Skip to comments.I Divorced my Husband and Married the Au Pair
Posted on 06/30/2014 11:40:39 AM PDT by nickcarraway
When Michele Macfarlane started to lose her eyesight, she got an au pair to help with the children. But she fell in love with the younger woman and realised she was gay
It's a well-worn cliche to fear the arrival of an attractive au pair. The threat, it is assumed, is always that the husband will stray. "There is so much written about this," Michele Macfarlane says, laughing. "I remember that early on I said to my mother, 'You know, I think our new au pair is gay.'
Tell us what you think: Star-rate and review this book "My mum joked, 'Well, if she is gay, that's a good thing. At least you won't have the problem of your husband running off with the au pair.'"
In the end, as the title of Macfarlane's account puts it bluntly, her story has a different ending: I Left My Husband for the Au Pair. When the au pair, Marizette arrives, Macfarlane emails a friend: "She's done a lot of competitive sport so she's nicely built tall with broad shoulders, a flat tummy and strong arms." Massive alarm bells.
Although she was born in South Africa, Macfarlane, 46, is British, having spent half of her life here. She and her former husband, Peter, who is a chiropractor, met as drama students in Coventry. They started a family in their early 20s. By 24, Macfarlane was a full-time mother. In her early 30s, the whole family moved to Cape Town.
(Excerpt) Read more at theguardian.com ...
How special. The husband should consider this a blessing in disguise. And I hope he’s protected his assets.
So we have a puff piece pushing homosexual marriage???
And I would want to read this story because...?
Don’t hire an au pair if you want to keep your marriage?
Well, it’s an indication of what the left is doing. How come straight people can, “become gay,” at any point in their life, but even thinking a gay person could, “become straight,” is illegal?
Apparently nothing wrong with breaking a husband’s heart and wrecking your children’s lives if you are gay.
So, she’s a lesbian and a POS. Go figure.
I guess wedding vows truly mean something.....until they don’t.
ha!! Took me a while to figure out why ‘piscopo’ was a keyword
Au Pairs come and Au Pairs go . Perfect job for a Lesbian Au Pair
Warning: Do not click on link for a picture
Awwwww, but you’re missing the “cuteness” of it, you wacky heteronorm.
"Honey! I just realized that I'm gay! And I'm moving out tomorrow! Tee Hee! (Twirls hair around finger)". Or, at least that's how this excerpt reads.
But, she's gay, and female, (and cute? I didn't read the article) so she's excused. Men who drop their wives for their secretaries, though, are inexcusable bastards who likely should be executed on sight.
Correction-- mentally disordered.
I’d bet the farm that she has had homosexual experience(s) before.
What a double standard.
A man that leaves is a scum bag.
A woman that leaves is celebrated.
Evil is not good.
No, he was kicked out of the house.
Now he has two dykes to support.
So unsurprising the dykes got custody.
I clicked on the link. They look like typical English women. No surprise.
They look like poster girls for the Lesbian Association of the United Kingdom.
Based on the photo, a more accurate headline would be: I divorced my husband and became a pear.
If she was gay she wouldn’t have had kids naturally with an icky man....
What she is? Non compos mentis.
And, of course, see the narcissism exhibited in the fact that the two look exactly alike. Sort of like doin’ yourself.
“She’s not a Au Pair anymore”. Would you let her in your house?
” I Left My Husband for the Au Pair”
Sounds like a story on the cover of cosmopolitan.
A hideous idea.
They look like two gay guys that too much estrogen.
I tell New Fathers
Beware the Babysitter
Nothing but Trouble
New fathers are feeling isolated and stressed. Often their wives are not paying much attention to them. Add to the mix a young attractive woman, whom they deal with on a personal level on a daily basis, it is not uncommon for them to transfer affection and wind up with inappropriate attraction to the babysitter.
Men should be made aware of this pitfall, and understand what it all means and what they should do about it, which is to keep an arms-distance relationship with any woman not your wife and realize that any attraction is likely the result of stress and lack of sleep. It is certainly nothing worth ruining your life over.
Any video ?
What a “screwed-up” individual.
Needless to say, the same applies to the mother in this case. Losing her sight is no doubt very stressful. Now she adds to that the stress of divorce. What happens when the Au Pair dumps her next year?
“From the article. She didnt know it. She said.”
People who suffer from mental, spiritual, and moral disorders tend to lie...a lot.
Already happened. They adopted a baby first. Now she is with another woman.
Been doing, actually. For quite some time.
Freshman year of undergrad I had a movie inflicted upon me in the mandatory Cinema Arts class. Plot was that a stuffy middle aged suburban housewife goes for a weeks getaway vaction at a Western dude ranch. Where the ranch’s younger and more attractive female owner awakens the housewife to the knowlege that she’s really gay.
With the “awakening” scene leaving very little to the imagination.
Crappy movie, actually, although it took me a while to get what the real underlying message was ...
So this woman, who would benefit greatly from having a devoted and helpful spouse to help her cope with the loss of her eyesight, flushed all that away for a brief fling with the babysitter.
How this is story is anything but tragic is beyond my understanding.
Maybe her ex-husband will be a stand-up guy and take her back, which would be far more than she deserves.
No, she made it clear she wants nothing to do with men, and she has a new woman in her life.
Now Macfarlane lives with a new (female) partner, Skye Grove, 46, a communications manager, in Cape Town with five children.
With that name, she should probably be a TV weather lady.
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