are retirements, the younger will move "up" (if qualified) to a slightly larger church, and the recently ordained new young will replace them in their entry level church. There's some decent logic for it, but it is hard on churches, and just about dooms them to tread water.

Is there such a thing as a truly gifted and spirit-filled 33 year old who has the maturity to senior pastor a large church with a large multi-pastor staff? It would be the exception, so for the most part, I'm in agreement with you.

Since this is PCUSA, my guess is that some higher up was fast-tracking this young pastor, and his sexual promiscuity suggests a reason why.

20 posted on 05/21/2014 10:06:04 AM PDT by xzins ( Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Those who truly support our troops pray for victory!)
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